This is a tribute to a very special woman. A woman of beauty, intelligence and grace.

A woman whom I've had the pleasure to share a life with for thirty years - a woman of substance.

It's in recognition of thirty years of marriage, with ups and downs, joy and pain, adventure and challenge.

Its a tribute of union, comradeship, love and respect.

It is an ode to my wife, my love, my best friend and mother to our three fine children.

***Picture taken in Egypt, September 2010***

Thoughts from a loving husband......

15th December 2009

My Darling Cris

Thirty years have passed whence upon I saw your face
Thirty years have passed whence I was gifted by your grace

Thirty years have passed filled with joy and emotion
Thirty years have passed with my love and devotion

Thirty years have passed that filled me with pride
Thirty years have passed standing proud by your side

Thirty years have passed when sometimes we have wavered
Thirty years have passed but each year I have savoured

Thirty years have passed that have seen us through
Thirty years have passed with my unbounded love for you

On this special anniversary I proclaim with my breath
That whatever the future I am yours until death

That in my last breath it will be your name on my lips
The lips which will kiss you as long as God permits

So here is your star to shine in thine honour
To glow brightly in the skies now and forever

Such is my message, each word chosen with care
For your love and your life I have been honoured to share

From your loving husband
Paul xxx


Thoughts from Elizabeth Barrett Browning....

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of being and ideal grace.
I love thee to the level of every day’s
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for right.
I love thee purely, as they turn from praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood’s faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints. I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life; and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.

Elizabeth Barrett Browning 1806 – 1861

Thoughts from William Shakespeare......

Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day?
Thou art more lovely and more temperate:
Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,
And summer’s lease hath all too short a date;
Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,
And often is his gold complexion dimm’d;
And every fair from fair sometime declines,
By chance or nature’s changing course untrimm’d:
But thy eternal summer shall not fade
Nor lose possession of that fair thou ow’st;
Nor shall Death brag thou wand’rest in his shade,
When in eternal lines to time thou grow’st;
So long as men can breathe or eyes can see,
So lives this, and this gives life to thee.


Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:

O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;

It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth’s unknown, although his height be taken.

Love’s not Time’s fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle’s compass come:

Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.

If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.

Thoughts from Robert Burns....

O my luve is like a red, red rose,
That’s newly sprung in June:
O my luve is like the melodie,
That’s sweetly played in tune.

As fair art thou, my bonie lass,
So deep in luve am I;
And I will luve thee still, my dear,
Till a’ the seas gang dry.

Till a’ the seas gang dry, my dear,
And the rocks melt wi’ the sun;
And I will luve thee still my dear,
While the sands o’ life shall run.

And fare thee weel, my only luve!
And fare thee weel a while!
And I will come again, my luve,
Tho’ it were ten thousand mile.

Robert Burns 25 January 1759 – 21 July 1796

A Star in the Sky

Naming a star after a loved one is purely symbolic. Astronomers, scientists and even Nasa will not recognise a personal name. Stars are given boring identities – a combination of letters and numbers. Especially the most distant.

But it is possible to name a star, regardless of the killjoys who regard it as sentimental nonsense. A personal name on a star is registered with the International Star Name Database. In a world of clinical cynicism, there is no room for passion and romance. But there are billions upon billions of stars in the universe, and who says that one is not out there for the one you love?

Whether it be the love or your live, or relative who you wish to remember, isn’t it great to look at the sea of stars above in the future and say to your beloved There’s a star up there with your name on it!

A Pearl by Any Other Name.....

30th anniversaries are identified with pearls. Real pearls are expensive. One alone costs several hundred pounds, and a necklace is beyond the means of many. however, a single pearl or pair of earrings will do the job just as well. Cultured freshwater pearls are a good alternative, and although cost a few bob, one pearl alone is unique.

Stardust by "Take That" - A different take!

With Gary Barlow and Camilla Kerslake

For the official movie version page down (but not before you’ve heard this!)….
Camilla Kerslake - Rule The World (with Take That)
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If Ever I Would Leave You....from Camelot

Sung by Robert Goulet

ROBERT GOULET - If Ever I Would Leave You (Live w / lyrics)
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Stardust - Rule the World

Take That - Stardust - Rule the World
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1,407 ratings | 608,691 views
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Further Reading for Elizabeth Barrett Browning

Elizabeth Barrett Browning was a prolific writer and reviewer in the Victorian period, and in her lifetime, her reputation as a poet was at least as great as that of her husband, poet Robert Browning. Some of her poetry has been noted in recent years for strong feminist themes, but the poems for which she is undoubtedly best known are Sonnets from the Portuguese.

