Dating Help For Men

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3 Simple Steps in the right direction for getting REAL Results

Stop wasting your time thinking you're just going to bump into Ms. Right and she's going to fall head over heals for you at first sight. Most likely you won't have the guts to go up to her and she won't even notice you. Or, you have the balls to go up to her but you won't know what to say. If this is you, don't worry, there is plenty of growing room so you can get this whole dating thing straightened out. My friends, you have come to the right place.

Cut to the chase!

Some FREE Advice:

Many guys get stuck in a rut when it comes getting dating advice online. Or worse yet, there's so much out there that they don't know where to start. My initial piece of advice: If what you're doing doesn't work, you must try something new otherwise, you'll get what you've always gotten - a whole lot of nothing. Gentlemen, the definition of insanity is "doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result."

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Try these free steps(Warning: Do not take these lightly):

1. Figure out what you want. What do you really really want? Actually take the time to sit down and write out what you want. And don't just look at what your friends want or have. Really ask: do I want a girlfriend? A relationship? A one-night-stand? Multiple girlfriends? This needs to get straightened out right away because in the moment, it's too late to make the decision and you'll mess up. Unless you know EXACTLY what you want, it only adds confusion for yourself and the girl and wastes everyones time.

2. Develop a plan to getting there. Now that you've got your goal, you have to set out to achieve it. Now for some of you, step 1 was all you needed and you can develop your own plan because on your own, you will do whatever it takes to get the job done.

However, for most of you, you know what you want but don't know how to get it. For instance, if you want a really great girlfriend, you don't know how to find this type of girl let alone getting her to like you. That's where EXPERT advice comes into play...

3. Getting what you want. This is where your plan and your knowledge come together in the form of action. Now that you know what you want, and know how to get it, here comes the hard part: actually getting it. My friends, I can't tell you how many times I've looked up 'how to' advice on the internet without knowing what I really wanted and I never put it into action. Here's golden advice: Excitement without action leads to frustration.

Let me say that again: Excitement without action leads to frustration.

In order to get good at pickup, you must learn from the best or perhaps from a close friend who is well on the path to getting there. Don't believe me? Let me ask you this: when learning how to become an engineer, or doctor or lawyer - who would you rather learn from? Someone who still can't understand the basics or someone who is successful and even started his own practice?

I recommend that you take the time to first figure out what you want, develop a plan of action and then get it. How? I highly recommend getting some EXPERT advice on the #2 and #3 categories so you can get details on exactly how to get the girl of your dreams.

Looking back on the dating advice I've seen online so far, there are very few programs which I truly believe will change 'your game' and offer great advice. The hardest part for meeting women is getting the courage - once you see a girl - to go up to her and start talking. Most guys never know what to say! Or what about this: what if she is in a group? Most beautiful girls are never alone, so you definitely need to get prepare for this scenario. The Art of Approaching is a great stepping stone as it allows you to overcome any obstacle with meeting women and generate serious success.

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5 Amazingly Free Tips!

1. Don't buy her a drink to make her like you. If you are doing this, the won't think you are being generous or nice, she will think you are trying to manipulate her. Of course, she most likely will C\accept free money, but you won't earn any points by doing this. Avoid buying her drinks.

2. Do not ask her if you are her type. This says all the wrong things. It says you are needy, are approval-seeking, and makes her the chooser. Plus, it takes out the mystery of whether you really like her or not.

3. All girls want a challenge. Easier said than done. I'd say, if you've been out there enough meeting girls, you've experience it where the girl is playing hard to get (or REALLY hard to get for that matter). Intuitively, this will make her more attractive. You should play this card first...and it doesn't have to be over the top. Just be a little more independent (don't follow her around, she should be following you some) and more indifferent (if she's talking to someone else - other guys or her girlfriends - don't get jealous. Instead, you do this first!!)

4. Always make the decision, even if you don't think it's good. A bad decision is better than no decision (or worse yet, asking her "What do you want to do.") Now if you get caught in one of these situations, that's because you didn't plan ahead. Plain and simple. You should always know what comes next. For example, drinking coffee to window shop to grabbing a bite to eat to driving her back to her car at your place, to showing her a surprise in your apartment...you get the idea. Or, from party to party to club to afterparty to your place. Always have a backup in case this go right or things go wrong. Make the decision yourself. Girls like natural leaders. Lead with confidence. Plan ahead.

5. You don't have to be good looking to get the woman of your dreams, all you have to do is look your very best. To do this, you might need some expert female opinions. Get a new haircut, but some great jeans, buy some good shoes. Be VERY CLEAN. Always wear cologne. The whole point of this is two-fold: she will notice that you are neat and clean almost immediately AND you will feel great. I promise you. When you look good, you feel good. And I didn't have to say good-looking. Look your best, all the time.

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Reader Feedback

  • John Howard Nov 14, 2011 @ 10:58 pm | delete
    I have read some of the books that you have said above and it helps me a lot to learn more how to be successful in a relationship and also in asking date or dating.
  • Articles_Guru Feb 22, 2010 @ 7:31 pm | delete
    Great Lens. I think online dating is a great concept. I personally prefer sites that target my local metroplex like Dallas Dating.

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