Child Beauty Pageants Pros and Cons

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Child Beauty Pageants Have Both Good and Bad Points Parents Should Consider Before Competing!

Child pageants get a lot of bad press, and some of it is warranted. All of it, however, is not.

Toddler beauty pageants pros and cons are both numerous. Child pageants are like just about everything else - there's good and bad.

Some pageants are better than others, but most of the problems that occur are often the fault of the parents themselves, and not the pageant or pageant system.

The majority of child pageants are well organized, fair, and fun.

The best pageant directors go out of their way to ensure that every contestant has a positive, enjoyable experience.

In here I will cover some of the Pros and Cons of child pageants and toddler beauty contests.

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Cons of Child Pageants

What are some negatives of beauty pageants for kids?

type=textSome pageant parents don't adequately prepare their kids for pageants, so the girls don't really know what to expect.

If they don't win, they might take it personally and get hurt feelings. The child might end up feeling unattractive or inadequate in some other way.

Child pageants are also time consuming. To be competitive in the larger pageants, contestants have to spend hours practicing their smile, their walk, and their turns.

The day of the pageant, the child has to spend time in a chair for hair and makeup. Tanning will likely be involved, too.

Child pageants can be very expensive, too, and the entry fee is just the tip of the iceberg. Appropriate child pageant dresses are costly.

You'll also need the right shoes, socks, choker, and hair bow to compliment the dress.

Wigs, wiglets, and/or hair pieces will have to be purchased if you compete in the "Glitz Pageants", along with a flipper to create that perfect smile.

You'll likely have to pay someone to do the contestant's hair, makeup, and tanning, too. I have detailed some of the most common child beauty pageant costs and fees lower down on this page for your reference.

Sometimes pageant moms can be pretty nasty. A handful of pageant parents think their daughter should always win.

When they don't, the parent might blame the judges, the director, or even the other contestants. Thank goodness though, not many parents are like the stereotypes often seen on a certain TV show to make it more 'entertaining' for viewers.

Pros Of Child Pageants

There are lots of positive things about children entering pageants:

type=textBeauty pageants and self-image often go hand in hand.

Pageants can be a wonderful experience for children. For one thing, they get comfortable being in front of crowds.

This can carry over into a multitude of other activities, like dance, drama, music recitals, and future public speaking.

A pageant girl usually learns to be comfortable in front of strangers, giving her self-confidence a big boost.

The majority of child pageants and pageant parents work toward creating a sense of camaraderie among the contestants.

The kids play together backstage, and the parents often help each other. Some contestants have made lifelong friends at pageants.

When parents have the right attitude, the children will, too.

In these cases, child pageants can teach kids to be gracious winners and good losers. They'll learn the aspects of rules and fair play.

Pageants can be a lot of fun for kids. Most pageants sell foods that kids love, including pizza, hot dogs, popcorn, candy, and other snacks.

Some of the larger pageants also provide backstage activities for the kids, and a few even have costumed characters interact with the younger girls.

Child Beauty Pageants require pageant gowns.

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There are Lots of Pageant Prizes for The Contestants!

type=textApart from the child pageant prizes of cash and savings Bonds, the best pageant systems offer all kinds of other prizes and goodies.

These pageant prizes vary according to which child pageant systems you enter, but might include plush animals, bicycles, jewelry, toys, savings bonds, cameras, DVD players, gift certificates, televisions, flowers, kid-themed furniture, and luggage, along with the usual trophies, crowns, and sashes.

In most pageants, all the younger girls will receive something for just competing.

This might be a goodie bag, a trophy, a toy, a stuffed animal, or candy.

You could also make sure that you have some planned gifts or favorite treats on hand just in case you need to compensate your little girl for having a losing day in a contest.

Child Beauty Pageants usually need a costume:

Some contests allow kids to wear fancy dress or casual costumes for fun.

There are many different kinds of child pageant categories in each competition system, but they usually include a costume of your choice or casual section where you can have a bit of fun with costume and props!

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Every Little Girl Loves Being a Princess for a Day!

type=textGirls who enjoy competing in pageants usually love dressing up and feeling special.

Many state that they feel like princesses when they're in their pageant attire and are at the center of attention.

In this case, beauty pageants increase self-confidence.

