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When you are dating it is a great idea to do more listening than talking. Of course, you shouldn't ask so many questions that your date feels like he/she is being interrogated but you do want to keep the attention focused on your date. Getting your date to talk will tell you if you want to continue dating and it will make your date feel special and create the impression that you are a considerate and attentive person.

Focusing on listening to your date will also flatter your date as you they will seem more interesting simply because of the attention you are giving them. In addition to this you will also be creating an aura of mystery around yourself as very little information about you will get conveyed during the conversation. Later on when your date is thinking about the dating experience with you, they will remember talking about themselves but remember very little about you. So immediately going out with you on another date will rise to the top of their mind as they will want to learn more about you. Using this 'listening tactic' will create an air of 'mystery' around you.

Another advantage of doing the listening rather than the talking is that you get to decide whether your date is worth seeing again. If you decide that you would rather not go out again then your date knows very little about you and can't track you down or become a hassle in any way as they will know very little about you. To enhance your aura of mystery give vague answers and switch the questions back to your date so the attention stays focused on them. This way they keep talking and you keep learning more about them.

Remember, just because you are out on a date doesn't mean you have to reveal tons of personal information. Of course, give enough vague answers to seem interested and sociable without seeming cryptic. If you seem cryptic then the person you are dating will think you have something to hide and will probably not want to go out with you again. This is defeat the whole purpose of dating if you keep scaring your dates off. Simply give a little bit of information about yourself, by and by, and have a good time. Creating this air of mystery will keep the 'ball in your court' so you can decide whether this person is worth dating again or not. Most of all, enjoy the air of mystery you create and have fun with your dating.

Don't have anyone to be mysterious with? Watch the video below...

The movie "School for Scoundrels" is about turning a 'loser' into a self assured, confident man. So he can easily succeed with women for dating and as a seducer.

The particular view of the world used by the teacher of the art of dating and seduction, is one of being in a highly competitive world where there are only 2 types on men...

Those who run shit
Those who eat shit

In other words the dating style being taught here is one of conquering, based in a Alpha Male type dominance.

If you don't know what an alpha male is, imagine those deer butting their antlers that you see on the nature shows. Exactly like that, 'butting their heads' with other men to determine who is the dominate male of the pack, is the theme of what this dating for men comedy is about.

It's funny and entertaining. Some of the principles the dating teacher in the movie teaches are actually valid ways of attracting women. The only part where I would say it's seduction approach is bad is where lying attains such an important approach to dating women. Apparently, so does the script writer as the primary 'loser' gains his confidence, defeats the teacher (who is psychopathic about dominating) and wins the girl by being validated by speaking the truth.

There are many seduction techniques that using lying as a method to attract and seduce women. I think that is absurd as there are a tremendous amount of good looking women around. Anyone who has to resort to such methods to date hot women (or any women at all) is dealing with a very serious scarcity complex.

In other words, there are enough women around that if you just maintain your attitude you can easily find a woman that is right for you. Often a woman is so thrilled to find an exciting, confident man that many of her inhibitions go flying out the window. If you seem needy or look up to her too much then she is more careful and reserved. But we will get to that later...

First I would like to write out the pointers that the teacher in the movie "School for Scoundrels" wrote on his blackboard, as the guidelines for meeting hot women.

It is titled, "How to get Women from the Bar to Your Bed", and could very well have read, how to meet and attract women...

1. Be Dangerous, It's cool.

2. No Compliments. EVER.

3. Always Get the Girl Alone.

4. Wherever You Are, The Place is 'Lame'

5. Relate to her/Parallel her Views.

All of these techniques are for "scoundrels" you don't need them to be successful with women. This post does not endorse these particular moves. It just explains why it works.

Be dangerous it's cool. Women love guys who seem to be :bad:. When a man has a carefree, devil may care attitude, a woman knows that this guy is exciting and not bound to convention. In her mind this mean an exciting dating experience. She also will often want to be the one to "tame" him.

