The Body Language of Attraction

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The Body Language of Attraction

What do Sean Connery, Brad Pitt, Bruce Willis, and George Clooney all have in common?

Well these guys all demonstrate the signs of the prototypical Alpha Male.  Without saying a word, they're able to show confidence and sexuality simply through their body language.  So these guys are able to demonstrate the ultimate body language of attraction

Now I know what's probably running through your head...

You might think that women are attracted to these guys because of their fame, looks or money.  But you're wrong.  I would bet if you took away all of these things, women would STILL be attracted to these actors.

Why's that?

Well it's simple- these guys know how to show alpha male traits around women.  Surprisingly enough, you can learn how to do the same!

If you keep on reading, I'll reveal the secrets of how to become an alpha male with your body language. If you incorporate these 6 tips, you'll be able to transform yourself into a seductive guy who can easily attract women.

1- Get rid of 'Beta Male' traits


Before you can become an alpha male, you must ditch all the body language traits which show weakness and inferior status.  For instance, you should stop doing these things:

* Putting your hands in your pockets

* Fidgeting with your hands or fingers

* Slumping your shoulders down

* Folding your arms

* Looking uncomfortable

* Being afraid to take up space


If you can detect these mistakes and work hard to correct them, you'll instantly start to show more alpha male traits.

2- Be confident

There is ONE thing about being an alpha male you should always remember…

Women love confidence!

If you display confidence with your body language, you'll easily impress women.  In order to show this alpha male behavior, you need to be calm and poised at all times.

Now if you have a problem with your confidence, I recommend you make an effort to fix it.  So look within and find out what's causing these unconfident feelings.  Then work hard at fixing them.

3- Don't worry be happy

A lot of "Beta Male" characteristics stem from nervousness and tension.  If you want to act like an alpha male, you must learn to never worry about the outcome with a female.

Just remember that the dating game is not a life and death situation.  So relax and enjoy your interactions with women. 

Please understand that the body displays what the mind is thinking.  By worrying and being nervous, you'll display inferior body language. Once you remove your anxiety you'll display a more alpha male personality.

4- Be relaxed


The alpha male ALWAYS shows a relaxed pose in every situation.  So if you want to display alpha male behavior, you need to learn how to chill around women.  Here are a few ways to do this:

* Your eyes concentrated on the person in the conversation

* You never let your eyes dart around the room

* You know how to lean back and look comfortable

* You breath through your stomach instead of your chest


By showing a relaxed pose, you'll easily make women more comfortable around you. 

5- You move deliberately

The beta male is always jumpy and ready to please people. 

Honestly, one of the core traits of a beta male is somebody who is instantly ready to do favors for people.  If somebody needs help, the beta male will instantly come running. 

Instead of showing this personality, you need to move slowly and at your own pace.  By taking deliberate actions with every step, you'll force people to pay attention to your schedule not theirs.

If you want to attract more women, you must learn how to become an alpha male.  By learning how to demonstrate this quality, you'll create a "movie star" quality about yourself.  Then women will be pulled towards your magnetic personality.

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How to Display Confident Body Language Around Women 

As you probably know by now, women are attracted to men who act like MEN. In fact, the one thing women find really attractive in men is their strength. Now when I say strength, I don't mean physical prowess and a large muscular body.

Instead I'm talking about strength as a personality trait which can magnetically draw women to you. A strong guy can be someone a woman can look to for protection or advice. In essence, his personality can protect her from her concerns.

So how do cultivate this personality trait?

Well it's simple...

All you have to do is work on your ability to become a competent guy in every activity or thing incorporate into your life.

Instead of acting unsure about your life, you should eliminate all the wishy-washy body language behaviors you have. In addition, it's important to stop displaying the body language traits which projects an unsure attitude.

For instance some wussy behaviors could include:

* Stuttering or stammering when nervous

* Being indecisive about what you want to do

* Look to others for cues about what to do

* Following not leading your friends

In addition to your body language there are certain phrases which demonstrate a lack of competence. When you say weak phrases you're showing a lack of confidence in your personality. So ditch all the phrases you say like:

* "I don't know"

* "I'm not sure"

* "Maybe" or "Probably"

Your ultimate goal is to be perceived as a strong person who can make instant decisions with force and conviction. And once you've cultivated this personality, you'll instantly become a strong and attractive guy.

Additional Resources 

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