Planning a Bridal Shower - Bridal Shower Themes, Invitations, Games and Ideas

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Planning a Fun Bridal Shower

Are you ready to put together a fun, memorable bridal shower? I've got everything right here to help you get organized. From checklists to guest lists, I will help you become the hostess with the mostess.

My only advice? Set aside 3 weeks for planning, sending invitations, and purchasing supplies.

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Week 1: Organizing the Bridal Shower

What's Expected?
Traditionally, a bridal shower takes place during the day time, and brings family and friends from all aspects of the bride-to-be's life together in one place. So one main goal, is to break the ice. Here is a sample format you can follow for your bridal shower that does just that:

  • Welcome the guests
  • An ice-breaker game or activity
  • Serve food or have a buffet service
  • Another game or activity
  • Open gifts
  • Serve cake

Crunching the Numbers
Here are the 8 major costs you should budget for when planning a bridal shower:

  1. Invitations
  2. Favors
  3. Pictures and film developing
  4. Food and beverages
  5. Cake
  6. Paper plates, cups, napkins, utensils, etc.
  7. Decorations: streamers, balloons, flowers, etc.
  8. Games and prizes

Create the Guest List
Anyone on the wedding guest list can be included, but if you need to shorten the list, invite close family and friends that are in town - or just the women.


Bridal Shower Games & Activities

The Deluxe Bridal Shower Games Collection

The Deluxe Bridal Shower Games Collection

The Deluxe Bridal Shower Games Collection contains over 75 printable games with answers that you print right from your computer. Includes every bridal and bachelorette game we make! From bingo games to trivia games, and our most popular games like "How To Be A Good Wife" and "Things In The Bride's Purse".we've got you covered! No limit to the number of printouts you can make. Print one game or print them all. Access using your email address & password after purchase. Return to print at your own convenience. Membership with unlimited printouts for one full year.

Table Topics Bridal Shower Game

Table Topics Bridal Shower Game

Ready to have some fun? This table topics bridal shower game will not only provide fun and entertainment, it'll also be a great way to see just how well you know the bride or couple to be.

Bridal Shower Games Bundle

Bridal Shower Games Bundle

Throw a fabulously fun bridal shower with our bridal shower games bundle pack. The bundle pack comes with bridal bingo, scratch-off tickets, raffles, keepsake notes and other bridal party supplies.

Bridal Bingo

Bridal Bingo

We've taken the Classic Game of Bingo and pre-filled the Bingo card with Wedding items. And with our Game Card Generator, you get a different Bridal Bingo Card for each guest - even if you have 200 guests! Just tell it how many guests you have, change any of the baby items and words, and it makes them all for you! Second and third versions included which allows you to customize the game and choose your own words or have blank squares! Call Card included.

Bridal Trivia

Bridal Trivia

This and that terrific trivia teasers designed to challenge your guests on a wide range of subjects all having to do with weddings, of course! Answer key included.

Bachelorette Bingo

Bachelorette Bingo

This is your classic Bingo game pre-filled with "Naughty" items to get the Party started off with a bang. With our Game Card Generator, you get a different Bachelorette Bingo Card for each player - even if you have 200 players! Call Card included.

Finding Mr. Wright

Finding Mr. Wright

This hilarious gift passing game has everyone scrambling as they listen for you to say right or left while you read about Mr. Wright and his bride to be. This game is 100% participation and 100% fun for all ages! The guests' who end up with the gifts in the end get to keep them. You'll need several gifts for this game, but it's more than worth it.

Who Knows The Bride? Who Knows The Groom?

Who Knows The Bride? Who Knows The Groom?

Think you know the Bride the best? You might be surprised! Have guests fill out this questionnaire about the Bride-to-be and find out who really knows the Bride best. Plus, get the men together to play Who Knows The Groom? - it's the perfect game solution for a couples shower! Two versions included for each, Answer keys included.

Wedding Word Scramble

Wedding Word Scramble

Guests race to unscramble various Wedding and Kitchen Items in this popular Bridal Shower Game. Don't be fooled, this game can stump even the best! Answer key included.

