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School Bullying Stops With Deregistration

Bullying at school is a problem that can be solved instantly by the simple means of not sending your child to school.

This may seem like a drastic step, and may be impractical or undesirable for a variety of reasons, but it is an option which will immediately end any problems which your child has been having at school.

The legal and practical aspects of educating your child at home are rarely discussed, and in fact are distorted and misrepresented to such an extent that the very existence of parents' rights to educate their children at home are largely unknown.

You will find here all you need to know about the process of deregistering your child from school, along with suggestions on how to deal with your Local Education Authority.

There is help available for Home Educating parents: Education Otherwise is a charitable membership organisation and is a reliable and comprehensive resource for parents of Home Educated children. They can help with all aspects of Home Education, and a visit to the Education Otherwise website is recommended.

If your child is encountering serious problems at school, then deregistration can be seen as a last resort if all other attempts at resolution have failed. Or you may just prefer your child to be 'Educated Otherwise' anyway. It is your choice.

 

Please note that the information below is only applicable to the U.K.

Please go to The Homeschool Group Headquarters for information related to Homeschooling in the U.S.A.

CHILDREN DO NOT HAVE TO ATTEND SCHOOL!

The first thing for parents and those with parental responsibility to appreciate is this little known or publicised fact.



The second thing to know is that the process of removing them from school is extremely straightforward, and this process is called Deregistration.



Once a child is deregistered the school's responsibility for their education automatically ceases and the child will now be 'Educated Otherwise' than at school.The usual term for this practice is Home Education.



Although the school has no further responsibility regarding the education of the child, the same is not true of the Local Education Authority (LEA). They have a duty to ensure that the child is receiving a "suitable" education, and the LEA may or may not choose to put pressure on a parent to allow their child to undergo scrutiny of their educational provision, otherwise known as a Formal Assessment.



Parents may or may not choose to make a Response to the Local Education Authority.



What happens next is determined by the response to the LEA.

DEREGISTRATION IS SIMPLE

Deregistering and home educating your child may seem like a daunting task to embark on, and it appears to be seen by the authorities as a personal challenge. Perhaps it has to do with you veering from the path of conformity and compliance. Perhaps it's because a school will lose out financially due to the educational funding for your child being withdrawn.


The school may tell you that you are not allowed or qualified to home educate your child, or that you cannot deregister them for other reasons. Please be assured that this is not the case, and upon your letter of deregistration (unless your child is attending a special school, in which case permission from the LEA is needed) the school is obliged to deregister your child and inform the LEA within 14 days of receipt.


If you decide that you would like your child to receive the benefit of home education, simply use the example letter below. Address your Letter of Deregistration to the head of the school and either hand it to them personally or send it by recorded delivery (recommended). Once the letter is received by the school your child will automatically cease to be a pupil there, and you are not obliged to have any further contact with them.



 

LETTER OF DEREGISTRATION

Your Address


Date


Mr./Mrs. [Head's Name],


Headteacher,


Name of School,


Address of School


Re: [Your Child's Name], D.O.B [Insert Date of Birth]


Dear Mr./Mrs. [Head's Name],


After careful consideration I have decided to withdraw my son/daughter [Insert Name] from school in order to take personal responsibility for his/her education.


I am providing a home based approach to learning, in accordance with my legal rights under section 7 of the Education Act 1996.


You may therefore delete [Insert Name]'s name from the register in fulfillment of Education (Pupil Registration) Regulation 9 (1)(c), 1995, as he/she is now receiving education otherwise than at school.


Yours Sincerely,


[Your Name(s)]


 

WHAT HAPPENS NOW?

You now have responsibility for your child's education, but don't panic! Education Otherwise have all the resources needed for home educating parents, and if you have any doubts about the feasibility of home education, either from a legal or a practical point of view, you should go there now.

Your main concern, and a concern of your LEA, is that your child is required by law to be provided with an "efficient full-time education according to [their] age, ability, aptitude and special needs" (Education Act 1996 Section 7).

Fortunately, the law recognizes that there are many different ways that a child can be educated, and if a child is learning practical and self-sufficiency skills, for example, the law would not seek to impose an academic approach. In fact the 'autonomous' approach, where the child determines their own areas of study i.e. how, when and what to learn, has been adjudged to fulfill the criteria of the 1996 Act, meaning that your child can be permitted to pursue mainly personal interests.

It is very likely that your LEA will contact you with a view to making arrangements for your child to receive a formal assessment of their educational provision. Again, fortunately, the law recognizes that this is not always to the benefit of the child and parents may refuse a formal assessment if they feel, for example, that their child's confidence would be undermined or their development set back due to an assessment putting pressure on the child.

You have no legal requirement to have any contact with your LEA, but it is advisable that you do. The wording of the 1996 Education Act requires the LEA to act if something comes to its attention which gives it reason to suppose a breach of a parent's Section 7 duties. In other words, it must have 'suspicion' that your child is not been educated properly, and it may 'appear' to the LEA that a parent is not discharging their duties if they make no response at all.

In view of the above, you may wish to respond to the LEA by telling them that your child is being educated autonomously and you will not allow a formal assessment. The good thing about this approach is that it should end any more interference by the LEA in your child's education.

