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Children With Autism Who Cannot Express What They Feel

My heart is breaking for the children with autism who cannot express what they feel. I recently discovered a miracle which caused me to be both elated and heartbroken. Even as I write, I can hardly control the tears, for I know only too well the horrid an' cruel depth of such despair.

Lemme' tell you a bit about a young girl whose arrival thrilled her parents. The joy must have been great, for there was not one child born, but two. Knowing the thrill of being a mother, myself, I can only guess at how excited these young parents were when their beautiful twin girls were born..

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Autistic Girl Reveals Unimaginable Intelligence

Eleven Year Old Autistic Girl's Miracle

Falling Over Focus BlockIn the beginning, her parents watched anxiously as Carly tried to keep up with her twin sister. Finally, at two years old, Carly was diagnosed with Autism, a prison that takes hold of a body an' won't let go. A virtual torture chamber from which one has no escape.

For eleven years, Carly fought against the bars that held her prisoner. Her near-constant humming, rocking, pounding an' erratic behavior must have been very difficult for her parents to watch, knowing there was nothing they could do to reach their precious baby. It seemed that a big part of her challenge was her inability to focus. Little did they know how amazing her focusing skills were.

Meanwhile, as would be learned later, Carly was doing everything possible to try an' communicate her own sense of desperation. She fought to break the hold that encapsulated her mind and her body. She yelled. She cried. She screamed! All to no avail, for it was impossible for anyone to comprehend her many gestures an' cries for help.

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The Big Reveal of Pain and Emotion

You Don't Know What it Feels Like to be Me

No one expected the big reveal of pain and emotion that Carly would suddenly spring on them. Without any prior warning, she sat down at a computer and typed the words 'HURT' and 'HELP.'

As you can well imagine, such sudden evidence of higher-intelligence, as opposed to what had become accepted thinking of Carly's abilities was enough to create a stir amongst the adults who were with her at the time. After all, Carly's behavior was simply a sign of lower brainpower and aptitude... Wasn't it?!?

In time an' with more training, I'm sure, Carly was actually able to share summa' the awful torture that is her world. One day, to the horror of those who had been her caretakers, she even typed the following message, "You don't know what it feels like to be me, when you can't sit still because your legs feel like they are on fire, or it feels like a hundred ants are crawling up your arms."

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Carly is Sharing What it's Like to Have Autism

The First Ever Autism World Leader Summit

Carly is sharing what its like to have autism and doing what she can to help others understand victims of autism in their care. I was astounded when I watched her type, "i would love to host the first ever autism world leader summit to finally come up... " There are no capitals in that sentence because that is just the way Carly typed it.

From being locked in her own body an' diagnosed as mentally deficient, to having a desire to help other people with the same diagnosis is, to me, not only a miracle, but astounding. That Carly could be so compassionate, in view of all that she has personally suffered, is a sign that her intelligence has only barely begun to surface.

This makes me wonder, "Is this what it was like when Anne Sullivan helped Helen Keller escape her world of silent darkness and show the world what she could do? What other doors can be unlocked by overcoming that misconception of a perceived lack of intelligence? I both shudder to think an' anxiously await the next great miracle.

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I Know Some of What Carly Feels Like

The Ants She Describes are Real

I know some of what Carly feels like, to a much lesser degree, I think. The ants she describes are real. There is no escape.

Several years ago, I was forced to see a doctor because of similar symptoms. When asked to describe what I was feeling, my response was always that my arms an' legs were on fire an' it was like having thousands of ants crawling inside my bones.

I well remember the reaction to my words, before I found a doctor who understood an' b'lieved me, "There is NO disease or syndrome with symptoms you describe. I think you just need to realize that this is something of your own invention. It's important for you to work at finding your 'Happy Place' so you can put these imagined illnesses aside and move on with your life."

Needless to say, I kept searching for someone who would listen an' help me find relief for those awful, awful symptoms. As mentioned earlier, I did eventually find a doctor who was able to help a great deal, although I still struggle to some degree with the intensity of an illness that insists on being in control.

That is why, when I watched the video below, I bawled like a baby. My heart aches for all those children an' adults who likely experience much of the same that Carly does, but they have not been able to get the needed help. I hope you will watch the video, too. Maybe in that way, you will be one more person to feel empathy an' do what you can to help.