Kids also enjoy the one-on-one time they spend with their moms, working together as a team.

Child beauty pageants pros and cons depend largely on you, as the parent.

You have the capacity to make competing in a pageant a positive experience for your child, or to make it a miserable time for your daughter.




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A World of Pageants

There are many different types of pageants, including online and offline pageants.

With most online pageants, you submit one or more photographs to be judged against photos of other children in the same age group. Online pageants are inexpensive, and they're a good way to get feedback on photos you're considering using as pageant photographs.

Offline pageants run the gamut from natural pageants to full-glitz events. Some parents and their kids prefer and compete in only one type, while others like to compete in all kinds of pageants. Once you have a basic understanding of what different types of pageants expect, it will be easier for you to choose which ones are best for you and your child.

Most natural pageants don't allow makeup, pageant hair, fancy dresses, tanning, or flippers with little kids. Oftentimes, a tee shirt is provided to each contestant.

The kids wear the tee shirt and a pair of jeans on stage, so their dress isn't judged at all. These pageants are usually looking for natural beauty and personality.

Another type of pageant is a "face pageant." Most face pageants allow a small amount of makeup only, and the girls usually wear flower girl dresses or party dresses. Hair can usually be styled, but pageant hair is a no-no. Flippers are not normally allowed, either.

Low-glitz or semi-glitz pageants might allow typical pageant dresses, but they're not usually stoned. If they are, the stones are small and few.

Some hair pieces might be allowed, but big pageant hair isn't usually seen. The girls are usually judged on natural beauty, dress, poise, personality, and overall appearance.

The most popular type of pageant, and the most glamorous and expensive, is the full-glitz pageant. This is where you see the heavily stoned dresses, the heavy makeup, the glitz photos, the big pageant hair, the flippers, the suntans, and the false eyelashes.

In the larger glitz pageants, you'll probably see categories like swimwear, casual wear, outfit of choice, and/or costume wear, too.

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When you think about it, all the competitive kids activities below are pretty over-the-top in at least as many ways as a glitz child pageant... so take the time to consider these and what is involved in all of them, then cast your vote!

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  • grannysage Apr 24, 2012 @ 8:08 pm | delete
    I am opposed to pageants as I am a long time feminist and I think this just promotes the fallacy that women/girls have to be pretty to succeed. That beings said, my step-granddaughter was just in a pageant and at age 6 she was much more poised than a lot of the older contestants.
  • Helene-Malmsio May 11, 2012 @ 9:54 am | delete
    I must say that as a feminist from the '70 era I always thought beauty pageants were pretty useless for women, but I always loved the baby shows and little toddler shows, they were just so cute, and the mothers so proud of their kids!

    At the end of the day I think it ends up being the choice of the kids, some love it , some naturally dont.
  • kitty222 Apr 11, 2012 @ 7:30 pm | delete
    Really good. I would think that pageants can be a positive experience as long as the children don't feel too pressured to perform. If it feels like a chore or your child throws a fit every time you take her to a new pageant, it's probably time to step back and reassess what you're getting out of it. But if your child knows that she's still a good person and you still love her even if she didn't win, she'll have more fun.
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    My granddaughters love to watch Toddlers in Tiaras. It bothers me the way the mothers treat the children if they aren't doing just what they want. I can see some of your advantages....if it's done correctly.
  • Helene-Malmsio Feb 16, 2012 @ 11:24 pm | delete
    Thanks for visiting and leaving your great comment. Like any competitive sport or activity that kids get into, its ALWAYS all about how the grand/parents choose to behave... and of course, that TV show is guaranteed to track down and spotlight the most outrageous and obnoxious pageant parents that it can --- as controversy creates high TV rankings.

