Money is Spiritual - The Cake or Candles Principle

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Money is Spiritual - The Cake or Candles Principle

The discussion continues regarding the concept that, as Rabbi Daniel Lapin, author and scholar, says "Money is Spiritual, not physical." He continues "...making money is like lighting a candle from other candles that are already lit around us..." We do not take away from anyone else. He says "...you do not get friends as a result of getting money, you get money as a result of having friends." He continues to add "...we serve, wealth returns as an exchange, we are rewarded with prosperity for serving others."

This lens will introduce you to Rabbi Daniel Lapin, share insights about The Cake or Candles Principle and how to change our thinking about wealth and prosperity.

Rabbi Daniel Lapin's book "Thou Shall Prosper: 10 Commandments for Making Money" is filled with the secrets of ancient hebrew principles that will prove there is dignity and morality in living a purposeful prosperous life.

"We are Blessed to be a Blessing" ~ Paula White 

If we just do what we are passionate about, we may be missing the mark. Rabbi Lapin says, "Look around you, what do people need.? Do that...and become passionate about that!"

Rabbi Daniel Lapin shows us through example. He discovered that the people in our world needed to be free of the misconception that money is 'the root of all evil'. He, having been raised with the ancient principles of the Torra, and having understood that money is a spiritual exchange for the service that we provide to our fellow man, is an authority who we can trust to recommend practical ways to access the greatest knowledge of our time.

Why are we continuing to believe that God desires us to be in poverty?

Authors, teachers, and well known spiritual leaders have been telling us that God wants us to be prosperous. We are taught to tithe 10% of our harvest, and those who are deciplined in this service will be blessed. Have we ever looked at the service that this creates in our world or more fascinating, the trust that we would be nurishing between creator and ourselves?

Simply put, the more prosperous we are the more blessing we can create through our tithing. And, subsequently, our smallest gift creates a flow of energy that translates into the resources to sustain ourselves.

Paula White says "We are blessed to be a blessing." We are given abundance so that we have the resources to do the work that we are called to do. We are blessed to serve others and to live our lives empowering others.

This is the book our discussion is based on.

Thou Shall Prosper: Ten Commandments for Making Money

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But... I'm Not Jewish - How Can I Believe These Principles are for Me? 

Not surprisingly, the principles that are outlined in Rabbi Daniel Lapin's book, are the very same principles that Christianity has taught for over 2000 years. The following publication, a collaboration of the most respected Christian teachers of our time, confirms and shares scripture that teaches the very same concepts.

Buy both the book and the CD Siminar recording, then compare them, discuss them, have a book study, investigate and initiate your new enlighted perspective and be free of poverty thinking once and for all.

Service brings us prosperity, prosperity brings us resources to serve more. How can a cycle of blessings such as this be anything other than spiritual?

This seminar recording will confirm that God has always wanted us to be prosperous. Rabbi Daniel Lapin's book (above) will show us how to impement that covenant trust and how to live a life of service and abundance.

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"What is My Calling?"

I asked...

The quiet whisper within my heart said

"Your Passion IS Your Calling"

Money as Spiritual Essence 

Money Is Spiritual

I remember growing up feeling that it was 'wrong' to have money. I deeply regarded poverty as a spiritual experience that was a gift. I realize that some of the reasoning behind this kind of belief is valid in the sense that we learn to treasure the most simple things in life through adversity. I don't know that I would trade the experience if I also had to trade the lessons. However, at some point in time, that kind of thinking becomes a burden rather than a blessing.



I was told '...don't get your hopes up..', which was a well meaning desire for me to not be disappointed if things didn't turn out the way I might hope for them to. The problem with this kind of thinking (my interpretation of it - my processing of it), in contrast to the laws of attraction, this kind of thinking is out of sync.

Balance comes when a hope is partnered with purposeful action. I didn't hope, so, for many years I was stuck believing that things were 'the way they were suppose to be.'

I recall the first time (relatively recently), after a major change in my life, I realized that at the rate of earning I was going, I would become about $400 a month behind month after month for the rest of my life. By the time 10 years passed, I would be over $40,000 in debt and would have slowly lost everything to debtors. What was even more disturbing, was the thought that my children would need to pay my debts, take care of me in my old age, and seriously put a strain on them financially.

I began to re-evaluate my belief system. I discovered that a deep seated belief had held me back from reaching for my true desires. This is another paradox really. I became willing to surrender all, and in return, I received a perverbial key to the hidden treasure.

