How To Talk On The Phone with Women

Well, now you should read this article so you know what to say so you can get the date guaranteed.

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Crappy phone skills can ruin a woman's impression of you, and nervousness may get the best of you. The way to handle this is to wait until you are in a calm, goofy, relaxed mood to call her. Don't put so much pressure on yourself, you have nothing to lose. You're a fun interestin guy with things to do, so don't call her during a break when you're not doing anything. Instead, call her when you've been hanging out with friends, in the middle of watching a funny movie, or in the middle of doing some other fun, enjoyable activity. Calling while on the way to somewhere is a good idea too, because it shows you don't just sit around at home all day.

The point is, when you're in a great mood, you will be more relaxed and most like your true self. You want your town of voice to be fun and exciting - this is something you can't fake. When you're in a joyous mood, it will also be a lot easier to tease her, and lead the conversation.

As far as the time of day, call her later in the evening, a little before when she would be getting ready to sleep, around 10pm. Don't call her several times trying to track her down because that would be plain desperate.

If she's not there and you get her voicemail, don't leave a message, just try again the next night, maybe an hour earlier or later. If she doesn't answer the second time, then you leave her a message. Say something like this...

"Hi it's (your name)...we met (place you met), remember? (then, ask a question relevant to the rapport you have with her, things you've talked about...something light, fun). I'm going to (an event or place you're going to), you should come it's going to be (great/awesome/fun...use a good adjective and be enthusiastic). Anyway, my number is (your phone number)...I'm going to (some activity you're doing before the event, i.e., kickboxing at the gym) give me a call back later. Hope to see you there!"

Be confident and encourage her to join you in whatever it is you're already doing, because you live a fun life and she's coming along for the ride. That's your attitude, and your message should lead without asking whether she wants to or not. At the end, you want to say that you're going to be doing some activity - such as kickboxing - so she pictures you doing it, which reinforces you as an active guy who has a life.

After you leave a message, the ball is in her court. It's up to her to contact you, and she can either call or message you, or show up to any events/places you have mentioned. Once you've hung up, move onto other girls, don't spend another minute thinking about her. You should have a couple other numbers to call, so you can setup default plans fo rthat date if this girl flakes.

When she picks up, it's particularly important to know how to open a good conversation and create some interest, especially if you're calling a day or two after you got her number.

How can you make your phone presence more interesting, enough to get her really anxious to meet you? Catching her off guard can really lift her mood and get her more into you. For instance, you can say...

"Hi this is (your name)...we met (place you met), remember? Yeah, I just won the lottery and I was wondering if you were still single?" Or...you can say, "I was wondering when you're planning to take me out to dinner?"

She may get a laugh out of that or play along. If she plays along, keep it going. You get the idea. You want to get her in a teasing, fun sort of mood where you can lead the conversation to sexual, deeper topics more easily.

When you're talking on the phone, be assertive and bold. Don't mumble or stumble over your words with garbage like "what'cha been doing?" Nothing bores her more than that. Instead, ask her a few questions relevant to the context of things you've talked to her about when you first met. For instance, if she told you she plays tennis, you ask, "how's your backhand?" Try to make intimate suggestions, such as getting private lessons from her, or stuff like that.

Keep her on her toes, play with her, tease her and when the vibe is just right say, "I'm heading to (event/place) on (date) and you should come." Don't ask if she's busy or not. Tell her you're going to some even regardless if she comes along or not. If she's genuinely busy, suggest another time/place. If that doesn't work out, it's up to her to counter offer.

The whole conversation should last no more than 10-15 minutes. In fact, never allow a phone conversation with a woman to go on longer than you are able to last with her in the sack. Keep a stopwatch by the phone. Hang up if necessary. Actually, I'm joking about that, but just keep it a reasonable length. Remember the purpose of the call is to get her excited to meet you. As they say, less is more, so you want to still have plenty to talk about when you meet face-to-face.

Try to be the one who ends the conversation, and end on a high point. Remind her of the time/place you will be meeting and be somewhat humorous one last time to leave her with a positive impression. Some ideas...

"If you really want to impress me, bring me flowers - roses get you more points."

Or something like that. Good luck!