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What is confidence building and how you can do it today?
Do you find it difficult to approach people of authority like your boss, a famous actor or political figure? Do you find yourself obeying your partner's wishes in fear that if you upset them they might leave you? Have you ever been in a situation where you needed to be confrontational to get what you wanted, but instead backed away and accepted your fate? What about personal relationships? Do you find it difficult to approach an attractive potential partner confidently with no worry about the outcome?
So you want to be confident right? Let me tell you a little secret about confidence. It's not actually a secret, everyone knows it but few are aware of it. First let me ask you one more question. Do you need confidence to eat your favourite ice-cream or favourite food? I'm sure you'll agree the answer is ad big NO! What about brushing your teeth? How confident do you feel about brushing your teeth? I know this might seam a little goofy and at the same time I want you to understand that being confident is just like feeling nothing at all, it's not a fake pumped up feeling that most make it out to be. It's actually a non-state of mind.
When you are 100% confident you don't actually know that you're being confident.Some people believe that confidence is something you need like Popeye needs spinach. Other rumours like 'being born confident' have also been said. But if you're going to use your imagination, you might as well make it a good vision, right? How about a fantastic thought of standing in front of ten thousand people, all cheering and chanting your name, praising you for the happiness your words have just given them?
Did you like that? Well that's the start of a great confidence recipe that you might find more interesting when you see what the next step is. You see there are so many possibilities available to those who pay attention to their feelings. When you first take action, you start to open the flood gates of what's possible.
Relationships: I remember the first time I approached a girl, I was twelve, it was winter and I was sweating like I had malaria, shaking and week at the knees, my heart was pounding. I think I managed a soft 'hello' in a squeaky voice and that was the length of the conversation. What did that teach me? It taught me that what I did was make that little girl more important 'in my mind' then she actually was. I was afraid to approach her, I had already imagined her laughing at me and while turning around to get away, I imagined slipping and falling to the floor, then everyone in the room would begin laughing at me. The next day she approached me and we became the best of friends, what was all the fuss about?
Get Richard MacKenzie's amazing hypnotic download for building confidence today!
What can you do do make sure you stay confident and ready for the world?
Great results are usually achieved by taking that first step towards confidence.
Imagine presenting an award on stage to your favourite celebrity, possibly in front of the president of your country. And feeling absolutely calm, relaxed and at ease with it?
What do you think about that? One of the interesting and most effective technologies used today with confidence issues is hypnosis.
Hypnosis allows a person's own personal confidence to surface, because we were all confident once, as babies we were all unaware of danger, or embarrassment, fear... Those were all learned conditions that came later in life to protect us and keep us safe.
One of the quickest ways to get your confidence back using hypnosis is to have access to a hypnotherapist. I have had the pleasure of working with one of the United Kingdom's leading hypnotherapists.
World renowned hypnotherapist and author Richard Mackenzie has been kind enough to create a downloadable Hypnosis MP3 for confidence.
You have begun the process already by taking the time to read these words and if you're ready to feel the fears disappearing and the confidence beginning to build, then you're ready to stand proud, stand tall, demand to be heard and scream "I will not be denied!" to the world.
Get Richard MacKenzie's amazing hypnotic download for building confidence today!
Let me know what you think about confidence building
Have you had your say yet?
A great way to have your say, confidently stand proud and take back the great life you're worthy of. Post your confidence story, your ideas and even your concerns.
I want to hear from those of you who have overcome your confidence issues and from those who are still on the road of improvement. Drop in every now and then, have a read and see what others are saying about how understanding your own best way to feel confident about everything in life that makes you happy, can open up your true potential.
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evelyne
great lens! also get the free guide to building confidence in 10 easy lessons on https://www.divaeve.com Posted November 06, 2007 |
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rms
5 star lens! Posted July 25, 2007 |
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CraigPeri
Awesome. Worth 5 stars. Posted July 22, 2007 |
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ShawnsBidness
Great lens. Confidence for me comes from prayer and from helping others. Hope you'll check out some of my other lenses. Posted July 08, 2007 |
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Shar
Great Lens, I so enjoyed my visit... 5 stars! Shar Posted June 28, 2007 |
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jayaseelan
We must be confident in our self so that we can face any problem that arises.This lens is great and rated 5 stars. Posted June 28, 2007 |
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maxwellm
Confidence happens to be a very important part of one's persona.I found this lens interesting and bought the mp3 which was really very helpful.Great lens and rated it 5 stars. Posted June 28, 2007 |
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thomosh
Great lens.The lens is useful to build our self confidence with the mp3 it provides.The downloaded mp3 is good and user friendly and can really relieve our stress. Posted June 28, 2007 |
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andrew123
Great lens about self confidence.I am yet to dawn-load the mp3.Hope it may help more to get the confidence level .Rated it 5 stars. Posted June 27, 2007 |
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koya
Great lens .Learned a lot in how to build our confidence level.The downloadable version of Richard MacKenzie's mp3 is very useful.Rated it 5 stars. Posted June 27, 2007 |
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powell123
Great and a good lens that says so much about building self-confidence.I have rated it with 5 stars.I downloaded the mp3 and it is a friendly version by which we can regain and build our self-confidence. Posted June 27, 2007 |
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innocent
It is good that one should not let their confidence.We should not lose our confidence level.The lens is great and I have rated it 5 stars. Posted June 26, 2007 |
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lukas_i
Expanding your comfort zone is not quite the same as building self-confidence. However, the two do fit together rather nicely. The one begets the other.Building confidence can do wonders to everyone.rated it 5 stars. Posted June 26, 2007 |
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john_w
Great lens.We should build confidence and do our work so that we can finish it in a much better way.Confidence is trust or faith that a person or thing is capable.Self-confidence is having confidence in oneself.rated it with 5 stars. Posted June 26, 2007 |
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william_b
The lens is great.It tells us to get our confidence at what ever level it may be.I have rated it 5 stars.The top performers in life can get themselves motivated and inspired exactly when they need to. Posted June 26, 2007 |
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arnold_z
What you said is correct,My opinion is review ourself by what we have done, what we are doing, and what we can do. Keep a daily or weekly note down all of our accomplishment and build on these. Each day try do something a little better than yesterday. Posted June 25, 2007 |
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mary22
Great tips in Richard MacKenzie's amazing hypnotic download for building confidence, I am looking this in google and now I got it. Posted June 25, 2007 |
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RME
What a great lens! I was so impressed that I rated it with 5 stars. I am looking forward to many re-visits and watching it develop over the months! Posted June 24, 2007 |
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robert_w
The lens is useful to understand our self esteem and also makes us to recognize our self confidence level.And we can surely get the seeds of luck if we are self confident on ourselves. Posted June 23, 2007 |
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joseph_u
This lens is simply great.It tells everyone the aspect of life.The good news is that self confidence can be really built."Success comes in can's and not in cant's".Rated it a 5. Posted June 23, 2007 |
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ashley_33
Self-confidence is an attitude which allows individuals to have positive views of their situations.The lens is great and I have rated it 5. Posted June 23, 2007 |
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