Advice For The Newlyweds

Advice For The Newlyweds

Pass along your best advice to the Newlyweds with a little twist! Get your creative juices flowing as you offer advice using the Bride's name. Just enter her name and it's automatically created for you. Collect the advice after the shower for a memorable addition to the Newlywed's scrapbook!

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Bachelorette Party Kits

Bachelorette Party Kit - The Drunken Night In

Bachelorette Party Kit - The Drunken Night In

If you're planning an at-home bachelorette party, you'll need decorations, drinking recipes and supplies, games, and candy. To make your shopping experience a breeze, pick up The Drunken Night In Kit. The Drunken Night In Bachelorette Party Kit contains everything you need for that wild house party that your guests will be talking about for years to come. The Drunken Night pack includes: Multicolored Pecker Party Balloons Decorate your house with the Pecker Party Balloons. Rainbow Pecker Straws The Pecker Parties are a bachelorette party must-have. Serve your mixed drinks with pecker straws and hilarity ensues. Two Penis Shotglass Necklaces Give your bachelorette and maid of honor these shot glasses to make sure they're never without their favorite alcohol. Pecker Dooby Boppers The Pecker Dooby Boppers are hilarious. This penis tiara will make for some great pictures. Willie Name Tags The Willie Name Tags are silly and fun. Each willie has a different shape and length. Pink Pecker Drink Shaker Mix your shots in style with the Pink Pecker Drink Shaker. X-Rated Shots Book This book of naughty shots is one of our bestsellers. Jello Shot Cups Everyone loves jello shots. There are 25 jello shot cups and lids in this set. Peckermints The Peckermints are tasty treats that all of your guests can enjoy. Penis Pop Bouquet No bachelorette party is complete without some kind of penis pop! The Penis Pop Bouquet is lovely, tasty and raunchy. Pecker Ring Toss The Pecker Ring Toss is a glow-in-the-dark ring toss game that's fun to play inside or out. Pin the Macho on the Man Game Our bestselling game is dirty and festive. This is our favorite game. It's fun without being too graphic. The Drunken Night In Kit is an easy and inexpensive way to make sure you have everything you need for your at-home bachelorette party.

Bachelorette Mad Libs - A Fun Bachelorette Party Game

Bachelorette Mad Libs - A Fun Bachelorette Party Game

Bachelorette Mad Libs is a carnivorous game that is silly for your Bachelorette Carnival. It is a surefire way to get your lobsters laughing. Bachelorette Mad Libs is especially tailored to each person's toenails and each round is completely poor from the last. It is the bride's last night of swing sets before the broom. Doesn't she deserve a word play game in her libido? Translation: Bachelorette Mad Libs is a fast paced game that is perfect for your Bachelorette Party. It is a surefire way to get your friends laughing. Bachelorette Mad Libs is especially tailored to each person's personality and each round is completely different from the last. It is the bride's last night of freedom before the wedding. Doesn't she deserve a word play game in her honor? These things are awesome.

The Good Girl Bachelorette Party Kit

The Good Girl Bachelorette Party Kit

Looking for a great kit for the bachelorette party? Is the bride-to-be somewhat of a princess? Has she always done the right thing? Is she constantly dressed in all white with a beaming halo over her head? The Good Girl Kit may be for her. With these items you can dress her up nicely. Included in this kit: Our own bachelorette party veil. Nice and full and fluffy. A Flashing Bride-To-Be Sash. A 100 carat engagement ring. An inflatable princess wand. Carrying this wand makes magical things happen. Recycled packaging materials, because Good Girls are nice to the planet. You can order this entire kit with just a few clicks.

Bachelorette Party In A Box - Huge and Easy - Just Like The Men I Like

Bachelorette Party In A Box - Huge and Easy - Just Like The Men I Like

The Bachelorette Party In A Box has everything you might need for the best bachelorette party ever! This party kit contains over 100 items, enough for 8 bachelorette party guests. Just look at everything you get! Contained in the box are: 8 Pecker Sipping Straws 8 Sets of Pecker Party Ware 1 Pecker Party Serving Tray 1 Table Cloth 1 Flag Banner 8 Paper Hats 8 Paper Cups 8 Paper Plates 8 Napkins 1 Laser Banner 8 Paper Table Place Mats 1 Bachelorette Party Gift Wrap 8 Bachelorette Party Invitations 1 Bachelorette Party Center "Piece" 8 Bachelorette Party Loot Bags 1 Bachelorette Party Gift Bag 1 Pin The Macho On The Man Game 1 Penis Ice Cube Mold 1 Nudie Doodle Pad 1 Deck of Nude Male Playing Cards 1 Mystery Gag Gift