    No one wants to watch a tv show of just sensible parents having fun with happy and well balanced kids that just enjoy the whole pantomime... the fact that your granddaughters love to watch it shows they 'gets it'... it is a fun activity if, as you say, it's done correctly.
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    lynnrdavis pretty much sums up my feeling on pageants. If the children love it, then its great; but if mom's living through her child - not so good. Nice lense.
  • Helene-Malmsio Sep 4, 2011 @ 2:09 pm | delete
    Thanks for your visit and comment - yes, I agree that the pageants should be for the kids to enjoy competing in, not the expectation of demanding mothers and grandmothers. If they are done in the spirit they were first designed for, it should be fun for everyone.
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  • Jul 29, 2011 @ 11:35 am | delete
    Don't see the point at all. Mothers living out a fantasy.
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  • KimGiancaterino Jul 5, 2011 @ 3:19 pm | delete
    I worked on the Miss California pageant for five years and the good definitely outweighed the bad as far as contestants were concerned. The judges? That's another story! I've written a satire lens on this topic. How nice to see a serious discussion.
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  • Tipi Jun 25, 2011 @ 6:49 pm | delete
    May all young ladies involved in pageants have wonderfully positive experiences and be spared the misery that you mention. A controversial subject for sure!
  • Helene-Malmsio Jun 26, 2011 @ 2:16 am | delete
    Thanks for visiting and your comment too! I heartily agree with you - May all the pageant kids have a wonderful experience, and great memories of their Pageant days!
    It would be great if we could all win in everything we compete for, but I think parents have the responsibility of making sure that all competitive sports should be a positive experience for kids.
    I know that I absolutely HATED sports events at school, it was so humiliating to be mostly running last in the races in front of the whole school etc.
    I wish a teacher or parent had worked out how to make competitive sports less of a nightmare for kids like me!
    So to this very day I LOATHE sports and have never played a day since I left school - lol!
  • rtyndall Jun 25, 2011 @ 7:42 am | delete
    I'm afraid I am totally against child beauty pageants. It is the worst kind of child exploitation. And to much of it is the pathetic need of the parent.
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  • lynnrdavis Jun 23, 2011 @ 9:02 am | delete
    Great lens. The little girls are so cute! I'm still not sure how I feel about child pageants. I love watching the ones where the children seem to be having a lot of fun. But some of the moms are way too serious and put a lot of pressure on their daughters.
  • Helene-Malmsio Jun 26, 2011 @ 2:08 am | delete
    Thanks for dropping by and leaving feedback! I agree that it is nice to see when the kids are having fun, and a worry when you see parents and grandparents being too serious about it all - but we see that in all competitive sports too.
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How to Enter a Pageant

Entering a pageant is easy. Once you find one that seems interesting, you can often find information about the pageant on the internet. On many pageant sites, you can download an entry form.

Once you print the form, just fill it out and return it with the entry fee. The pageant director often includes her phone number or email address so that potential entrants can contact her if they have any questions.

You might also find information about local pageants in your area in the newspaper, at dress shops, or at stores that sell children's clothing. In that case, contact information will be provided.

The director can tell you what type of pageant it is and what they'll be looking for in the way of contestants.

Costs of Pageants

One of the Cons for many parents considering entering their kids into child pageants is the amount of money that has to be invested into it!

Being a serious pageant contender isn't cheap. If you wish to be competitive, you'll have to spend a considerable amount of money.

Please keep in mind that the below costs are an average for items you might need for a full-glitz pageant. You might spend more or less on a particular item.

Pageant dress -

This will be your biggest single expense, and it's perhaps the most important. Most serious pageant princesses wear a dress that has been custom made just for them.

A custom-made dress will fit the child perfectly, and there won't be another one just like it on the pageant circuit. Such a dress will cost around $2,500 and usually comes with a matching hair bow and choker.

Shoes -

White Mary Janes will cost about $20-$25. Choose shoes with about a half-inch heel and dark soles. You can find these at most any shoe store or department store.

Socks -

White lace ankle socks can be found for $10-$12 a pair. Double this price - you'll need an extra pair on hand. These socks can be found at just about any children's clothing stores or boutiques.

Hair bow -

If the bow doesn't come with the dress, expect to spend around $15 to buy one with stones. You might prefer to purchase a plain bow and dye it yourself to match your child's pageant dress. If so, be sure to add a few rhinestones.

Choker -

A matching choker usually comes with the pageant dress. If it doesn't, you can buy one for around $15 or create your own.

Earrings -

Most little girls wear small pierced earring studs. These are often AB stones, or something similar, and will cost about $20. The best place to find these is online or at a pageant shop.

Pageant pin or crowning pin -

This is a small pin, usually in the form of a crown. Most are adorned with rhinestones. Use this to pin the contestant number on your child's dress.

