A SIMPLE solution to defiant children, tantrum and hyperactive behaviour ... simply avoid nasty chemical food additives!

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Consider this before you roll out the big guns!

We tried cutting out artificial colours and flavours and the change has been like pure magic.

My adorable yet defiant hyperactive tantrum-throwing grand-daughter had become a headache for her mother UNTIL ... a miracle happened. We found a dramatic improvement when we - both my daughter and I - got serious about food additives.

It's tough love, depriving her of those cup cakes with pink icing and coloured sprinkles but the improvement has been undeniable. So just in case you, too, are at your wits end with defiant or hyperactive behaviour, with temper tantrums, aggressive out-of-control behavior, here's where you may find an effective solution.

The problem may not be the children. Tantrum and hyperactive behaviour could be caused by the food preservatives, colorings and flavorings which are part of a normal child's diet. Buy fresh preservative-free bread, cakes and cookies with no artificial colorings or flavorings and read labels on packaged food. My daughter uses 'The New Additive Code Breaker' as her constant shopping reference - with dramatic results (see link to book below).

For the price of a guide book and some discipline in what you buy for your child, reading the labels on packaged foods and asking the local bakery whether they use additives, it's definitely worth a try.

And finally, while all the focus is on dealing with the needs of your child, what about YOUR needs? Here's a suggestion for seriously attending to your needs, as parents needing to be able to cope at all times!
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Update, post-Christmas 2011, clear evidence!

The evidence is now clear (for me). With my granddaughter on a strict no artificial colourings or flavours diet, there has been the unavoidable pre-Christmas parties, post-Christmas sharing of sweets when visiting friends - and the Christmas Carols night in the local park when Santa handed out sweets to the kids.

I observed an almost instant reaction whenever I was present (or later on visits to my home). On each occasion the hyperactivity lasted for 2 days, always. So in the midst of a clean slate, so to speak, of none of the suspect treats that kids tend to consume as a matter of course, here was proof right before my eyes (and my nervous system). Even a single lolly! One was found in my shopping bag - that I had hidden then forgotten - and the change in behaviour was almost instant.

I was speaking with a mother who had been through the same problem with her (now) 9 year old and, amazingly, they had narrowed the culprit down to the colour green. Now that's a tough one, but great if you can do it.

If you wish to try the same experiment, it's not as severe as we first thought. Simply avoid anything with colours like cake icings with coloured sprinkles, lollies, biscuits, ice cream, complex cereals and bars often labelled as being "full of goodness."

But that's not so bad. Here in Australia there are a number of major brands offering 'No Artificial Colours' in ice cream, biscuits, jelly/jello, lollies and a number of breakfast cereals. Stick with these. Chocolate seems to be okay (watch out for coloured centres), but with that goes sugar which, unless eaten to excess, is not guilty. Good luck.
Important!

It should be of great concern to us all that our children, who know nothing of what goes into the food and the treats they eat, might be getting the blame for, and being punished for, behavior for which they are not responsible.

Will the school kids in this revealing YouTube video be your child?

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A holistic, drug-free program that's 100% safe, effective and can be used with kids of all ages.

As I've mentioned above, I'm not the parent so it's not for me to decide what should be done in the case of my granddaughter. But I have done some research and found a wide-ranging, all-embracing, program totally in harmony with what I'm saying, which is definitely worth looking at for solutions to introduce while (or instead of) experimenting with food additives.

You get masses of stuff which makes this package really worth every cent of the purchase price (it's very reasonable anyhow). Here's just a little of what is included in this huge program.

* Imagine having at your fingertips an arsenal of "secret weapons" that you can use to calm your child down anytime you want.

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Brands who consider kids with 'No artificial colours' products

Let's promote those brands who make products for our children with NO ARTIFICIAL COLOURS. You'll find those words or similar on the packs. Here are the brands and products we've found here in Australia - please add to my list. Favour these brands when shopping.

Ice cream

Peter's (Nestle) tubs (AU)0 points

Jellies

Cottees packets (AU)0 points

Sweet biscuits/cookies

Arnott's (Global Consumer Products) (AU)0 points

Cereals

Kellogg's Crispix Honey (AU)0 points

Are food additives the cause of your child's behavior problems?

A personal selection of guide books from Amazon

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Food for thought from psychologist James Hillman

"In regard to children and their psychology, I want the scales of habit (and the masked hatred within the habit) to fall from our eyes. I want us to envision that what children go through has to do with finding a place in the world for their specific calling. They are trying to live two lives at once, the one they were born with and the one of the place and among the people they were born into. The entire image of a destiny is packed into a tiny acorn [what Hillman calls his Acorn Theory], the seed of a huge oak on small shoulders. And its call rings loud and persistent and is as demanding as any scolding voice from the surroundings. The call shows in the tantrums and obstinacies, in the shyness and retreats, that seem to set the child against our world but that may be protections of the world it comes with and comes from."

'THE SOUL'S CODE' by James Hillman

The Soul's Code: In Search of Character and Calling

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Playful Family Yoga: For Kids, Parents and Grandparents

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I know, getting them to keep still is a problem. But it's worth a try, since this book makes it fun and playful - and involves you and their friends. You might benefit too. Designed to involve every member of the family, the yoga program in this book focuses on those children who are ready for a challenging and fun group of movements that involve both mind and body. Children are guided, using pictures and words, into poses with siblings or friends, with parents, grandparents, or caring adults. Children are first encouraged to do a series of stretching postures that escalate into vigorous warm-ups to energize the body, focus the mind, and strengthen the spirit.

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  • hysongdesigns Jan 5, 2012 @ 7:00 pm | delete
    In addition to the fake food, entirely made up of synthetic flavors and colors+sugar, like Kool-Aid and jello, you must also be wary of Genetically Modified Organisms, now even found in baby food; along with all the chemical poisons sprayed on our food in the field. Even if these aren't causing behavior problems they can lead to a great many health problems, especially in the long term. Most of what's killing us, heart disease, diabetes, cancer are preventable.
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