Dating Seeking Secrets Revealed!

When we go out to date the person we like to date, we actually never know what the outcome is going to be. We hope the best, sometimes we get dissapointed, and sometimes we just have time off and we have some fun.

But wait a minute. Isn't the dating game all about intimacy and feelings? Yes, it is at the bottom line. But since we really never know what are we going to get, then often we spend our time and we don't get what we really want. Maybe this girl you met was talking too much, or she was only interested about your money or whatever the reason might be, then you feel like you have spent your time for nothing and you just met another canditate who didn't make it.

The point is, we don't often get to the bottom line of dating, and this is to feel the great and mutual burning feelings, and to have great sex life.

But why is it so hard to get? Well, I can tell you because mostly, men don't know how to get to the bottom line in the first place! They give too much options to the woman they are dating, but the best option you can ever give to her is to present yourself as a potential lover. And the good news is, you can learn how to become this DESIRED man who women want almost instantly.

And it gets even better, because I've done a big work for YOU and I've put all this secret attraction information into one e-book, that you can download for FREE, to improve your dating life massively.

You can get it from the main page of my GUY GETS GIRL blog.

Inside there you will learn how to change your mindset about women and success,
how to talk to women in clubs, bars and on the dates to make them feel attracted to you the NORMAL way. Also you will discover how to become the man that she is insanlty interested in. And how to take the important steps from sitting next to her to intimacy.

You can thank me later, but first do yourself a favour and download this FREE e-book from GUY GETS GIRL blog . Read it, and make sure you apply these secret methods to improve your life.

Take care!
Martin

I've been talking to hundreds of men recently, trying to understand what do they really want. Well, I know what I want, since I'm a man myself too, but I wanted to make a survey that takes together a wide range of men's thougts and feelings.

One of the most common thing that ALL the men really wanted was a steady relationship with a caring and loving woman.

In fact, what men want more than anything is to please the woman they are with. But... (and this is an important insight) men want to get into relationship with a woman, who already has those hundred other great qualities that a man will never mention and could probably never list or describe even if they were asked to, because they need to see and feel these qualities first.

We men know what we want if we experience it, then after we can say that this is what we want!

And when man finally experiences feelings and qualities caused by this "right" woman, then he quickly becomes emotionally involved and not only stops RESISTING a long term relationship... but a man will actually start being that part who wants to get into relationship with her.

So let me translate it to you this way...
If a man is telling to you, "I need to be alone right now", then what he REALLY means is:

"I need a woman who can make me FEEL good and better when I'm with her than I do in my everyday life as a single man. And I'm not feeling that with you right now."

Or when he says something similar to, "I'm not ready for a relationship", it does not mean that he is unable to have a real relationship somehow.

In most cases it means that he does not want a relationship with you. The proof of this can be, that often man answer to the womans relationship request that they're not "ready"... but then they go and marry the next woman who causes a strong attraction and burning desire. Not all the women can cause it, but they can learn how to do it.

Men seem so unpredictable and sometimes you can't even understand men, until you discover the way men think and the triggers what make him do the things he does.

It can be so easy for you as a woman to start to understand men when you read book called "Catch Him And Keep Him", and turn that understanding into lasting and loving relationship, where you never have to worry about your relationship suddenly ending again.

So all the woman can improve their success with the MOST desirable men, when they take the time and learn to understand what do men really want. I suggest you read "Catch Him And Keep Him", to improve your dating seeking game and overall life.

To Your Success!

Martin Von Puusep

Yesterday I was writing into my blog that I'm going to talk about how to make the attraction to grow for you, instead of seeing her interest for you to decrease. To make it grow in the first place, you need to understand this magical world changing feeling called the "attraction". If you want to know how to make women feeling attracted to you, then read on.

Lets make it clear, I want to say that I think that long term relationships are great and wonderful but picking up women is something a bit different, witch is acctually even easier than creating lasting relationship.