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Autistic Girl Expresses Unimaginable Intelligence

Mother Nature Balances Herself Out

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Computer unlocks autistic teen's exceptional voice

Update - Carly Now Helps Others With Autism

Confused ThoughtsUpdate to my previous writings about Carly Fleischmann... Carly now helps others with autism. When she reached out to try and share what she was feeling by typing on a laptop computer, Carly actually unlocked her own exceptional voice.

Although I have never met Carly, I am very proud of the type of person she is and what she is a'ready accomplishing in her young life. She lived without a voice for more than ten years, struggling to make herself heard. Once she found a way to make others hear her, she began to set goals for helping more people who struggled with the same difficulties. No, it did not happen all at once. Nor was Carly able to instantly reveal every aspect of her previously hidden emotions. Nonetheless, over time, she was able to work towards greater expectations; for herself, as well as others.

Imagine, if you can, what it would be like to have your thoughts confused alla' time. With your mind an' body in contest with each other an' demanding attention at all times, it would be difficult to try an' focus on any one thing at Any given time. The maze to the right is how I

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Others Are Benefiting From Carly's Autism Breakthrough

Carly Is Using Her Own Experience With Autism to Help Others

What a great day that must have been for Carly! She was having a very bad day an' her frustrations seem to have been the trigger that pushed her to Grab for straws, as it were. Desperation made her reach for the one thing she had never tried before; the computer. She was upset with her doctor an' determined to tell him how mean he was being. Thus, she typed the word, "Mean."

What a great day that must have been for Dr. Howard Dalal, Carly's therapist! That is, I presume he is a doctor, since he is a therapist. Because I was apparently wrong when I reported that Carly's first word was, "Hurt," followed soon after by the word, "Help," I must also assume that there is much of her story that I have not been privy to. Still, knowing how far she has come, I am openly amazed by her strength an' determination.

Today, Carly is a young woman, soon to graduate from high school. She has written her own chapter in the book that her daddy wrote. She has a blog where she has been able to give advice to others who are trying to care for someone with autism. Do you realize how astounding that is?!? Carly is actually able to give advice that is helping other victims! Unbelievable that this young lady who was given a sentence of life imprisonment is now able to help other victims outta' their prisons. That, to me, is nuthin' short of incredible. Carly Fleischmann is my hero.

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Read More About Carly and Her Autism Breakthrough

Helping OthersIf you would like to read more about Carly an' how she and her family are dealing with life after her breakthrough, you can find more information at this link: Computer Unlocks Autistic Teen's Exceptional Voice.

You might also enjoy reading Carly's Blog. I was blown away by summa' the advice she gave to others. She doesn't only give advice. Rather, she explains why she makes the suggestions she does. Typing away with one finger, Carly gives solid, helpful advice to make life better for the person who is writing, as well as for the person who is being challenged by all that autism entails.

As I am trying to update this page, we are being warned of extreme weather, which could include tornadoes. Thus, for now, I will close an' come back another time to try an' add more information an' possibly some pictures. So, until the next time, keep a hug on. :)

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Help Is Available for Those With Autism

Victims of Autism Can Be Helped

Help is available for those with Autism. Victims of Autism have a better chance today than they have ever had. Below are some books to give hope and help.
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Autism Is a Prison for Those Afflicted

Please Speak Out If You Can

Autism is a prison for those afflicted with it. Please speak out about anyone you have known with Autism. Were you able to help? If so, how did you help? Your feedback might be a key for someone else.

