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Our school district did not have a policy on bullying or a plan to deal with it. There was not even a clear definition of the word. I know that my child had a bully but I didn't want to turn him into a bully to deal with the situation. This is the information I found as I searched for ways to deal with the situation.

There are some great free programs that can be shared with the school and the school board. We started at the school and then took on the board. This is no longer about my child. It is about stopping the ignorance that keeps it an issue.

Update: A group of parents pleaded our case at the School Board Meeting. While we received favorable comments from some of the members, there was a lack of response from the others. We did hear that the school district had a policy. We asked for a copy and it took a week for them to find it. It was two pages of a vague solution that does not address any of the issues. They have revised the policy and are making an attempt to train the staff. It's not solved but now they are aware that there are parents out there who care.

Articles on bullying

In researching the bully issue, I have found several articles that reflect different facets of the bullying issues.
Bullying behavior: The role of the target
Our child is the target. Normally, he is not timid and has no problem brushing off incidents. Somehow, he has attached a greater value to the interactions with the bully then he has with other children. He has given the bully power over him. The role of the target is to change the rules.
Great childrens books about bullying
Bullying is a difficult childhood issue and shouldnt be viewed as kids just being kids. Bullying is not a new problem but is becoming more violent..
How to stop a school bully
The practice of bullying in schools has been around as long as there have been schools. The methods of stopping bullying have been practiced by te.
How to tell if your child is being bullied
As a parent, you can read all the literature on bullying and find information on areas to look for and steps to take. However, it is just not that...,
Create classrooms and schools that eliminate bullying
In today's schools, there is confusion between parents and staff on the definition of bullying. Most schools call it conflict. This could not be fu...
How to recognize the signs of your child being bullied
"The kids in my group don't appreciate me." "Jonah tells me to shut-up all the time." These are the things that kids...

Websites that address bullying

There are many websites that not only have programs but provide extensive information for schools and parents on how to deal with the issue.
Stop Bullying Now!
Bullying Information, Resources, and Prevention Tips from the US Department of Health and Human Services. Whether you have been bullied, witnessed bullying, or bullied someone else, come look around, play games, and learn how you can help stop bullying now.

This is the program we suggested for our school. The school is screaming "no money" and this is free. It is full of information and has everything the school needs to implement a program.
Bullying — National Crime Prevention Council
The National Crime Prevention Council has some very helpful information on bullying.
Don't laugh at me! This is another great website with valuable informtion and tips for parents.
Operation Respect is a non-profit organization working to assure each child and youth a respectful, safe and compassionate climate of learning where their academic,
social and emotional development can take place free of bullying,
Cambium Learning Web Store - Bully-Proofing Working With Victims and Bullies
Bully-Proofing Working With Victims and Bullies. A good program that is not free but worth looking into.
National Association of School Psychologists
Bullying Prevention and Intervention. The information here needs to be read by all school personal, parents and administrators.
Bullying - School Bullying at WomansDay.com
Discover what causes bullying behavior in children. Plus, learn how to prevent your child from becoming a bully?or the victim of one at WomansDay.com.

Books on bullying for kids

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I am not going to reinvent the wheel

These are great lenses created by other people who are concerned about bullying

There are many viewpoints and many solutions available. These are just a few. They cover middle school and switching to homeschooling. This is a global problem. Read through these lenses.
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A book for all situations

The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander: From Preschool to HighSchool--How Parents and Teachers Can Help Break the Cycle (Updated Edition)

The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander: From Preschool to HighSchool--How Parents and Teachers Can Help Break the Cycle (Updated Edition)

by: Barbara Coloroso

Amazon Price: $6.93 (as of 05/30/2012)Buy Now

Mainstream news on bullying

Bullying is not going away anytime soon in spite of all the talk and hype being spouted in the media. News outlets are full of thoughts on the subject.
David Nichtern: 3 Levels of Tolerance and What They Mean for Bullying
The real question for all of us to ask is how to hold power to accountability, and how to create an environment in which strength comes with morality and a sense of care and responsibility.

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  • hntrssthmpsn Apr 15, 2012 @ 2:43 pm | delete
    I was a bullied child with serious confidence issues, at a time when the general response to that kind of thing was an eye-rolling, "kids will be kids." The bully/victim dynamic damages both parties, and I'm so thankful that my child seems to have been born with the kind of innate confidence that repels bullies. It *is* a real problem, and it's great to see that beginning to be acknowledged in our schools!
  • Mujjen Jan 25, 2011 @ 3:29 am | delete
    Very important issue, that should not be ignored!
  • lravidlearner Jan 17, 2011 @ 9:11 am | delete
    Great info on preventing bullying, recognizing it and stopping it. Blessed by a SquidAngel ~
  • magicgeniewishlist Jan 7, 2011 @ 4:50 am | delete
    This is a really great lens. My 7 year old was being bullied at his school, we are transferring him to another. I hope to build his confidence back up again, because it has really got him down. Kids are so mean sometimes!
  • aj2008 Jan 5, 2011 @ 4:40 am | delete
    Thank you for featuring my lens about Bullying.

    I have to admit that I was shocked when, during my research, I discovered that anti-bullying laws and policies are not the norm in the US. Having said that, although there's very clearly defined law and policies that deal with Bullying here in the UK, the way they are intepreted often leaves a lot to be desired.

    As you say in this lens, it is important for the parents who care about bullying and who want it stopped, to make their voices heard and in turn they need to encourage their children to do the same.
  • aj2008 Jan 5, 2011 @ 4:40 am | delete
    Thank you for featuring my lens about Bullying.

    I have to admit that I was shocked when, during my research, I discovered that anti-bullying laws and policies are not the norm in the US. Having said that, although there's very clearly defined law and policies that deal with Bullying here in the UK, the way they are intepreted often leaves a lot to be desired.

    As you say in this lens, it is important for the parents who care about bullying and who want it stopped, to make their voices heard and in turn they need to encourage their children to do the same.
  • Tipi Jan 4, 2011 @ 1:58 pm | delete
    I wish there was no such thing as bullies, mean people suck. It would be a much better world if bullies would stop behaving badly. Being nice is so much easier to do.
  • Tipi Jan 4, 2011 @ 1:58 pm | delete
    I wish there was no such thing as bullies, mean people suck. It would be a much better world if bullies would stop behaving badly. Being nice is so much easier to do.
  • kimmanleyort Jan 3, 2011 @ 1:37 pm | delete
    We can't emphasize that bullying needs to stop enough. Thanks for all the info and for sharing your own experience. Lensrolled to Teach Kids Compassion.
  • kimmanleyort Jan 3, 2011 @ 1:37 pm | delete
    We can't emphasize that bullying needs to stop enough. Thanks for all the info and for sharing your own experience. Lensrolled to Teach Kids Compassion.
  • TrueGhostTales Dec 7, 2010 @ 10:12 am | delete
    We had a problem with a bully who was picking on our daughter (she was about 6). I went directly to the parents (the bully was several years older and a boy) and asked them to make it stop. The dad said he couldnt do anything about it. I told him that he better find a way to make it stop because if it happened again I was going to bully the father myself. We never had any more problems with that kid. Parents should not tolerate their children being bullied by others!
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