Bachelorette Neck Tie - Pink

Bachelorette Neck Tie - Pink

The Pink Bachelorette Devil Tie expresses the Bachelorette's sassy style and ability to have good time. The tie is pink and silky, with the word, "BACHELORETTE" written in black going down the center. Around the word, there are a pair of red glittery devil horns and a spiked tail at the bottom. You little devil, you! The Pink Devil Tie is also available in Bridesmaid and Maid of Honor. Why do everything the traditional way? It's your party, do something different!

Bachelorette Party Drinking Dice

Bachelorette Party Drinking Dice

Bachelorette Bar Dice comes with two very unique dice that will always keep you guessing! This is a very fun and crazy game to play with all the girls in the Bachelorette Party. The first die tells you who drinks. Each side has a specific rule for calling out the person(s) who has to carry out the actions. For example, one side makes all the blondes drink. Another one says the person to the right drinks, or all the brunettes. The second die tells you what that person(s) has to do. Each side tells how much they have to drink, what they have to do, or what rules to follow. Sounds like a guarantee everyone will be having a good time out!

Girls Night Out Bachelorette Party Kit

Girls Night Out Bachelorette Party Kit

This Girls' Night Out Bachelorette Party Kit is a stylin' little collection that includes: a sasha tiaraa giant engagement ring8 stickersa centerpiece for your dinner table

Week 2: Invitations, Decorations and Entertainment

Pick a Theme
A theme can serve as inspiration for decorations and games, even the invitations, favors and nametags. It makes planning and preparation simpler to have one central theme. For some great ideas and inspiration, here are some of our favorites: Bridal Shower Themes.

Plan the Entertainment
As mentioned above, games are a great way to get guests who may not know each other, to interact. They're great ice-breakers and can really set the mood for your bridal shower. About three games for a two-hour shower are just right. Bridal shower games should be the fun part of planning your shower, so don't wait until the last minute to think about them! Here are some of our favorites: Bridal Shower Games.

Invitations
Now is the time to finalize the guest list and get those invitations sent out! Invitations to any bridal shower are the guests' first clue to the theme of the bridal shower. Pick invitations that reflect the theme, and don't forget to include any special instructions or requests. Here are some fun invitations you can print out yourself: Free Bridal Shower Invitations

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Bridal Shower Party Favors

Gerber Bridal Shower Mint Tin Favors

Gerber Bridal Shower Mint Tin Favors

We can personalized these beautiful bridal shower tin mints in the design that will perfectly match your bridal shower theme and personality. These mints make perfect personalized bridal shower guest favors. You may also choose tin color and candy filling for this tin mint bridal shower favor. Size: 2.25"W x 1.75"H x 0.5"DMinimum purchase is 36 per order. Image and personalization text will appear on a label attached to the mint tin container.

Personalized Wedding Mint Favors - Bridal Shower Favors

Personalized Wedding Mint Favors - Bridal Shower Favors

Personalized wedding mints in these new chic designs. Each personalized wedding mints comes in a hinged tin. Each tin are generously filled with a delicious and refreshing peppermints that is sure to please your guest. Size: Tin is a palm size of 2.4 W x 1.9 L x 0.6 H Peppermints are round 3/8 diameter-white mints. Each personalized wedding mint tins are individually shrink wrapped. Minimum order is 30 pieces per design. Image and personalization text will appear on a label attached to the mint tin container.