If you do see this as the best way to respond, you may wish to base your response on the following example.

RESPONSE TO THE LEA

Your Address


Date


Mr,/ Mrs. [LEA Officer's Name],


LEA Address


Dear [LEA Officer's Name],


In response to your letter dated [Insert Date] I believe it would be detrimental for [Insert Child's Name] to receive any formal assessment at the moment as this would put unnecessary pressure on him/her and may undermine his /her confidence and development. It is proving a hard, slow process undoing the damage the school did to [Insert Child's Name] but his/her confidence is now improving.


I am finding that the autonomous approach is working well for [Insert Child's Name], but this may change to a more disciplined approach over time.


I shall contact you should I need your help or advice in the future.


Yours Sincerely


Your Name(s)

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO SEND YOUR CHILD TO SCHOOL TOMORROW!

So, there it is then. If your child is suffering from bullying at school, or is unhappy there for other reasons, they can be relieved of their problem instantly by the simple means of deregistering them from that school.

If you have not yet visited the Education Otherwise website, then now's the time to do it. You will find there answers to any questions you may have regarding educating your child at home.

Useful Links

Education Otherwise - Home Education Support Charity
The aims of Education Otherwise are to encourage learning outside the school system; re-affirm parents have primary responsibility for their children's education, to establish that children have a right for their wishes to be considered regarding their education and to promote knowledge...
Protect Your Child From Bullies
The aim of this lens is to become the most informative anti-bullying resource on the net. Here, I offer advice, free tips and anti-bullying techniques. You, too can help by making your contributions. Let me know the anti-bullying methods which have worked for you, or for your child.
Homeschooling - UK - Home Education
The Law says... "The parent of every child of compulsory school age shall cause him to receive efficient full-time education suitable- (a) to his age, ability and aptitude, and (b) to any special educational needs he may have, either by regular attendance at school or otherwise."
The Homeschool Group Headquarters
The Homeschool GroupThis Squidoo Group is for everything related to homeschooling.
Unschooling
Unschooling (a term coined by John Holt) differs from other forms of homeschooling in that it's not directed by a teacher or a curriculum. Parents who unschool their children provide a wide range of resources and support and believe that learning happens all the time and does not require coercion.

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    Brad Anderson Jun 5, 2011 @ 9:33 pm | delete
    How I wish this had been written 35 years ago; I was bullied out of school three different times, and finally my parents turned on me and blamed me for it, even though I never started the trouble, and I ended up in jail at age 14 where i was bullied worse than ever; after more than a year I finally got out, but was never the same-- I simply never ever dared show disobedience; and now I'm completely disabled and planning on suicide. I have only one thing to say to those who endorse compulsory school-attendance: zig HEIL!
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    SnappySammySmoot Jun 9, 2011 @ 9:44 am | delete
    Sorry your childhood was crap, Brad - what's the nature of your disability mate?
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    Brad Anderson Jul 22, 2011 @ 9:32 am | delete
    It's post-traumatic stress disorder.
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    SnappySammySmoot Jul 22, 2011 @ 11:59 am | delete
    Pleased to hear from you again Brad. How you doing at the moment?
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    Brad Anderson Jan 19, 2012 @ 3:49 am | delete
    I don't know, it varies.
    I just wanted to say that compulsory school-attendance is simply a carte blanche for schools to allow bullying, since they know that it's either school or prison for any kid who gets bullied, while the school is generally immune from prosecution.
    That's really just gulag system where the state can oppress, exploit and persecute with impunity, and the victim is a second-class citizen who has no rights against it.
    That's why I created an information-webpage at http://BullyJustice.Webs.com which has all the basic information on how to make bullies from predators into prey.
    You'd be surprised at how school officials and bullies go from arrogant attackers to scared rats when you show them that you will sue them in court.
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    SnappySammySmoot Jan 19, 2012 @ 8:48 am | delete
    Great webpage Brad - thanks for putting it up here - some will find it very useful, I'm sure.
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    wordstock Dec 27, 2010 @ 7:52 am | delete
    Came back to bless this lens. We all keep trying to get the schools and other groups to take a stand while we know that it may be useless. Presenting homeschooling is an alternative that not everyone thinks about. Angel blessed. Thanks for giving families another option.
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    SnappySammySmoot Dec 27, 2010 @ 9:43 am | delete
    Thanks, wordstock, for your kind words in support of this lens.
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    J. Dexter Nov 15, 2010 @ 5:12 pm | delete
    My Son was brought home from school today because a lad had thrown Hydrocloric Acid in his face. He has had lots of problems and threatened to be stabbed etc. I am about to go nuclear......would he still be able to sit gcse papers if he came out of school.
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    SnappySammySmoot Nov 16, 2010 @ 3:08 pm | delete
    Hi J.Dexter.

    Please don't send your son to school tomorrow (assuming he is well enough to go). I would say stop wasting time and deregister him immediately - his attackers aren't suddenly going to like him. If that's too dramatic (and I know it isn't) you could send in a sick note whilst you consider your son's future and state of mind.

    As for exams I don't honestly know but I can try and find out for you. I wish your son a speedy recovery from what must have been a very traumatic experience. Please keep me updated.
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