  • Atreyusmommy Apr 29, 2012 @ 5:34 pm | delete
    I love your lens. Such great information and such a touching story. I have a 3 yr old with epilepsy and he has had a few delays. I wrote my very first lens on him. He is very intelligent and has shown dramatic improvement. Thank you so much for sharing! I would love to add you to my favorite featured lenses on the lens that I am currently working on. I am trying to create a virtual circle of support for parents out there with special needs children.
  • YayasHome May 4, 2012 @ 6:21 am | delete
    Thank you very much for your kind words. I have visited your page an' thoroughly enjoyed reading an' taking the polls. I know by the way you write that you are the right mama for your son. I look forward to reading more of your pages.
  • queenofduvetcovers Apr 15, 2012 @ 12:17 pm | delete
    Hello, thank you for this great lens! I am currently taking care of a little girl who who has autism. About a month ago, she wouldn't say a word. But she has now begun to say a couple of words, which is great! I constantly talk to her and sing. I usually repeat things. That's helped a lot. The key is to don't give up. =)
  • YayasHome Apr 15, 2012 @ 1:16 pm | delete
    What a joy it must be to see this child's accomplishments! It's obvious to me that you are an important person in her development. Thank you for your part in helping her to improve. I have always felt that conversation an' music were very important to overcoming difficulties. This certainly seems to be true in this case, too.
  • rantheman1 Apr 12, 2012 @ 10:27 pm | delete
    Words can't describe this lens! My oldest daughter suffers from autism and I've learned a lot from her...Probably more than I could learn from a college professor.
  • YayasHome Apr 15, 2012 @ 1:10 pm | delete
    I am sorry to hear that your daughter is struggling with this very unkind challenge. I do feel that she has been sent to exactly the right family so that she can reach her greatest potential, though. It is my strongest sense that your daughter will be the best person she can be by having your influence in her life. I'm so glad to realize that you are as willing to learn from her as you are in willing to share your own knowledge with her.
  • MindMart Apr 4, 2012 @ 12:22 pm | delete
    I just saw a documentary about a family with 6 children affected by autism. Very informational lens.
  • YayasHome Apr 15, 2012 @ 1:02 pm | delete
    Oh, My. Goodness! I cannot imagine the struggle an' incredible love this family must have for their children. At the same time, I am struck with how amazing those parents must be who have been entrusted with the care of so many special an' precious children. Thank you very much for sharing.
  • chookyco Apr 1, 2012 @ 12:56 pm | delete
    I have a friend whos son has autism, he is obsessed with escalators, they go on holiday to places with escalators just to make him happy :)
  • YayasHome Apr 15, 2012 @ 12:58 pm | delete
    You see what I mean? Those who have been given the care of such special young people do everything in their power to make sure that the children have every opportunity for happiness an' growth. I am overwhelmed by your friend's love an' devotion to make this child happy. Thank you so much for sharing this with me. I am a happier person for knowing there are such good people in this world. Thank you.
  • jordanmilesbasketballstuff Apr 1, 2012 @ 11:31 am | delete
    Very interesting lens...
  • YayasHome Apr 15, 2012 @ 12:54 pm | delete
    Thank you so much. I'm glad you enjoyed it.
  • daria369 Apr 1, 2012 @ 10:37 am | delete
    I believe these kids are the greatest teachers!
  • YayasHome Apr 15, 2012 @ 12:52 pm | delete
    Now, those are profound words. I am in total agreement.
  • bwet Apr 1, 2012 @ 8:20 am | delete
    great lens!
  • YayasHome Apr 15, 2012 @ 12:51 pm | delete
    Thank you. I appreciate your visit.
  • miaponzo Apr 1, 2012 @ 1:23 am | delete
    I have two children with learning disabilities among other problems.. and it is very difficult, but it's a mission :) Blessed!
  • YayasHome Apr 15, 2012 @ 12:51 pm | delete
    On the one hand, my heart goes out to you because I know you are overwhelmed by all that is involved with caring for children with disabilities. On the other hand, as I mentioned to 'GetWellSoon,' I am in awe of the trust that has been placed in your hands to care for those remarkable young people. You must be a very special person, yourself, to have been handed such precious children to care for.

    Thank you very much for your kind Angel Blessing. I am honored.
  • dosmaster5000 Mar 31, 2012 @ 9:04 pm | delete
    I have family members who are living with autism. It certainly has it's limitations, but everyone does there best to keep things as normal as possible. One thing that I have found in my research is the importance of Vitamin D and autism.
  • YayasHome Apr 15, 2012 @ 12:34 pm | delete
    I had not heard that. Thank you for sharing that information. I feel that as more is learned 'bout many different illnesses, it will be discovered that such natural things as vitamins an' non-synthetic foods will play a large part in overcoming most medical pro'lems.
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