The pageant will supply a straight pin for this purpose, but the crowning pin looks much more "polished." A typical crowning pin costs about $15.

Buy two so that you'll have an extra. You can buy crowning pins online.

Swimwear -

Custom-made pageant swimwear will cost $150-$200. If you're handy, you can buy a bathing suit off the rack and decorate it yourself by adding ruffles, bows, stones, pom-poms, or other embellishments. You'll save a lot of money by creating your own swimwear.

Casual wear -

Casual wear outfits vary widely in price. A national level glitz outfit usually hits the $350 mark.

If you're creative, you might want to come up with your own ideas for casual wear outfits. This can be a really fun activity to enjoy with your daughter, and you'll save money, too.

Costume wear -

Costume wear can also vary a lot, depending on how elaborate the outfit is. If you have one custom made, it will run about $250.

Wiglets and falls -

Expect to pay around $50 for a wiglet. Falls are more expensive and generally cost $225 each.

Flipper -

Most flippers are ordered online and generally cost around $250.

Hair stylist -

Usually, the same person who does the hair will also do the makeup. For both at a national pageant, the cost is $250. If you have only the hair done, the price will be about $125.

Makeup artist -

For makeup only, expect to pay $125 at a national glitz pageant.

Tanning -

Tanning is a must for glitz pageants. If you have this done, expect to pay about $25.

Modeling lessons/pageant coach -

Pageant coaches and modeling coaches with good reputations and winning results usually charge $100 an hour for lessons.

For smaller children, the coach might agree to do a 30-minute lesson for $50.

Entry fees -

Pageant fees are all over the place when it comes to entry fees. A local pageant might charge $75-$100, while a big state or national pageant might charge as little as $300 up to as much as $1,000.

Part of the price of the fee depends on how many optional categories you enter.

Photos -

Most glitz pageant photos are enhanced into "glamour shots," and most serious contestants like to have two different looks. This will usually cost between $ 500 and $600, total.

Nails -

Yes, nails are important, too! In a glitz pageant, the judges will be looking for the "total package."

A French manicure will cost between $20 and $25. Little girls shouldn't wear long fingernails in a pageant. The nails should not exceed the tips of her fingers.

If the child is entering the swimwear competition or is wearing shoes in another event in which her toes will be seen, she'll also need a pedicure with French tips. This is another $20-$25. To save money on manicures and pedicures, do them yourself.

Small fingernails can be purchased for $7 a set. If your child's real nails are adequate, just file them smoothly and apply the white French manicure line with a paint pen. Once the white paint is dry, coat the nail with clear polish.

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Take our Poll: Do You Think Child Beauty Pageants are Good or Bad?

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There seems to be a big backlash against child pageants, it's hard to find people who post comments online saying their kids love competing in pageants, and that they are parents who are happy about participating with their kids in the pageant systems.

Here in Australia there is almost a ban on them, as parents assume it is like the TV show "Toddlers in Tiaras" they see over here. In this series most of the mothers (and the kids) are absolutely obnoxious and seriously unattractive inside and out.

And this seems to be the only thing that people are basing their views on as none of the negative commentators actually have any experience with beauty competitions from what I see, but they have very set opinions about them none the less. Or is this a lingering knee-jerk reaction to seeing the JonBenet Ramsey pictures of a beautiful child in high "glitz" pageant mode - and we have linked them with the tragedy of her death in our minds?

Decades ago it was all very different. I remember that when I was 12 I had my pictures sent off by my modeling school to enter me for the Miss Junior whatever-it-was competition at that time. And when I was 17 and started working as a model, it was absolutely assumed by your agencies that you would compete in local beach beauty competitions and if you were successful then to start entering the bigger teen beauty pageants to raise funds for charities while competing in pageants such as Miss Victoria and Miss World.

I never did get around to entering and competing in pageants, as I never took my modeling career seriously - I was too much of a nerd to be attracted to it for very long. BUT - I don't think it would have hurt me if I had had parents that encouraged and helped me to compete in child pageants as a preparation or lead-in to a career in the entertainment industry.

In those distant days of the 1970's pageants were considered healthy ways to build confidence and deportment and self esteem in young girls. This would also lead to modeling contracts and careers on TV and in movies.

