CHOOSING TO MEND A BROKEN HEART DECISION #3 - Understanding Pain's Hidden Cause
Choosing to mending a broken heart means focusing on what you control - you! Since the only person you can control is yourself - this is where you need to focus when chosoing to mend a broken heart. The healing process begins as to redefine yourself as both the cause and potential solution for your ongoing lingering broken heart. The solution you seek to begin mending your broken heart lies in your hands - and not your ex's!
"Fighting for love is like screwing for chastity. Remember love comes from within."
CHOOSING TO MEND A BROKEN HEART DECISION #3 - "Where Does Pain Come From?"
So why are you hurting? Home come you're having difficulty choosing to mend a broken heart? If you are like 99% of the rest of the world, its outside factors that are responsible for your broken heart.
- You're hurting because your spouse left
- You're in pain because of something your partner did or did not do.
- you're heartbroken because your partner cheated on you.
- Or maybe, your relationship is in a state of turmoil and it's upsetting you.
While there is truth to these statements, you're missing something critical. You see I don't wish to negate the reality of what's happened. I want to help you understand that it's what you aren't recognizing that actually holds the key to mend a broken heart. A decision you must make is to understand pain's hidden cause.
"Nothing is more empowering than choosing to understand yourself as the cause for 'what is.'"
CHOOSING TO MEND A BROKEN HEART DECISION #3 - "Two Ways To Understand Pain's Cause"
There are two ways to understand your pain. Ultimately it's how you choose to explain your hurt that's preventing you from choosing to mend a broken heart.
- YOUR FIRST CHOICE - you can choose to understand your ex & the break up as the only cause of your pain. Choosing to see your pain as caused by the wrong doing of others. This will prevent you from choosing to mend a broken heart. All you'll do is perpetuate your hurt
- Your emotions are caused by forces beyond your control
- The solution to Mend A Broken Heart lies in the hands of what caused it.
- You see, this is how you give your power away and why you're unsuccessful at choosing to mend a broken heart.
- Your ex becomes your emotional salvation (is this what you really want?)
- YOUR SECOND CHOICE - Understanding yourself as a contributing cause of your pain. "Choosing to Mend A Broken Heart", means taking time to understand your emotions as something that you create from within as a reaction to what you perceive around you.
- From this perspective you are able to accept responsibility for your emotional well being
- The solutions to begin choosing to mend a broken heart become clear - readjust your thinking.
- This is also how you reclaim your power and learn to live again.
"The fastest way to change your relationship on the outside is to change yourself on the inside."
CHOOSING TO MEND A BROKEN HEART, DECISION #3 - "An Empowering Decision To Help You Move Forward"
Ultimately emotions are internal psychological creations. Choosing to mend a broken heart means understanding that emotions don't happen to you but within you. Accepting responsibility for your emotional well-being and understanding how you're causing pains lingering presence are how you mend a broken heart.
Ponder these statements as you work to understand pain's hidden cause:
You are the cause and your life is the effect.
You act as both the problem and potential solution in your life.
The answers you seek can only truly lie within.
Understanding These Statements Is Essential To Mending A Broken Heart....
Since I realize this may be a hard pill to swallow, click here to read more about my story - "How I Did This To Myself". Also for more advice on how to mend a broken heart, click here.
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