No compliments ever. Men who try to compliment a woman to make her like him or to attract her attention will generally get ignored. Remember a beautiful woman gets hit on all the time. Men are constantly talking to her and complimenting her. So if you don't compliment her then you are not like other men and you will stand out. Another way is to compliment a hot woman then ignore her and talk to her friend instead. Makes her really curious.

Get a Girl alone. this point basically is so she pays attention to you and her friends don't influence her...or intimidate you. The banner at the top of this site will take you to an ebook that teaches you how to approach women in groups.

Say; "This place is lame." This is to give off the idea that you are used to better and creates an impression that if she is with you then you will go to places that are not lame.

Relate to her. Many men talk about themselves and bore their dates to death. If you listen and then relate to her then she feels like you care about her as a person. This creates a bond between the two of you.

Lie. Some women are gullible and will believe your lies. Lying can help you create a personable impression when you otherwise couldn't. On the other hand you will never find a fully satisfying dating or relationship experience if you are constantly trying to manipulate the woman. If you do enjoy this then you need to work on yourself. If you see lying as the only way to get women, then you need to work on yourself.

But hey, working on yourself is a part of life and in the long run you will be happier and date more women, or find "the one" whichever your heart desires.

You can check out the movie below...

The Superior Man by David Deida approaches the attitudes, beliefs and inner psychology of male and female relationships in a poetic manner filled with authority (i.e it certainly seems that he knows what he's talking about).

I first read this book several years ago when I first started looking into the anatomy of relationships. I have spent some a lot of time observing dating and relationships using 'The Superior Man' to understand what I was seeing. Simple reality is: The insights in this book explains a lot of behavior and problems that arise on a date or in a relationship.

For example I often see couples at a restaurant on a date where the girl lets the guy pick the meal. Sometimes the guy gets angry because he is expecting her to be decisive. He is expecting her to use her 'masculine side'. However, by allowing the man to make the decision she is allowing his to be the decisive man while she expresses her femininity. By expecting the girl to choose he is forcing her to access her masculine 'decision making' part of her self. Ultimately an opportunity to enhance intimacy and enjoy expressing of the masculine and feminine in a relationship is lost. If such an attitude continues then the relationship will probably lose its romance over time.

When dating, as intimacy increases, a woman will naturally want a man to take on more and more of the decision making. This doesn't mean that while dating you strt to take over and be controlling. This will make a girl uncomfortable.

Simply notice if the girl is being indecisive or saying 'you decide' then go ahead and make the decision. Take control of the direction of the date. She will follow along and enjoy herself thoroughly.

A woman enjoys her man's masculinity - his inner strength. To feel this strength a woman tests her man whether you have just begun dating or have been in a relationship for a while. Some of it is conscious, some unconscious, but all of it is to see if she can move you from your center and make you feel frustrated. She does this so she can feel how confident and strong you are. If you maintain your sense of humor and your affection then you have shown that your moods can not be manipulated by her behavior. A feminine woman loves feeling this sort of strength in her man.
Many men don't have a clue that women naturally test them. So they assume that the woman testing them is nuts or just plain not interested. That couldn't be further from the truth. The very fact that she's testing you, by trying to bother you, shows she cares!
The next thing to be aware of concerning the woman you're dating, is her moods. A woman's main priority is the flow of love in a relationship. When she doesn't feel love her moods seem to change quickly. While she is angry or irritated the words she uses is either designed to hurt or take control. As long as there is no love flowing. There is not point in paying attention to her words. The words are important only as foar as they reflect her mood.
Your first task whether you are dating or in a relationship is to break her negative mood with love or humor. When her laughs or smiles and the love and affection is present in her mood only then do her words have direct meaning.
Most men try to make peace with the woman they are dating by trying to solve the problems represented by her words this will be ineffective as her words are essentially designed to express her mood. More often than not her words will have nothing to do with the actual problem.
What she wants is empathy - i.e. you listening to her and understanding here and all you have to do to dissolve her mood is to make her laugh.

To learn more read the book below...