Is Your Girlfriend Cheating on You?
Women are verbal creatures and likely to give away their plans even when they don't intend to do so. Now you have to do what comes hard for guys and that's listen closely. Is she making excuses before accepting an invitation?
You say, "Let's go to that movie you want to see and then get take-out dinner on the way back to my place." A few weeks ago she jumped at that invitation, even suggesting a better use for whipped cream than on strawberries.
But now she says, "I promised to see that movie with the girls, so you do something on your own." It's not that she wants to hang with the girlfriends that's suspicious; it's her sudden insistence to be with them when she was spending almost every night with you.
Was she begging you to stay over at her place for breakfast then started to insist that she come to your place instead? You thought that was great, until she left early claiming "early morning at the office."
When you phoned her office to wish her a great day, she wasn't there. Something's happening and it's not involving you so start paying attention. You might be on the way out of her life and so far she's the only one who knows that.
Women and Cheating: Why It Happens
Undressing Infidelity: Why More Wives are Unfaithful
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"Diane Smith resisted the impulse to have an affair during a stressful time in her marriage several years ago. But her need to understand that temptation lead her to interview over 150 women who cheated on their husbands. This is her book.
"Undressing Infidelity" is not a definitive research project for family therapists nor does it wrap the various stories into a unified cheating on marriage theory. The book does reflects the diversity of a woman's need for emotional attachment, attention and passion. Frankly some of these men had it coming with their inattentive or controlling behaviors -- but other men did not, as life's many challenges (kids, money pressures, illnesses) got into both partner's ways. Some women paid a price for their infidelity - others did not.
The book is a quick read but it will set you thinking on the state of your own relationship. The book should be read by couples together, married or not. The reader is referred to "Uncoupling" by Frances Vaughan or any of family therapist Frank Pittman's writings on infidelity (especially "Private Lies") for further reading."
Release Date: 12/31/1969
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Signs of a Cheating Girlfriend
Her moods, your blues
You've known her awhile and have a fix on her moods. She's cranky when hungry and snippy before her period. Ok, you can deal with that. But now, you are seeing moods that you didn't see before.Here's how to tell if your girlfriend is cheating on you or just a moody woman:
When you take her to a favorite restaurant for a leisurely dinner, she's checking her cell phone or looking around. She claims that she's waiting to hear from a girlfriend but you've never seen her this way.
Open your eyes, buddy, this chick may be cheating on you! For months she was after you to go places with her co-workers and now she wants to meet them for drinks without you. In fact, she does not want to go to her usual favorite places. Grab a sweater, that chill you feel means that you are about to be out in the cold.
You can tell yourself that it's "just hormone swings" but it's lasting way too long to be physical. Her job is going great, she got a promotion and is starting to travel on business. She could be a workaholic in training or she could be playing around with colleagues out of your sight.
Be honest, when she starts to act differently toward you and that behavior lasts more than a day or two, she's sending you a message. So why doesn't she just break up with you? It's the old "bird in the hand is worth two in the bush" theory. She's using you until she finds a replacement and you can be that auditions are underway.
Clueless About If or Why Your Girlfriend's Cheating on You?
Women's Infidelity: Living In Limbo: What Women Really Mean When They Say "I'm Not Happy"
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"This book has my eyes opened so wide with amazement. I am currently experiencing many of the problems discussed in the book with my wife. As I was reading the book I just couldn't believe it, it was like it was written about my life. I recommend it to any man who is looking for answers."
Release Date: 06/01/2005
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Catch a Girlfriend Cheating on You!
Checking Up or Checking Out
As soon as you get the hint that your girlfriend is cheating, what do you do? Male pride kicks in and you want to find the guy or catch her in the act. So you start being nosey. Maybe you try to go through her day calendar or mail pile while she's in the shower. Be careful, if she's a neat freak, she will instantly know that you snooped.When she goes to the ladies room at the restaurant, you grab her cell phone and check the calls. Frantically you write down unfamiliar numbers. But then you see a photo that shows a hot guy. Is he "the new one?"
If you ask, you admit to being suspicious and she tosses the entrée on your new suit on the way out. Or she plays it cool and tells you that's her brother's best friend saying hello. Unless you know she's an only child, that might be true.
You can be really stupid and stalk her house to see who shows up. If you insist on peeking in the window, you might see more than you want to see plus get a miserable rash from the mosquito bites - all to be able to say, "I caught my girlfriend cheating."
You might do it an easier way and take a cell phone photo of her getting cozy with a co-worker at the coffee shop. But what does that prove? She's cheating and you are checking up. If by some chance she really can explain it, then she's really mad at you for doubting so consider both outcomes before you play detective.
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