Your Child and the Cell Phone: The Controversy and the Facts
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Children Want Cell Phones! Parents Have Concerns...What to Do?
My intent is to discuss the hazards and the advantages of buying children cell phones as well as the most efficient, inexpensive and healthiest way to do it.
I hope that this lens will encourage thought about this issue, give parents some support in making the decisions and provide information to make this a safe, inexpensive and happy experience.
Explore the Issues With Cell Phones for Kids and Teens: Find Solutions!
1. The parental issues, with suggestions and a solution.
2. The economic concerns about kids and cell phones including a great solution!
3. The health dangers with kids and cell phones with a solution!
Unbridled Cell Phone Use Has Psychological Concequences Also
Parenting and Cell Phones
One of these things is true: Either your kids have cell phones or they are begging you for cell phones, or you live on Fiji in the 20th century.There are several parenting pros and cons.
Pros
1. Your child will always be able to reach you. No mistakes about who is picking them up or worry about getting home from an inappropriate party.
2. With modern phones you can track where your kids are, assuming the phone is on them.
3. Learning how to manage the pre-paid minutes is a way to learn budgeting and responsibility.
Cons
1. Kids get thing so easily today that they don't appreciate much at all.
2. They spend too much time on the phone and even less time with the family.
3. Predators have yet another way to reach your children.
4. Kids brains are especially vulnerable to the electropolution that comes from the cell phone. (See below, I tell you how to fix that!
Take a look at the picture. This is a common scene. I just hope this mother has a protected phone
Cell Companies Are Marketing To Younger and Younger Children and Parents Allow
Some Cell Phone Issues
Informative videos give food for thought and a great idea to solve some of the problems.
2. A funny video I couldn't resist
3. The phone that will please parents!
"Yes, dear children, you can have a cell phone.
Here are our the rules!"
Parent Tips
1. Parents must be in charge.
2. It really doesn't matter if everyone else has them (and believe it or not, that isn't true anyway).
3. Cell usage is a privilege and kids need to earn it.
4. Since it is a privilege any misuse results in the loss of social use, no ifs and or buts (see the phone advertised here. They can be programed to only call parents! Making it a total win for parents).
5. Be consistent with the rules.
6. The rules should fit in with other rules that you have in your home.
7. Cell phones can be used by predators just like the internet. Be alert; monitor use and especially incoming calls.
8. You are the boss.
Meet With Kids:
Make sure they are following the rules and earning their cell phone privileges!
Check this periodically. Nothing worse that having rules you don't enforce.
The Answer to 1/2 of Your Cell Phone Problems
Amazing Price on the Kajeet!
You can program it to only call you, great when they are on restriction for overuse.
Since it is prepaid, there are no unpleasant, expensive surprises at the end of the month.
Prepaid, it can be programed where parents only pay for calls home or to 911, and the kids pay for everything else!
Program it to block certain numbers! Use the GPS system.
The possibilities are unlimited!
Get This Phone, Then Go to BioPro to Make It Safe!
Samsung SGH-M300 Prepaid Phone, Red (Kajeet)
Amazon Price: $49.99 (as of 12/31/2009)
This phone solves several of the parenting issues as you can program it to do or not do just about anything.
It solves the money problem as it is prepaid. Additionally it can be set up where the parents pay for only what they want, while the kids pay for all those tect messages.
Should Kids Have Cell Phones?
There are many questions about kids and cell phones. The cost, the exposure to radiation, the social problems on the no side and the convenience, safety and fun on the other.
Should kids have sell phones?
Fetching blurbs now... please stand byIf they earn the priviledge, act responsiblity and are protected from radiation, then YES.
Jillian says:
Last year, at my son's school, there was a snow day half-way through. He had not been able to contact me to pick him up (we live too far away from school for him to walk home). If he had owned a cell phone at this time, this problem could have easily been resolved.
Posted December 09, 2009
mulberry says:
Under certain circumstances it's fine. I think it should be based on need not want. It's really not a toy, it's a tool. But, I'm not a parent so...
Posted February 23, 2009
niicki says:
I think it's more than just should they or shouldn't they, but whether they NEED them. Some schools in my area are requiring that kids have them, so in case of a school emergency they can contact their parents. Some kids in a lot of extra curricular activities might need them to notify Mom or Dad about the end of a meet. But in a lot of cases, I simply don't see the NEED for a cell phone - only another kid following the flock in search of being "cool". And in those cases, NO, I don't think kids need cell phones.
Posted August 24, 2008
No, kids have too many things now that they don't appreciate, this is spoiling them.
LauraSchofield says:
No. My son feels left out because he doesn't have a phone at school. They aren't even allowed at school. Who does he need to phone at 11 years old? I won't allow it.
Posted March 07, 2009
Parents and Cell Bills
Don't do this at home!
The Cost of Cell Phones.
Kids Just Don't Get It!
Well, kids today are no different. They can't wait either. They just have the technology to do it without getting caught! The other problem is that every message, unlike the note, costs and usually costs the parents.
Set boundaries from the beginning.
1. Decide what part of it the kid will pay for based on age and ability to pay. But don't give them too much. This is a chance for them to learn about money.
2. If they break the rules, pay only for calls to yourself (you can do that with Kajeet phone).
3. Only get a pay as you go phone to help control usage, that way they don't get a bill they can't pay that you end up paying.
Some parents are getting everything covered plans to avoid expensive overuse charges. That is certainly your choice, however, they are missing a chance to use the phone to teach their children finances and fiscal responsibility. For that reason I recommend that you consider the pay as you go phones. This adds a 'pro' to having the phone.