I have met pageant winners over the years, who all have well balanced and successful lives and worked in the corporate, marketing or charity sectors. One has also had a very successful career presenting seasonal events covered on TV as well.

And until recently all new mothers were always excited about entering their baby in the local shopping center Baby Contests. It was considered healthy fun for parents and kids...

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I'd like to hear more about your views about kids pageants of all kinds - do you really think sensible and loving parents can't have fun with their kids by participating in child beauty pageants - or are all child pageants really created by monsters and make the kids miserable?

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Yes - I think kids and parents can have healthy fun in a well organised child pageant

spirituality says:

If the child likes it, and the parent doesn't push, sure a pageant can be alright.

However, it's just not true that every girl wants to be a princess. I sure didn't.

Helene-Malmsio says:

I think pageants can be good for kids if they have sensible parents. The child beauty pageants are no worse on the kids than Ballet, Ballroom dancing, or a whole range of 'healthy' competitive activities that kids are enrolled into all year long!

No - I think that all child pageants are cruel and unnatural and should be stopped.

Cari_Kay says:

I am just so uncomfortable with the whole idea. We really work to ensure our children know that if they are to be beautiful they'll find that by being kind, generous, and not self focused. We just want them to be kids.

scarlettohairy says:

This is not a good way to encourage children to excel. I think rewarding natural abilities and letting children be kids is healthier.

oxfordian says:

I think the whole purpose a point of beauty pagents is unhealthy, regardless of the aspects of it that can be portrayed as positive. There is, no matter how many different aspects there are to them, a focus on "poise" and "beauty" just struting about in front of people. There are dozens of better ways to teach children social skills ... children's theater, dance, music, etc.

tvyps says:

Most are definitely not for the kids. If they have the "cutest kid" contests like they had years ago, that is ok. When you start adding all of the glam stuff, that is for the parents and is not natural. Other than the parents, I am sure the pedophiles love them.

edecas says:

I think we get the attitude that looks are all important early enough without introduing it at age 3 or 4 or 5 or 6 ...

mbrownauthor says:

Sorry, but I don't like them at all!

happynutritionist says:

I wouldn't get as extreme as to say it was cruel, necessarily, but it's not a concept I'm particularly fond of, whether it be child or adult, as it promotes measuring yourself against others and not how special you are because God made you the way you are. JMHO

I-sparkle says:

By mere virtue of the fact that these are children we are talking about, these pageant should not be allowed. This is not an activity for a child.

PaulOnBooks says:

Monstrous distortions of children's lives - ban them.

 

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  • whats4dinner Jan 21, 2012 @ 7:58 pm | delete
    Lovely lens, child beauty pageants are great it helps them build confidence. Great idea for lens!
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    Interesting lens!
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  • barrelroll Aug 21, 2011 @ 4:40 pm | delete
    Very informative lens on the pros and cons of child beauty pageants. Thanks!
  • Helene-Malmsio Sep 4, 2011 @ 2:14 pm | delete
    Thanks for dropping by, glad you found the lens informative - much appreciated!
  • SereneSea Jun 16, 2011 @ 10:56 am | delete
    I think it is tough for the child, at this tender age, but many kids have made a fortune with this life time opportunity.
  • Helene-Malmsio Jun 26, 2011 @ 2:26 am | delete
    Thanks for your visit and comment, much appreciated!
    I just hope that most of the pageant kids have fun and enjoy themselves, and have sensible parents to make sure it stays fun. I have no doubt that the Tiaras TV show etc. go out of their way to find the worst parent examples so that they get hot TV ratings from creating their rather distorted 'reality TV' (and by now we all know what a load of bunk 'reality TV' is).
    I know of people who have done well, and are competitive enough to have enjoyed the whole process. Just a pity that some parents really are waaaaaay too competitive in this like any sport, and basically ruin it for everyone else.
  • StephenC May 19, 2011 @ 12:26 pm | delete
    Nice lens...how about the alleged botox mom? Now that's getting crazy.
  • Helene-Malmsio May 22, 2011 @ 2:58 am | delete
    Thanks for dropping by and commenting, much appreciated! That Botox mom is totally crazy! The mind boggles at what parents will do to keep their kids winning in sports and in any competitive field their kids participate in.
  • mattseefood May 6, 2011 @ 8:39 am | delete
    Good lens! We always wanted to send our youngest sister to a pageant because of her height etc. Thanks for all the info and tips here
  • Helene-Malmsio May 8, 2011 @ 9:50 am | delete
    Thank you so much for dropping by and leaving your feedback - it is very much appreciated - and so refreshing to get a bit of balance to the comments on this subject!
  • I-sparkle Apr 3, 2011 @ 1:48 pm | delete
    This was a good lens. Pageants are for adults, not for children. Good social interaction, competition and feelings of achievement can be fostered in a child in much more "child like" activities and environments. School sports, family board games, and church come to mind right off the top of my head.
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  • a_willow Apr 3, 2011 @ 10:56 am | delete
    I'll respond by quoting your own words: "If they don't win, they might take it personally and get hurt feelings. The child might end up feeling unattractive or inadequate in some other way." Do I really want, as a parent, put my child through this as a toddler? As 3-4 year old little girl who should be out playing with her little friends and simply enjoy her natural growing path? I don't think so.