Disagreement or Paradox

I will admit, I disagree with Rabbi Lapin on the subject of living your passion(s). He said we need to "find what people in our world need and become passionate about that." That is great advice, yet, when he added '...if we simply live our passion(s) we might be like the person who is passionate about being a tug boat operator in a world where there are no boats and no water. He stated that this would be selfish.' (this statement has been very paraphrased - but I believe that the meaning of his words are in context).

I believe that part of what he says could be true, however, I also believe that what our heart desires is a calling to our purpose and our service to others.

Perhaps the tug boat operator desire is simply about a person who's desires are preparing someone to be ready for the boats and the rising waters? How many people believed that Noah was actually following a calling? At the time before there were flood waters?



I am a very firm believer that we generally do not live out our passion(s). We tuck them away very early on (when we are children-and we forget). We generally serve those around us and do not 'listen to the still small voice within that is whispering our calling, waiting for us to listen and waiting for us to trust.' I believe that our passion(s), our heart's desires, and our talents are directly linked to our calling.

When have you ever felt that you were a slave to the next knock at the door, the next ringing of the phone, the next crisis that you are called upon to solve? When we live to serve in this kind of 'on demand' manner, something eventually will break. We will become ill or have our own personal crisis that takes us away from helping everyone.

Our body is telling us that we need to nurture ourselves - This, I believe is not a selfishness - It is our answer to the still soft and quiet calling of our heart's desire.



The whispers quietly speaking softly within us [within our hearts] are trying to tell us something. The passion and desire within our hearts was a gift of guidance put there long before time began, by the very essence that we long to be in alignment with.

"Serenity Speaks Softly"

While Rabbi Lapin's perpective would be absolutely valid, if we were simply going around seeking selfish desires... on the other hand, have we not seen with our own eyes that the most successful examples of our highest good have been a direct result of our implementing a project or venture that at the time didn't seem very interesting to anyone else?

We just followed something deep within ourselves and our success followed. We didn't plan to succeed, we simply served by using the talents that we have been nurturing.



If we had looked for a need, rather than following what our inner guidance was telling us, we may have not been prepared when the time was right.

Simply put, perhaps our calling to service, pre-dates the need(s) of the world around us. How many times have we said or heard someone say "She/He was way ahead of her/his time?" I believe that the answer to a need was prepared before the need was evident. I also believe that every question has already been answered. That would be another lens presentation.

Think about the people who invented the most innovative concepts and seemingly were 'out of sync' with the rest of the world. I remember when talk of the world wide web was not only difficult to imagine, it seemed impossible and even a worthless waste of time and energy. Who in the world would use such a thing?

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If Money is Like Cake 

If we think of money as cake, we are thinking of it as a limited resource that if we take of it will take away from someone else. We do not want to take the best or the biggest piece. We feel obligated to let those who have a greater hunger to take the largest part. Most curious, we believe that when the cake is gone, that is that. No more resources for anyone to take part in.

If Money is Like Candles 

If we think of money as candles, we discover that one candle can light another without taking away from the first. We discover that the more candles that are lit, the more the resource glows. This glowing light reaches more and more candles.

Imagine you are holding a candle. Every soul on the planet in human form is standing side by side encircling the planet. One candle is burning. The one that is burning bends ever so gently to light the next candle. In turn, each in the line follows this example. Within a few hours, every candle on the planet is glowing brightly as a result of the service bestowed upon 'one candle at a time' in the process.

But, wait... what if any of the candles begin to go out? Any candle in the world can relight it...
This is the basis of the concept that money is spiritual rather than physical.

Service is a way to light other candles. Service shows that "...we value each other and empower each other to fullfill our hightest good." ~ Paula White

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Cake or Candles

Is money physical or spiritual?

Your belief, helps or hinders, and may have been holding back the flow of abundance that is your birthright.

Are You a Cake or Candle Belief Person? 

This is where you have the opportunity to speak out. Share about your beliefs, what you have believed in the past, what happened, what you believe now.

If you find that both answers to this poll hold an opportunity for you to express your feelings and beliefs, feel free to share both perspectives as they apply to you.

Vote here and then share in the 'Cake or Candles Belief' section. (Located below the voting module).

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Cake or Candles Belief 

Share about your beliefs,

*What do you believe now?

*What have you believed in the past (if your beliefs have changed).

*Have your beliefs changed? If so, what happened to create a change of belief?

Cake or Candle?

