Women Men Adore

Most of us think that all men want a woman who is skinny, busty, has long hair, and is beautiful. While that is easy on the eyes, it isn't really what makes a man want to be with her. (Of course, I'd be lying if I said I didn't want to be that woman.)

Men like women who are confident.

Now don't mistake confidence for arrogance. They are two completely different things. Merriam-Webster defines confidence as "the quality or state of being certain." A confident woman is certain of who she is on the inside. She doesn't need anyone to tell her for her to feel good about herself.

We have all met the beautiful, visually perfect woman, who is a size 0, and complains about being fat. I always thought this type of woman was just fishing for complements, but I don't think that is the case. This woman, gorgeous and perfect as she is, is insecure and is just voicing her insecurities. The only problem with verbalizing your weaknesses is that it turns men off.

They like a woman who feels sexy and stunning in her pajamas and messed up hair first thing in the morning. They admire a woman who isn't threatened when he doesn't call the next day, a woman who has a social life and isn't completely absorbed in him, and a woman who has her own interests.

The goal is for a man and a woman to complement each other, not complete each other like the cliche says. When you complement someone, you are still yourself, but your good stuff together with theirs, makes both of you shine.

Men also love women that are soft spoken.

A woman will never be able to get through to a man by raising her voice. Men are wired for competition. As soon as they sense a challenge, its all over. Women are not made to compete with a man, we just simply can't do it.

Our men hear us loud and clear when we are being soft and approachable.

Men may want you to think that they want a woman who can change the oil in her car and reel in a 15 lb. catfish, but they really don't. They are attracted to her at first, but honestly, those are things that they can do with their guy friends. They will eventually get bored and move on.

So be careful, because they like a woman that is feminine.

Believe it or not, men adore ponytails. Personally, I think I look hideous in a ponytail, but there is something men like about being able to see a woman's neck.

They are also crazy about skirts and heels. You don't have to wear them everyday, but every once in a while is nice.

I admit it. I'm biased. Bob Grant, "The Relationship Doctor," writes great e-books. I've read all of them and think they are all awesome.

I like "The Woman Men Adore and Never Want to Leave" because it offers great information and principles to use whether you are married, dating, or just wanting to learn how to deal with men better. Any woman can benefit from it. I know personally, it has helped me tremendously.

Mr. Grant tells you how to be the woman...
* that men fall hopelessly in love with
* with whom men want to spend all their time
* that men want to please and do anything for
* who brings out the romantic and passionate side of a man; and
* to whom men want to give everything

It includes advice about how your pain makes men feel, carrying around resentment and how it can destroy a relationship, forgiveness, and other secrets to give you a great relationship and be "The Woman Men Adore..."