However, you as a MAN must learn how to make the woman feel attracted to you at the very beginning you two meet. Yes, you've heard me right, it's all about LEARNING. If you don't do it, and don't learn how to cause the attraction from the very start you two meet, then you are taking a HUGE risk. You are going to invest your time, money, effort, energy, gifts and emotions, without knowing the outcome. And you are pursuing someone who may or may not NEVER feel the same way about you.

To see it from the other angle, if you DO master and learn the attraction creating traits and qualities, to make her feel gut level attraction for you, by using your PERSONALITY and the right COMMUNICATION, then you woun't be GAMBLING as much as when it comes to women and relationships. You will have the power to choose when to get into the relationship and this kind power is something you want to have.

If you do not have lot's of success with women, you need to change your beliefs about women and what women want. If you are nice, caring, stable and intelligent guy, but you still can't get that woman you really want. Lot's of men thave this same problem, they just don't get what's wrong, because seems like they have all the nice qualities to offer, but women tend to refuse at some point when these nice guys want more.

You must understand that women don't give a damn if you are a nice and stable guy. You can be nice and stable if you two are married, but "nice" is not enough to attract girls. Nice does not light up emotions and make women feel a gut leve attraction. It never has worked and never will.

So what does make her feel attracted to you and take you look like a potential lover? We will get there soon. I will give you some of the masculine qualities that you need to have in order to be seen as a boyfriend material. Read on from picking up women

I thought to tell a little story about how boy gets girl, you might find it interesting, maybe you have even had the same situation. Well, read on to find out%u2026

There was a young men once who saw this beautiful girl. He approached her and everything was going fine and they had fun time together. This boy asked her out once. Of course she didn't know what to expect and because of interest whats coming, she accepted.

The boy drowe on her house to pick her up to leave a good impression. He picked a nice place and did everything to make her like him. He drowe her back home after having a long conversation, where they got to know each other.

The next day boy called the girl to ask how she was doing, the girl sounded a bit busy but was still talking to him. The next day after that the boy called again, but she was not answering anymore. Later they met and the girl told "lets just be friends". '

Ok, where's the logic here? He was doing all the nice things to make her feel good.

Can you see where I'm heading here in this "boy gets girl" story? or if not ten times. And if you did, believe me, you made her feel uncomfortable, not comfortable.

Of course you can, because you've had this same situation, at least once

This is very typical story how a boy "gets" girl and in reality loses her before the date ends. It has happened to you and it has happened to me (well it will not happen to me anymore:-).

What is the first mistake here? Picking her up from her place of course. Never pick up a girl from her house on the first date. Also never go behind her door if you don't have a car. It is much better to say, "lets meet near the coffe shop" etc. This makes her do something to get to see you.

This makes her walk because of you. And this gives you a higher value in her eyes.

But lets go on to see other mistakes. The second mistake was having a long conversation on the first date, while she was probably bored to death already.

Don't give out everything about yourself. You can play with this and make her even more and more curious. The girls go so grazy if you tease them like this. And of course be funny, but do not try to be a cloun to entertain her.

The first date should last 1 hour, not more. If you must, just jump out from the chair while you have interesting conversation, and leave her wanting for some more.

I call this the "vacuum effect". It's really working, and not only for the first date. If some one leaves you and turns back on you for no reason, you instantly want to grab this person. Don't use this for bad purposes, but just remeber it.

And almost the last thing: don't try to make the girl to like you. Expect to be liked in the first place. Do not care, do not seek for reaction. Just be what you are and be friendly.

That was the typical story about how a boy "gets" girl, and loses her for some reasons he does not understand.

Well, now you now what was going wrong if you had this date. Stop being nice, if you must, be bad but still polite.

Keep going.

I'll be back.

Martin

Women are always testing man. I guess you have had woman challenge you demand something in a way that gave you a bad, uncomfortable feeling because you just did not know what to do. But you still wanted to please her and do whatever she wanted? I guess you have had it, because women are always testing in dating seeking. Fail the tests and she will soon be heading to the sunrise with some jerk motorbiker who caused sexual attraction.

Yes, women are testing you starting from the very moment you two meet. This means that they try to see what kind of man you really are in dating seeking game. Are you a real man or a real wuss? She will find answers to these questions pretty fast indeed because dating seeking world is tough.

