Top 10 Signs of a Cheating Spouse

I know my article is titled "Top 10 Signs of a Cheating Spouse," but here are the top 20 signs that your spouse is cheating on you.

1. Your spouse seems bored. Bored with you, with job, with kids, with hobbies, with life in
general.
2. Your spouse seems to want danger or thrills in his/her life.
3. There is considerably less intimacy in your relationship. Your sex life is practically non
existent.
4. Your spouse has a low self-esteem.
5. You notice your spouse has a sense of confusion about self.
6. You spouse has become lazy, especially around the house.
7. You can't get your spouse to communicate with you.
8. Your spouse gets very defensive if you mention infidelity or affairs.
9. Your spouse is suddenly more attentive than usual.
10. Your mate is working longer hours at work.
11. Your spouse is dressing nicer, looking nicer.
12. You notice charges on credit card statement that don't make sense.
13. Your spouse is indifferent to family events like birthdays and holidays.
14. You find your partner has been lying to you about a variety of things.
15. Money becomes more of an issue between the two of you.
16. He/she doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore.
17. You can't even get your mate to fight with you.
18. You feel as if you are being avoided.
19. Your partner abandons religious faith.
20. Your spouse seems more secretive.

(http://marriage.about.com/cs/infidelity/a/infidelsigns.htm)

It is important to know that if your spouse is cheating, they will not exhibit all of these signs. Also, if your spouse exhibits any of these signs, it does not definitely mean they are cheating. I have been involved in 3 unfaithful relationships (that I know of) and my goal is to help you avoid being cheated on and to try to convince people to stop cheating!

It's hard to accuse people of cheating because they will obviously just deny it and then make you look like the bad guy. Here are a few resources to catch a cheater in the act.

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