The unofficial "Cheating Partner" Guide

Thanks to modern technology, there are plenty of ways of finding out what you're partner is doing when your not around.

Brickhouse security sells a number of very affordable spy gadgets such as keyloggers, microphones, and cameras. There ideal for those who want hard proof there lover is cheating.








Portable Lie Detector




This device can be used in person or over the phone. It can detect stress levels in someones voice, and determine if and when they are lieing at an extremely high rate of accuracy.

You can purchase the portable lie detector here.




CheckMate! Semen Detection Kit.

This is a new kit that I found that serves to be incredibly useful when trying to identify if your spouse is cheating. Use the swab that comes with the kit to swab there underwear, and then follow the simple instructions. You'll know within 5 minutes if your spouse has been messing around with someone else.

You can purchase the Semen Detection Kit here.




X-Ray Spray turns opaque paper temporarily translucent, allowing the user to view the contents of an envelope without ever opening it. 30 seconds after the application, the envelope will return to its original state, leaving absolutely no markings, discoloration, or other indications of use. Each can treats several hundred square inches.

You can purchase the X-ray Letter Spray here.

Software Keylogger:





This is a piece of software that will show you absolutely everything your partner has been doing on there computer. It shows you everything they've typed, email conversations, IM conversations, browsed websites, absolutely everything.

It's completely stealthed. Your partner will have absolutely no idea that it is there.

I highly recommend this, as it's the most affordable and extremely effective at catching a cheating partner. It's 40$, and you can choose to instantly download it from them after purchase (so you can find out immediately what your partner has been up too.)

It's easy to install and completely undetectable. You can Buy Explore Anywheres Keylogger Pro Here.

Hardware Keylogger

A "Hardware Keylogger" is a small device about 2 1/2 inches long that you place on your partners computer that records all keystrokes typed, takes screenshots of their computer screen, shows you emails sent to your spouse and from your spouse, and Instant Messaging conversations. It will show you absolutely everything that your spouse is doing on their computer.

Any signs of cheating through email, IM, dating websites, or even porn will all be recorded with this software. Your partner will never know about it, unless you choose to confront them with this evidence. To set this device up, simply place it on the back of his/her computer where the keyboard port is. It's a very small device, will never be seen, and no software can detect it.

I highly recommend this device, it's extremely easy to setup (just plug it in!) and is rather inexpensive for a spy gadget. It's more expensive than the software keylogger ( at 99$) but easier to setup and move around. As soon as you plug it in, it starts logging everything that happens on that computer.






Click here to Buy this 4G Keyboard Keylogger

Spy Cameras are tiny cameras that you can place in your home, bedroom, or in your spouses car. It's extremely easy to setup, and they normally run off of a battery. Although this is a more expensive solution than the keylogger, you can see if your partner is cheating with 100% accuracy. Simply place it in your partners car or your bedroom and within a day or two, you'll have the answers you need.





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GPS Trackers

Simply place a small electronic device in your lovers car, and you'll know EXACTLY where he/she is at all times. The GPS is so accurate that you can see what addresses they stop at, at what times. See if they are going to clubs, bars, or maybe someones house.

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Hidden Microphones

A less expensive solution: simply place one of these in your boyfriend's/girlfriend's car and you'll have all the answers you need in a couple of short days.

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Whatever you do, don't spend too much time thinking about it! If you have a strong gut feeling that they are cheating, and you have already confronted this person about it, then for your sanity you NEED to take the matters into your own hands! Scroll down and figure out which tool (keylogger, spy camera, etc.) is best for your situation.

Top 10 Signs of a Cheater:

1. Your partner shows no interest in having sex and makes a different excuse every time you ask.

2. Your gut feeling is telling you something is wrong.

3. Your lover always seem "too tired" or "too busy" to show any kind of interest in your relationship.

4. Your partner regularly clears the caller ID, text messages from their cell phone, or emails from their computer when this was not normally done.

5. Your lover is not eager to show affection, especially kissing.

6. The way they treat you has drastically changed. They are no longer sweet, are normally sarcastic or "just business" with you, and reject any signs of affection.

7. Simple errands like going to the grocery store or to the post office take hours rather than minutes.

8. Your partner suddenly pays special attention to their appearance. This can be suddenly losing weight, eating healthier, wearing more makeup/perfume/cologne than normal.

9. Your partner suddenly uses the internet far more than normal.

10. Your lover wont let you on their computer or you see them suddenly close windows when you get close while their using the computer.

If your still unsure whether or not your partner is cheating, and you don't want to disrespect their privacy, I would highly recommend reading Sarah Paul's new book. It goes into great detail concerning how to find out who the other person is, where they're doing it, when they're doing it, and for how long, without intruding into your partner's privacy.

Find out exactly what to do when you suspect your spouse is cheating with Sarah Paul's "How to Catch a Cheating Spouse" course.

After you find out that your partner has been being unfaithful, it is incredibly painful and depressing. Often times you still love this person, but don't want to get hurt like this again. Should I take them back or move on? How do I know if this person will do this again or not? Should I really be with someone who can do something like this to me?

These are all very difficult questions. I always recommend Dr. Bob Huizenga's book: "How to Break Free from the Affair" to those who have been cheated on. 80% Of those who divorce during an affair later regret it. That's why I always tell my patients to be extremely educated in what their dealing with - the psychological and emotional aspects especially, before making any rash decisions.

What are you waiting for? Get your sweetheart back!