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Controlling Anger Through Anger Management

Though everyone experiences anger, not everyone has learned to control their anger through good anger management techniques. Anger can be brought on by wide varieties of triggers, and sometimes you can be angry without even knowing why. Often, destructive responses to anger are a result of behaviors learned from the adults in your life, who express their anger in destructive ways. We tend to learn by imitation, and often destructive behaviors are learned from those we love the most.>More

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Now that you know you are not the only one who has angry feelings, it's time to learn how to control unhealthy anger. The process of controlling anger is known as Anger Management. Reducing emotions and internal responses that anger cause, is the goal of anger management. The best approach is to identify the things that provoke your anger, and develop strategies to keep them from provoking an angry response.

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Strategies to control anger 

Lower your Stress Levels

Many strategies like relaxation techniques, behavior modification, problem solving, communication, and changes of environment can help control anger. The following suggestions can help lower your stress levels, so you can control yourself when you're faced with things that provoke your anger:
Simple relaxation techniques like deep breathing and relaxing imagery can calm anger.
Try to replace angry thoughts and impulses with more rational ones.
Keep in mind that anger itself, doesn't solve problems.
Most people regret things they say in anger, so think before you speak.
Keep your cool, by being aware of other people's feelings and the underlying cause of anger.
Give yourself a break. Walk away from angry situations.

Sometimes the surroundings cause irritation and short tempers. Take a walk, or find some other way to give yourself a break. Remember, you can't eliminate anger, or change all things, but changing the way things affect you, is the first step toward anger management.>More

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Negative Behaviour 

Poor anger management leads to violence, and violence has a way of getting out of control, until it takes control of the lives of everyone involved. Reinforcing negative behaviors by rewarding a person's verbally abusive behavior (allowing it, excusing it and returning to things as usual) will increase such behavior. When family members indulge the aggressive person, their violent tendencies not only remain, they are known to actually allow the person's poor anger management to escalate to more serious, or harmful behaviors, and can ultimately escalate into physical violence.
When angry people learn there won't be consequences for inappropriate behavior, they can continue without fear of reprisal. Children, who grow up in this type of family dynamic, learn by modeling this destructive behavior.>More

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The Anger Cycle 

The cycle of poor anger management continues, because children in dysfunctional families learn at an early age that, to get what they want, it is okay to destroy things, and hurt others.

A very prevalent dynamic in abusive relationships is guilt and remorse for angry outbursts, followed by begging forgiveness and promising to change, but in the absence of help in developing good anger management skills, the cycle continues, and, since the negative behavior is reinforced, and there are no consequences for the negative behaviors, the violence escalates.>More

Domestic Violence  

Anger Management has become highly publicized, and statistics show that one of the most insidious forms of violence, domestic violence, is on the rise, and the old adage that you hurt the ones you love proves, all too often, to be true. Men commit 95% of all violent crimes.

Domestic violence is the top cause of emergency room visits by women. During the Vietnam War, more women were murdered at home than men killed on the battlefield.

Just like anger management is a learned behavior, so are the cycles of violence that define domestic violence in all its forms. Abuse of marital, or life partners, has seen a steady increase in all socioeconomic statuses of people everywhere. Child abuse has escalated steadily over the years, and more and more angry parents are in counseling with equally angry, out of control children. It seems clear that better methods of communicating, dealing with the most intimate of interpersonal relationships, and productive methods of anger management are vital in today's world.

Whether you blame violence on television, in movies, in video games, or within the families themselves, everyone realizes some proactive steps need to be taken to stop the cycle of violence, and teaching good anger management techniques seems to be the most popular choice to accomplish that task. Domestic violence often has its root in men with low self-esteem, who over react to imagined wrongs and rejections, and is most prevalent in homes of young, unskilled males, who are substance abusers.

It is never right for anyone to be abused. Many female victims of spousal abuse are often coerced into believing they are to blame for the violence against them, but nobody deserves to be abused. Everyone deserves to live and be safe, and any victim of domestic violence should seek legal and professional help centered in positive anger management techniques.