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Amanda Blue says:

I THINK that one's prosperity is without bounds, BUT, particularly in the past, I have sometimes FELT that money was, in fact, "filthy lucre" and the very opposite of anything glowing or spiritual. Among the things that have happened to alter that feeling is my noticing that several friends who take for granted that propserity is the natural order of things are very attractive to money and therefore wealthy. There is also a marvelous book that was written in the 1800's! by a man who was way ahead of his time, Prentice Mulford, titled "Thoughts are Things", which explains wonderfully how one's thoughts are concrete, real--and can change the circumstances of one's life, and, more importantly, what to do about that.

spirituality says:

Cakes or candles... a bit of both really. But as with cakes: when it's gone, it's gone... So don't spend more than you have.

spirituality says:

Cakes or candles - I do believe one should not spend more than one has.

Candle

Pang says:

more candles...

GrowWear says:

What Jewelsofawe said -- both times. I believe it to be true, true, true! :) ((((all))))

GypsyOwl says:

(((RinchenChodron))) you are so right we deserve to be abundant. I remember the apple story and how one apple has the potential to provide a seed for dozens of trees that will in turn produce more apples. So, there is always more than enough because how often does an apple actually 'need' to repopulate the apple orchard all by it's lonesome?

GypsyOwl says:

(((Jewelsofawe))), Thank You and I aggree with what was said about money being just a form of energy like love is a form of energy and when we care enough about ourselves and our circumstances, are aware that we are worthy, and allow abundance into our life, it is then that we allow ourselves to receive our greatest good.

Jewelsofawe says:

I believe money is spiritual and another manifestation of the energy of love. How much money we allow ourselves reflects how much we love ourselves. Many of us have self worth issues and they manifest in such things as money issues. Great lens!

Jewelsofawe says:

I believe there is plenty of money to go around. I also believe money is a form of love. Money is just another energy and how much love or anything good you allow yourself reveals what blocks may be in your subconsious.

RinchenChodron says:

I love this concept. I have had this struggle with money in the past but have put it behind me. We are all divine and deserve to be abundant!

GypsyOwl says:

Hello Spirituality! Thanks for voting and sharing here. I also agree that one should not spend more than they have.

I wanted to add, that YOU have been like a candle (lit and ready to share the flame), and that is a very precious treasure!

Thank You

 
 
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Be the candle and prosperity will follow.

"We do not get friends as a result of getting money, we get money as a result of having friends" ~ Rabbi Daniel Lapin

You build a network of friends by empowering others and sharing in the candle lighting process.

Quotes - Amanda_Blue 

Sharing in The Candle Lighting Process...

"...if one is truly passionate about being a tug boat operator, water will be found."~Amanda_Blue

Quotes - BFuniv.com  

Sharing in the Candle Lighting Process...

"The key seems to be in controlling money, not letting money control you. Don't hoard your candle; don't let it burn alone."~BFuniv.com

Quotes - Spirituality 

Sharing in the Candle Lighing Process...

"...Cakes or candles... a bit of both really. But as with cakes: when it's gone, it's gone... So don't spend more than you have."

Cake or Candles Guestbook 

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rydigga wrote...

Great lens....God blessed us with bounty, the only limits which exist are those of our own making.

ReplyPosted December 19, 2008

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Pang wrote

More candles..means more years....

Reply Posted December 08, 2008

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Pang wrote

More candles..means more years....

Reply Posted December 08, 2008

JessieA wrote...

Do what you love and the money will follow. Great lens very thought provoking=)

ReplyPosted October 18, 2008

GrowWear wrote...

Nice lens. Enlightening lens. I can see it helping many people. Thank you for sharing your wisdom!

ReplyPosted October 07, 2008

Jewelsofawe wrote...

Excellent lens. I think many of us have issues that block us from prosperity, many false beliefs that cause us to limit ourselves.

ReplyPosted August 04, 2008

LindaJM wrote...

5***** and lensrolled to "...when you visit a Squidoo lens". Definitely candles!!

ReplyPosted July 02, 2008

RinchenChodron wrote...

I know people who need to read this so am emailing your lens out. Way to go *****

ReplyPosted June 17, 2008

GypsyOwl wrote...

Amanda_Blue, Thank you for visiting my lens! I enjoyed your lens on Public Speaking, yesterday, VERY MUCH! :D

ReplyPosted June 08, 2008

Amanda_Blue wrote...

To respond to the Rabbi, I believe that if one is truly passionate about being a tug boat operator, water will be found, even in a desert, and therefore the boat will be needed. This lens offers the reader food for thought. Thank you.

ReplyPosted June 08, 2008

BFuniv.com wrote...

The scripture says:
For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows. - Timothy 6:10

Poor or rich can be deceived by the love of money. The key seems to be in controlling money, not letting money control you. Don't hoard your candle; don't let it burn alone.

ReplyPosted June 05, 2008

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