How to Compliment A Woman

The first compliment is nearly always the best one, it catches the girl off guard and will eventually lead the path to either a positive or negative realtionship.

So what should you say? And why is that first compliment so important?

Well the first compliment is like a first impression, you only get to do one. So if you use that first compliment to tell her you think she's beautiful, then it sets the stage and she'll forever assume you only like her because of her looks.

You see, the first compliment that you say will define, in her mind, the most important thing you think about her. If instead you let her know that you think she's smart, she'll forever think that you like her because of her intellect rather than the physical aspect.

If you're looking for how to compliment women as a way to get them attracted to you, then you should look somewhere else. You see the objective of a compliment is to cather to curiosity and to attract attention... not build attraction to yourself.

If anything, when you compliment a woman, you're actually lowering your value in her eyes. You know how movie stars have a ton of people flocking towards them, throwing themselves at them, telling them how great they are? Well no one would go out with a screaming fan, and in the real world, no girl will go out with a guy that gushes compliments at her.

Instead, you can use a clever and subtle compliment to make a girl feel better about herself in a time of need. When she's feeling down, or least expecting it, if you can compliment her on something small and specific, she'll remember you as someone that cheers her up.