Vanilla Pear Bridal Shower Soap Favor

Vanilla Pear Bridal Shower Soap Favor

White Vanilla Pear Single Soap. Sweet notes of vanilla intermingle with juicy pear and subtle hints of cedar. Oatmeal is also added for exfoliation. White pear come nestled with a leaf-shaped porcelain dish. Dish size: Approx. 4.5" Long x 3.5" Width Soap size: Approx. 3" Tall

Robins Egg Bridal Shower Soap Favor

Robins Egg Bridal Shower Soap Favor

6 Robins eggs in Standard Glass. This vegetable based, French-milled soap is imbued with the soothing extracts of chamomile and meadowsweet. Oatmeal and wheat bran give these eggs their exfoliating speckles. Six one ounce Eggs in Apothecary Jar. Glass jar size: 6.75" tall and 3" diameter Eng soap size: Approx. 2" Long

Personalized Bridal Shower Gel Favors

Personalized Bridal Shower Gel Favors

Ladies, get your loofah's out! These luxurious shower gels will leave guests feeling pampered from head to toe. Scented with a flirtatious blend of sweet pea petals and violets. These ultra hip shower gels come in 1 oz. bottles, perfect for guests to take on travel. Personalized with your chosen text, color and design - a chic hand bag to show your girly side, a high heel to show your sense of style, a seashell for a beach side event, or any of our other design choices. Personalized Shower Gels arrive separate from the labels, some assembly required (attaching the self-stick labels to the cases).Size: 3.25" x 1".Due to the personalization for this product the minimum order is 24.

Personalized Cherry Blossom Hand Cream Bridal Shower Favors

Personalized Cherry Blossom Hand Cream Bridal Shower Favors

The cherry blossom has been known throughout the world to symbolize femininity and spiritual beauty. Indulge guests in these tiny cases of luxurious hand cream labeled with a delicate cherry blossom branch that shows just that! This gentle "whipped" blend of peonies, jasmine and white lilies is sure to become every girls' favorite. The perfect size to pop into your pocket or handbag for on-the-go hand replenishment. These luxurious hand cremes come personalized with your chosen text, favorite color, and delicate cherry blossom design. Personalized Hand Cremes arrive separate from the labels, some assembly required (attaching the self-stick labels to the cases).Due to the personalization for this product the minimum order is 24.Each clear plastic case has a screw on lid and measures approximately 1.2" in diameter.

Bridal Shower Gifts Favor Boxes

Bridal Shower Gifts Favor Boxes

White favor boxes feature a bride with gifts and a "Bridal Shower" design. 2" x 2" x 2". Package of 25. Price is per set of 25 bridal shower favor boxes.

Personalized Lip Balm Bridal Shower Favors

Personalized Lip Balm Bridal Shower Favors

Indulge guests in these tiny cases of luxurious vanilla flavored lip balm labeled with a design that reflects your personality. Sure to become every girl's favorite gift ever received at a bridal shower! The perfect size to pop into your pocket or handbag for on-the-go lip replenishment. These luxurious lip balms come personalized with your chosen text, color and design - a butterfly to symbolize your new life together, a diamond ring to demonstrate that your love is eternal, a shell or palm tree to show your whimsical side during a seaside or destination wedding, the Chinese love symbol for an Asian-themed wedding, or any of our other design choices. Personalized Lip Balms arrive separate from the labels, some assembly required (attaching the self-stick labels to the cases).Due to the personalization on this product, the minimum order is 24.Each clear plastic case has a screw on lid and measures approximately 1.2" in diameter.

Week 3: Final Details

Finalize the Menu and Go Shopping
Take a look at your theme and your plan, and make a list of everything you need to buy. Think about the food and beverages you're going to serve, what you're going to serve it on, what games are going to be played, party favors, decorations, are you ready? A tip on food: set the food up at different spots around the room. Put the chips on one side of the room and beverages on another. This will encourage your guests to mingle.

Confirm Reservations
If you have reservations, go ahead and confirm them. Double-check to make sure you have enough chairs, tables and dishes.

Creating Memories
Designate a photographer to capture these bridal shower moments for the bride. Set out disposable cameras at the bridal shower for the guests to snap "action shots" and then develop the film for the bride-to-be. Take a photo of each guest with the bride-to-be as they leave, and include the photo with each thank you note. Designate a gift recorder to keep track of who brought what gift, so the bride-to-be will have an easier time writing thank you notes.

Day of Shower!

Now is the time to reap the rewards of all your efforts! Greet the guests with a smile and make sure the bride-to-be gets an opportunity to meet each guest. Have fun and enjoy!
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