Parenting with Creative Incentives

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Parenting with Poker Chips

When the hubby and I were younger we didn't have a lot of money to delegate for allowances. I bought a set of cheap poker chips and used them to pay my boys. I set up a chore chart and reward list. Obviously some chores were worth more then others. (Example: Take out trash - 1 chip, cut grass - 3 chips). Each son was assigned a color, though they could pay each other with chips as well.

They could use their chips to purchase "control of the remote" for blocks of time. 15 min per chip. They could also cash in chips for opportunities.. Rides to Mall or friends house. Choice of video rental for weekend. Pick a meal of their choice off the weekly menu (since those were what I had available) Hey they fell for it!
Kids working with Poppy

Kids Working With Poppy! 

Paying Their Own Way

Gave each of the boys a sense of pride.

I found it ended arguing. They worked together to earn. The oldest one saved them and cashed in for money (.25 each) at the end of the week, while the younger two would play games and be chipless on the weekends. Now they are older they save and spend money much the same.. Ironic! May even be a good lesson in saving had I thought of it.

When they were out of chips they read or went outside to play. They begged to do chores especially if there was a new game in the house. They felt as though they had more control over their rules. It worked well until they turned 14, getting a teen to do anything is another story!!

My father liked the idea of how this taught the children to save. Others have commented to me that this idea is a better way to teach a child responsibility instead of money motivation. Either way it worked for us!

Suggestions or Advice!

Comments are welcome :)

  • jennynazak Jan 18, 2011 @ 10:09 pm | delete
    I really like your creative approach. Sounds like it worked!
  • StephenC Dec 31, 2010 @ 2:43 pm | delete
    Incentives can work! Great idea.
  • NanaPoppins Dec 31, 2010 @ 4:06 pm | delete
    We have found that it is now working with the next generation, the grandkids!

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