Women "dating seeking" tests might start with really simple tests, like asking you to pick her up from work. If you´ve been together with her for longer time, then it is totally ok to pick her up. But if you two just met and she is asking you to pick her up, then be careful. This might be part of her subconcious dating seeking game.

Put yourself first, do not be afraid to tell her "no". She might seem a little mad at first but she will respect you for being a man.

Women are attracted to some specific quality traits naturally. If you don´t have these traits and you create a impression that you embody these traits, then she will not feel attracted to you and she will continue her dating seeking to other man. In this case she will challenge you to see how much wussy you really are to be sure she has to move on until she catches a real "big fish".

If you keep falling these tests, then they only get more tougher until she leaves.

If woman starts to lose her attraction to a man, she´ll become uncomfortable and start doing all kinds of strange things in dating seeking game.

The best option to handle women tests in dating seeking is to understand how women think in a first place. You need to realize that attraction does not make any sence. You might be a nice guy, but she could leave you because of you ARE that nice guy. It does not make any sencse! Women often love abusive personality whose sexual communication causes attraction.

You don´t have to be a jerk or abusive motorbiker to cause attraction and handle women dating seeking tests. The best way to handle woman tests is to be a man and to get some quality traits that causes attraction.

So you need qualities of the sexually attractive man what cause instant attraction in dating seeking.

These traits are: strong eye contact, your strong reality, being picky, dominance, confidence, not accepting bad behaviour, overly selective, territorial etc.

Get some of these qualityes and her attraction against you will only rise. If you don´t have them, then woman will start to test you and you´re in trouble. That´s simple and its true. Know the dating seeking secrets and you will be way ahead of other man.

I´ll talk to you soon

Martin Von Puusep

What I´m about to reveal you here is actually mix of fun activities and a bit of acting you need to do in Europe way. What if you could get any woman attraction so that she could come along with you anywhere you go and admire what you do? What if you could do it like woman guys do, without being manipulative or without taking her to expensive restaurants? What if you could do it easy and in a fun way causing win-win situation?

You can create emotions and feelings to her that she only dreams about to get women like woman guys. You can put your imagination working for you to come up with fun staff, even if you are working in office and doing boring office work. I will tell you how to do it, but you need some imagination and you need to think yourself out of the daily routine.

First, imagine that you are a like a city guide, a woman guy who can tell interesting stories about places, restaurants, people and so on. Learn to tell interesting stories even if you don´t know the place. But make sure that she does not know also. Talk about monuments, what happened long time ago, talk about houses like you are a real patriot of the place. Talk about the people who used to live there like you really care. You can come up with different stories, and mix them together without trying to impress the girl. Talk like you talk about it because you feel passion about this place, and you can feel the passionate without being fake.

You can do this passionate story telling especially well in Europe, because American women are fascionated about the Europe small caffes and streets, and they don´t know the history. So it is no big deal to come up with your own imaginative versions that cant hurt her. Do it like the woman guys do. Imagine that you are that passionate guy. A little acting is only good for both of you.

Later this evening you can take her to some small Italian restaurant where there is a candle light. Talk about the menu, act like you have something big going on in your life. Look into her eyes during conversation and the candle light will only increase her attraction against you. Talk about the sea while drinking that red wine, be a little bit emotional about your past and be mysterious, but control your feelings. Pay attention to what she says.

Later you can tell that you show her your "painting studio", when she is "salted in" already. Keep some unrevealed secrets about yourself to make her want to know more. Keep going with this woman guys frame and you can imagine what happens later that evening. What you have just done now is you have just fulfilled her deepest dreams about the mysterious guy who smashes into her life and makes her to feel strong attraction. It is not manipulative because you will give her what she really needs and she will appreciate that.

Be the woman guy who tells interesting stories. Be passionate story teller and a little bit mysterious about your life. Even if you don´t have a life like this, who cares, fake it till you make it like in all other aspects in our lives. Waken your imagination and you will give her what she really needs and she will respond in ten folds.

I´ll talk to you later

Martin

This article was first published at Guy Gets Girl