Children's Brains Are Undeveloped...
that makes cell phones more dangerous for them. They must be protected.
The Answer to the Other 1/2 of the Problem
If They Have Cell Phones, Protect Them!
There are good reasons for kids to have phones and some negatives. Even if money isn't a concern for you, your kids must be protected.Bill Gates doesn't have to worry about text messaging fees, but his kids are as vulnerable to the radiation as yours are.
You can protect your kids for under $40 per phone.
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Cell Phones: Love Them; Use Them in Good Health!
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We live in a electrical and wireless world. That isn't going to change. I don't want it to change. I am on my laptop; Squidoo wouldn't exist without computers. I will turn the air conditioning on later, and probably watch a ubiquitous Law and Order r...
Cell Phones and Kids' Brains
While researching for videos I found many more about the dangers of cell phones and what they can do to children, even more than adults.
I was concerned that they were interspersed with cute little homemade videos of babies and toddlers playing with and talking on cell phones. I wanted to call all the parents. Hopefully they will see this.
I wouldn't scare you about this, if there weren't a solution.
Here Are the Products to Protect Their Health
and a way to buy them for 20 to 30% off
- BioPro Products to Protect Your Children
- Read all the research about the problem and the solution. Then learn how to buy products to protect your family and yourself from cell phones and other forms of eletropolution.
Here's my favorite link:
Would Love to Hear Your Opinions About Cell Phone and Kids and This Lens!
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Is there are point I haven't covered here? Please let me know and I will include it.
Any tips for parents would be great!
aj2008 wrote...
The Childrens and Parenting Group that this lens belonged to has survived all the recent changes on Squidoo and is now a Lensography. This lens is now featured at Children and Parenting HQ.
And of course this visit gives me the chance to Bless this excellent lens.
Posted November 24, 2009
aj2008 wrote...
Just revisiting lenses in the Children and Parenting Group to say how proud I am of the quality of lenses in the Group and that I am so glad this is one of them. You have been Blessed by an Angel!
Posted May 20, 2009
Carol wrote
Hey, you have a great lens. Awesome job. I think your readers might find my article interesting: http://www.yodaphone.com/articles/CellPhoneforChildrenandTheirBusyParents.aspx">Cell Phones for Children and Their Busy Parents. Thanks and keep up a good work.
Posted May 19, 2009
Wonderful lens. Cell phones were just coming into vogue when my kids entered high school. The wanted them but it was easy to resist. Today... Every one of my students carry a cell phone. I understand the need, but they are so good at texting that I have to watch them like a hawk during tests. They text the answers back and forth! I don't think there's an easy solution to the problem.
Very informative lens.
Thank you,
Bj
Posted November 29, 2008
Teddi14 wrote...
I have a 6 year old and I make him use the speaker or the earphones. I take this stuff seriously!
Posted October 13, 2008
Some of the Downside to Cell Phone and Kids.
- Kids' Cell Phones Reviewed
- Good Houseing Magazine does a review of phones by feature, price and age appropriateness.
- Japanese Kids Obsessed with Cell Phones
- Can cell phones be overused? Well, kids would probably say no, but you should set limits to make sure yours don't.
- Cheating with Cell Phones
- A down side to cell phones. This article tells how kids use cell phones to cheat on tests. Kids can and will think of many misuses for these devices. Be alert.
Meet With Kids:
Check all incoming numbers on their cell phones!
Make sure their BioPro cell chips are there.
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Lensmaster Margo_Arrowsmith has been a member since June 21 2008, has rated 2,018 lenses, favorited 121, and has created 129 lenses from scratch. Margo Arrowsmith donates their royalties to Squidoo Charity Fund. This member's top-ranked page is "Hooters Is Not a Family Restaurant". See all my lenses
My Bio
For Arrowsmith Printing 9/22/08
I was born into a small business, I believe that small business and entrepreneurs are the backbone of America and what has made us great. They are what made us great and will save us in these unsure times. I have never wanted to have a great job. Well, better a great one, than a boring dead end one, and I have had both. But I have never really wanted a job at all.
Don't get me wrong, I am a hard worker. I have worked a full-time job, a part time job and a private practice all at the same time for a lot of years in my past. It isn't the work, its the working for someone else. Never wanted to do that, and I don't understand those who want to do that.
When I was six months old my parents bought their first small town weekly newspaper in Iowa. This was back in the day, back when small town newspapers were not just advertising sheets. Perhaps there are still some of them that are real, I hope so.
So I came by this perverse nature naturally. My path to self employment has been different than theirs, but it has always been my path, my direction.
Growing up in Iowa, in the fifties, I also grew up politically conservative. By the time I was 30 I was radically left. Today? I am proudly liberal and what that means will be clearer as we progress.
However, I have had conflicts about 'taking advantage of people'. I now know that employing people is not automatically taking advantage of them, but it took a while for me to learn that nothing is intrinsically good or bad. Well, almost nothing.
I have educated myself in business, I have a small business and I have used EFT and other energy clearing methods to help me clarify the old conflicts and move forward.
My mission here is to provide a forum for people who want to work independently through one person businesses or through employing others and for whom the betterment of human kind is an important value. My lenses are about offering good products, teaching people about betting their lives, and using the money they make for their pleasure and the benefit of others.
That is how I see business and if you have a similar vision I invite you to my blog www.creatingbusinessenergy.com
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