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Discipline for Teenagers

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Inside a typical teenage mind

 

The purpose of this page is to help people understand juat what goes on in a teenagers mind. Parents seldomly understand the complexity of the teenage mind and therefor fail to relate to their children. Hopefully this page will give insight to those who have difficulty understanding teenage ways.

Reader Feedback 

What are your views on how teens should be punished? Do you think that teens are getting away with too much now-a-days due to a lack of punishment? Do you think that teens should be allowed to let themselves be heard when it comes to punishment?

What do you feel is the right way to punish your teen?

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Talking to them and letting them contribute their input on what the punishment should be

amcgowan says:

When they are young teens then punishment is all the parents doing. I think that once they are around 16 let them start having more of a say in things. After all in 2 very short years they will be adults and how are they going to know responsiblity and limits if they have never had to figure them out for themselves before. So at 16 they should be allowed to test the waters into adulthood while we are still there to pull them out if they start to drown. Don't play the adult/child role throughout the whole teen years because then they leave home still a child and not the adult they need to be.

JunLoayza says:

The most effective thing my parents did was make me take responsibility and ownership of what I did. In addition to taking responsibility, I feel the best thing to do is let the teenager figure out what are the next steps to resolve the issue. If the teenager decides the next steps on his own, then they are much more likely to learn and grow from their mistakes.

crazychick873 says:

Talk to them...it will make them feel mature.

Ground them for being foolish.

eccles1 says:

I used to yell at them and it didn't help at all that's what I have learned as a matter of fact this hurts them and it hurt me too life is learning from my own mistakes

 
 
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Punishments 

When you do something wrong...how are you punished?

When doing something wrong...parents tend to deal with the issues in different ways...which way do your parents deal with it?

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My opinion 

Talking to a teen is far more effective than yelling or grounding them. When teens are being blamed or yelled at, they are more likely to defend themselves and their actions because they don't want to admitt they are in the wrong. They will feel as though you are all over their case and will be less likely to learn from their mistakes. Talking to them in a calm matter will let them think through their actions and realize how foolish they were. Allowing them to contribute to the punishment will help them learn from the experience and will give them a chance to demonstrate their responsiblity. They will be less likely to go against the punishment if they helped come up with it. It will also present you with the opportunity of getting to know your son or daughter on a more personal level. You will be able to understand their point of view on things and see them in a new light. Letting them talk with you without yelling will help them feel more comfortable around you and give you a closer relationship.

How to deal with teenagers 

Are you at a loss on how to deal with your teenager? Here are some helpful hints.

How to relate to your teenager

1. Understand their point of view on things.
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Here's my favorite link:

Discipline for Teenagers

How much parental discipline and control is good for teens? 

How Much Parental Discipline And Control Is Good For Teens?

Discipline During Adolescence (1958); Tells story of an adolescent who returns home late at night and neglects his school work. Pictures alternate methods of discipline being tried by his parents without success. Attempts to determine how much discipline is good for adolescents. Shows the results of both too little and too much parental control. Production Company: Crawley Films, Ltd; Creative Commons license: Public Domain.

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