Looking after your cat
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Cat toilet Training
Getting your cat to use a human toilet
Some great sites for help.
- Cat Toilet Training
- Everything you need to know to get your cat using a human toilet
- Vet Secrets
- Could you actually be harming your pet with 'complete' foods and veterinary treatment? This book, written by a vet, will tell you how to treat your own pet at home with natural remedies and without resorting to expensive veterinary tratments.
- Cat Training Secrets
- Learn how to stop your cat from scratching your furniture, peeing on the floor and decimating the local wildlife.
- Coping with Pet Grief
- Grieving over the loss of a pet is natural and healthy, but many people have difficulty in actially expressing it. Here is a book written by a pet lover and owner who found little sympathy or advice when she lost her pet.
- How To Get Rid Of Cat Urine and Odour from your home
- Find out how a pet service professional gets rid of her cat's urine and odour problems from her home and her work at veterinary hospitals. The 'must have' guide for every cat lover.
- Ultimate Cat Secrets
- Amazing tips for a happy, healthy cat.
Treating your cat at home
Is a visit to the vets really best for you both?
I worked in a vets for nearly five years and have seen first hand how pharmaceutical companies play on peoples fear to sell products. The chemical in fles treatments have to be really harsh these days as they become resistant to them through over use. And, as with humans, the reliance on antibiotics for conditions that may very well clear up on their own means that your animals tolerance for them increases with each dose.
The vet I worked for was happy to advise me over the phone when I moved away. Indeed when one of my cats was run over, though not badly hurt, he talked me through checking him over from tail to ears so that I did not need to stress him with a visit to the hated vets. And from my work I knew when I could treat my cats at home and when I needed extra help. I also managed to gets my partners' dog to start eating again, something that no vet, or anyone in the family, had been able to do.
How to stop your cat from clawing.
Keep your carpets and furniture scratch free - without fuss.
Cats use their claws to mark their territory, as well as sharpening them. The best way to stop them scratching a certain area is with redirection. Make another area more attractive to them for scratching; you can use sissal boards and scratching posts or even branches (which cats find irresistable), if you can stomach bits of tree in your house. Cats are quick to learn, and will soon use an area that you have specified if you have made it an attractive prospect for them.
You can also try citrus which cats hate the smell of. Some 'cat repellent' sprays contain natural citrus for the reason, but if you do use these check the ingredients before use as some chemicals can cause even more problems.
There is always a final solution to the problem; if the scratching bothers you that much just keep them from the room.
Losing a loved one
Showing grief at the loss of your pet.
I was devestated; she had been a big part of my life for fourteen years, had helped me through bad times and good times and was a real character. Her death was a real shock and was as upsetting for me as the death of a relation a couple of years ago.
So what do you do when your pet dies? Do you show grief or is this 'just being silly'? Well, I have two very small children and had to contain my sadness, to point. To my eldest I was able to say that 'Mummy is sad today' but how can you explain to a nine month old why mummy is so tearful? Yes, losing a pet hurts, and hurts badly as anyone who has ever shared a life with an animal will tell you. Even my rough, tough husband broke down after the boys had gone to bed - Tink was always his little girl and he felt her loss badly.
Grief is a real feeling, hiding it or shoving it aside can cause more harm than good. My husband and I can now share stories about her crazy antics, even though it does leave a lump in the throat. So when you lose your loved one, as we all sadly have to, don't shy away from your saddness. Grief is part of the healing process.
Cat flaps
Getting your cat to use one
There are many types of cat flaps on the market; the secret is to make sure you get the right one. Think of the door it will be fitted to; how thick is it, what is it made of, how secure will your door be? You can also get slightly more technical ones than the straight forward 'use your head to open it' ones. There are magnetic ones that work in conjunction with a magnetic attachment on your cats collar, or sensor ones. Please consider your cat as well when buying one; if your cat will NOT wear a collar don't even consider getting a magnetic type.
Most cats will be a little shy of a cat flap to start with. You need to tempt them into using it. To start with prop the door open so they can see that it leads to the outside. You can tempt them through it with food if neccessary. You can then lower the door gradually until your cat is used to using it's head to get through. With the cat flap closed you can use the food bribe to help them use it. Once your cat has used the door you will find there will be no stopping them.
If you want some more information on cat training have a look at this site:
http://traincat.url-Site.com
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- tdove tdove Mar 31, 2008 @ 10:55 am
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- tjmum tjmum Mar 23, 2008 @ 3:11 pm
- Thank you to everyone who has read this lens, and for your comments. I lost my little Tim today - his picture is in the introduction. He was the last of his family; his brother Bear was run over in 2004, his mum, Sweetheart, died in 2006, his Aunt Tink died 3 weeks ago and he passed on today. I miss them all so much and it is a pain only pet lovers feel and understand. Grief has to be shared, and bought to the surface for it to be released, but it never really goes. As I miss my mum so too do I miss my babies, and always will.
I love you guys. XX
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- tjmum tjmum Mar 23, 2008 @ 3:06 pm
- Dorothy, your cat is playing with you, rather like he would a mouse. If he grabs your hand play dead, keep it very still even if he licks or talks to it. He will get bored. And yes, he may feel threatened as he has no way of defending himself. You have to boost his confidence in his home, his space so that he doesn't feel so threatened. I will say that Siamese are rather a law unto themselves though!
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- tjmum tjmum Mar 23, 2008 @ 2:40 pm
- Bobbie - your cat thinks that she is pack leader. She is asserting her authority over you and the others. You can calm her down by putting her in a room on her own when she is being naughty (I used to call it the Slammer!). Cats, like kids, do need some time to calm down when they get in a temper, and it will also give your other cats breathing space. Food is another way to make you top cat - If you have something that she likes (Tuna, chicken etc - not cat food) make sure that you make a point of eating some before you give her any. It reasserts your authority over her - top cats always eat first. Cats can be trained, honestly, you will need to have patience though, especially when she is trying to force others away from you. You need to choose who is near you, not the other way round. If you are getting into real problems you may need to try proper cat training.
Good Luck!
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- Bobbie Bobbie Mar 23, 2008 @ 10:10 am
- I have just discovered this site and think it's great!! We have several cats that are very well behaved, except for one!Lucy!! She chases the others,nips at everyone, & thinks noone should be near me except her! I am at my wits end. Any suggestions? I've done all that this article says with no results....HELP!
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