Written for Robert, who had affectionately nicknamed her his "little Portuguese," the sequence is a celebration of marriage, and of one of the most famous romances of the nineteenth century. These are some of the most passionate and memorable love poems in the English language. There are forty-four poems in the collection, including the very beautiful sonnet, "How do I love thee? Let me count the ways."

Further reading from Robert Burns......

The most essential of the immortal poems and songs of Scotland's beloved national bard are collected in these volumes.
With the publication of his first book of poems in 1786, Robert Burns-the twenty-seven-year-old son of a farmer-became a national celebrity, hailed as the "Ploughman Poet." When he died ten years later, ten thousand people came to pay their respects at his funeral, and in the two centuries since, he has inspired a following among Scots and poetry lovers around the world.

A pioneer of the Romantic movement, Burns wrote in a light Scots dialect with brio, emotional directness, and wit, drawing on classical and English literary traditions as well as Scottish folklore-and leaving a timeless legacy. All of his most famous lyrics and poems are here, from "A Red, Red Rose," "To a Mouse," and "To a Louse" to Tam o'Shanter, "Holy Willie's Prayer," and "Auld Lang Syne."

All comments welcome.....

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  • myshelle01 Jul 02, 2011 @ 2:07 am
    Your Lens has brightened my day. How absolutely lovely for your wife.
  • Spook Dec 31, 2009 @ 4:57 pm
    Well late again as is normal. You never cease to amaze me my fine old fellow. Happy New Year to you and all of yours.
  • jgelien Dec 30, 2009 @ 9:56 am
    Gloriously romantic. Much happiness and many more love filled years to both of you. You made me tear up. 5*
  • Dec 29, 2009 @ 7:02 pm
    What a lovely tribute to your wife and your 30 years together! You are such a romantic aren't you? Spreading my Angel wings to bless this lens and the love behind it.
  • NAIZA Dec 22, 2009 @ 6:20 am
    Congratulations on your 30th Anniversary! It's better late than never.. Wow, such a sweet and loving thoughts for a very special person.. I'm happy for you both. Wishing you more anniversaries to come!
  • oztoo Dec 21, 2009 @ 2:26 pm
    Oh Paul, what a wonderful romantic you are. A beautiful tribute. Congratulations to you both on your 30th anniversary.
  • Joan4 Dec 19, 2009 @ 5:30 am
    This is a beautiful tribute to your bride! Congratulations on 30 year anniversary!
  • olive Dec 18, 2009 @ 2:00 pm
    That's fantastic Uncle Paul. Congratulations!! May you have more years to come to celebrate together. Aunty Cris is very lucky with a loving and fantastic husband like you. I know she's very happy with what you did. More fantastic years to come. Cheers! olive
  • spirituality Dec 17, 2009 @ 2:40 am
    I guess I'm a bit late, but Happy Aniversary none the less. :)
  • skiesgreen Dec 17, 2009 @ 1:44 am
    What a lovely romantic lens and thoughts on your 30th anniversary. The love shines through. Great job

  • LaraineRose Dec 16, 2009 @ 9:28 pm
    Congratulations on your Pearl Wedding Anniversary Paul and Crecencia - you both must have stars after you. My husband and I have been married for 42 years. Seems like yesterday!
  • Oosquid Dec 15, 2009 @ 2:58 pm
    Congratulations. Thirty years is quite an achievement, all the best to you both for the next thirty.
  • Craftyville Dec 15, 2009 @ 2:27 pm
    Beautiful lens, I love the idea of naming a star after the one you love
  • Kate-Phizackerley Dec 15, 2009 @ 2:18 pm
  • mysticmama Dec 15, 2009 @ 1:10 pm
    Happy Anniversary to both you & your lovely wife. A beautiful tribute to love, life & partnership!
    I wish you both many more years of joy & togetherness,
    Blessed by an Angel!
  • mukunda22 Dec 15, 2009 @ 9:57 am
    I think you both deserve great honor for getting to 30 beautiful years of marriage!! And this, a beautiful tribute!!

  • GrowWear Dec 15, 2009 @ 9:55 am
    Paul and Cresencia, may you share many more years of joyful love. Congratulations on your anniversary.
  • JaguarJulie Dec 15, 2009 @ 7:10 am
    AQh, "Whether it be the love or your live, or relative who you wish to remember, isn't it great to look at the sea of stars above in the future and say to your beloved There's a star up there with your name on it!" I see a star with YOUR name on it. A lovely tribute!
  • Janet21 Dec 15, 2009 @ 6:30 am
    Wonderful lens. Congratulations on your 30th wedding anniversary. :)
  • GroovyFinds Dec 15, 2009 @ 4:11 am

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