Carl Foster's Love sees no boundaries

Conquering the challenges of love and desire for an older woman.

Love is a deep powerful emotion as deep as the sea. Love can take control over an individual's mind, logic and consciousness and love sees no boundaries and love has no concerns of age. It is often common to see an older man in a relationship with a younger woman. In the past it was frowned upon for an older woman to be romantically involved with a man younger than her junior until now.

It is said that a large number of women of a certain age, women in their 30's, 40's and 50's are now dating men who are 10 years younger than their junior, such celebrities have made it to marriage. Such stars as Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher have made it work for them. Such as Mariah Carry and Nick Cannon and actress Barbra Windsor and Scott Mitchell. But for most people in the real world do these relationships actually work long term? How many of these relationships make it to marriage? Some may say it cannot work because women mature at a much younger age than most men and may be Incompatible and what if the desire to have children looms, a woman's time clock may be a factor...

The truth is if two individuals are truly in love with each other and have a strong desire to be together age need not be an issue or is it that simple? Are there other challanges when a man dates an older woman or when a women dates a younger man? From ever point of view there may be challenges for the both of them..

A desire for a man to explore fatherhood may be an issue and a sacrifice as if both partners already have children, then that may not be a problem however if there are no children present then it may be a sacrifice. The younger man's family may not support him in the relationship and his friends and colleagues alike may not take the relationship seriously and may discourage him from dating a women 8 years or more older than him.
An older woman may have concerns of her young partner's capabilities to commitment to a full-on long term relationship. She may feel that he wants a taste of her forbidden fruit and then he may hop and run..

I guess every relationship has to be judged on it's own merit. Despite the challenges the power of love and sexual attraction is often to strong for most people to walk away from and most people will take a chance on love and see if a long lasting love can manifest. Some find dating an older women exciting and spontaneous. They see it as a taste of the forbidden fruit, and go back for more as they can't resist her charm and beauty. Some enjoy the benefits of a women with experience of love, true desires and strong emotions. They see her like a beautifull mature French wine. A beautiful mature women's pull can be so powerful that a man can not resist, the power between them both is now to strong.

But why the sudden interest in a women of a certain age? It is said that older women are now looking young and athletic well into their 50's and 60's. It is said that it may be genetics. The main factor is that women of a certain age are now looking after themselves much more, than their predecessors and some may spend time in the gym, something women of the past never did. Their new found athletic lifestyle could be the key to these ageless beautys and their long lasting youth. It could be the fact that so many women in their 30's, 40's and 50's dress and look almost 10 years younger than their actual age so are attracting a younger man. But what ether the reason the curiosity and desire to be romantically involved with an older women contiues.

In life you reap what you sew. Plant the seed of love and achieve true love as love sees no boudaries.

Despite the age diffrerences the same laws still apply as in any relationship. In order to achieve a true long lasting love a positive attitude is still always required. To make the relationship work affectively good communication with love and respect for one another is essential. For thesse spontaneous relationships to work it is really down to both individuals involved as any relationship can be challenging and requires love and understanding from both partners involved. You deal with the sacrivices and create somthing new and exciting for each other.

Sometimes the relationships that appear to be more challenging and may seem to stand the least chance of survival, may survive through to the end.
Life always finds the answers to any challenges that we may face. So we need not stress ourselves, because the answers to making this relationship work will come in practice and commitment. Love will find away as love sees no boundaries.

LOVE sees no boundaries writen and created by UK author CARL FOSTER June 2011.

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