    BTW, I see from your comments that you're took pros side here. For someone who has written a page about pros and cons, you should take more objective stand. And be more neutral. And, start by seeing pros and cons yourself before asking others to share what they think.
  • Helene-Malmsio Apr 3, 2011 @ 11:13 am | delete
    Thanks for dropping by and participating in the debate, much appreciated!
  • Aussie parent Mar 29, 2011 @ 8:09 pm | delete
    Sorry, I think you're so embedded in a culture where child beauty pageants are "normal" that you can't how seriously freaky it is to subject small children to the idea that makeup, fake tans, and false teeth are necessary for them to be "judged" as the most "beautiful". The idea that it will increase confidence when they come to do other activities such as public speaking also seems bizarre - why not encourage your kids (male and female) to learn public speaking then? Maybe tell them that who they are as a person is far more valuable than their appearance? The idea that mothers and daughters can only bond over the painful and annoying procedures they undertake to satisfy some external idea of "pretty" is similarly weird to someone who hasn't spent years being brainwashed by American pageant organisers. No, sorry, this is why so many Australians are saying we do not want this to be considered okay or normal for our kids. If parents want their kids to do this, let them move to America.
  • Helene-Malmsio Apr 3, 2011 @ 4:22 am | delete
    I think its a bit sad that readers comments so far only go by sensationalist TV shows and the absolute extreme end of the scale. I'd like some brave parents whose kids compete in pageants and love it, to join in with their .02c worth too.

    NATURAL child pageants are a very different deal, with no tanning or "glitz pageant" tricks allowed. Just beautiful kids having fun.

    Loosen up everyone, you don't take your kids out of competitive sports programs that require uniforms or glitzy costumes and ferocious dietary controls and extremes of exercise/practicing and and dealing with the insanely competitive parents... Natural child pageants are 'sane' compared to the extremes of those competitive sports and their parents!
  • Helene-Malmsio Apr 3, 2011 @ 5:55 am | delete
    p.s. I also happen to think that the Glitz Pageants are a bit extreme... I can't see why fake teeth and hair etc are considered normal!

    I wish that pageants for kids at least, stuck with the Natural Pageant guidelines... a bit of make up and hair, sparkling costumes, but not so much of the outrageous fakeness.
  • spritequeen Mar 26, 2011 @ 11:55 pm | delete
    I liked this lens, for the information, but honestly, I hate the idea. Sorry. I just can't see making my kid get a tan and sit all day for hair/make-up. By the time that's all done, she wouldn't look like my little girl anyway. Just my opinion. Like I said, great info - I just wouldn't do it.
  • Helene-Malmsio Apr 3, 2011 @ 5:58 am | delete
    Thanks for dropping in and for your comments. I really do appreciate it!

    But what is considered normal, and what is not?

    I remember spending long hours every day practicing ballet routines, and being tortured into uncomfortable prickly costumes, having painful hair and makeup to glam me up for the show, and being told to lose weight, and being on show and competing ... all in the name of healthy kids Ballet classes.

    I think it would be much the same for Gymnasts, Dancers, Skaters, competitive marching... and probably even harder on the kids competing in sports.

    So where do we draw the line? Take the Poll and let me know!

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