Dealing with Dialysis

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Tips to Make Dialysis a Little Easier

If you're reading this, I'm guessing you -- or someone you care about -- are on or about to start dialysis. So let's get this out of the way up front: It can be scary. Your life will change. It's not fun.

It IS manageable. It is possible to integrate this adjustment into your lifestyle without losing yourself or the things you care about most.

You can still travel, exercise, eat things you like. You still can pursue and enjoy many of the things you care about.

Will dialysis be challenging? Yes. Will it take a little time to get into a routine? Sure it will. Will it get easier? Absolutely.

I've traveled this road. I was on dialysis for three years before I was fortunate enough to get a kidney transplant. And now that my father has started dialysis, I am revisiting this territory. The lucky part is that my past experience enables me to help him work through this transition. In so doing, I realize that perhaps I can help others also. So, for what it's worth, here are my insights and suggestions for navigating the dialysis experience.

A Short Explanation of Dialysis

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Lots of technical resources are available to explain how dialysis works. I include a few links to some of that information at the end of this page. Here's the simple version.

The function of the kidneys is to clear toxins from the body (toxins include excess amounts of nutrients that our bodies do need). These toxins are filtered as the blood circulates through the kidneys, exiting the body in the urine. When the kidneys stop working well, toxins build up. (Some causes of kidney malfunction include hypertension, diabetes, genetic kidney disease, damage due to injury or other trauma.) Most people are born with 2 kidneys, so there's redundancy built into the system. A person can get along perfectly well with just one kidney. In fact, with care, you can get pretty far even if your one kidney is only partially functioning.

So what happens when the kidneys stop working? The toxins don't get filtered out and build up in your system. Intervention is needed to support or replace that function. Dialysis acts as a giant Britta filter for your blood. Basically, the blood is diverted through the hemodialysis (hemo means blood) machine, which "washes it" before returning it to the body. This is a continuous process and takes about 3-1/2 or 4 hours to accomplish.

While they are filtering toxins from the body, the kidneys also remove excess fluid. Normally we don't think much about the fluids we drink, because when our bladders fill we are able to empty them. However, when the kidneys are not working effectively, not all excess fluid gets removed. So another function of dialysis is to get rid of that fluid.

Dialysis protocols will vary with each patient's situation, but the most likely scenario is that hemodialysis will be administered three days a week (every other day, but there will be one 2-day gap. The schedules usually run Monday-Wednesday-Friday OR Tuesday-Thursday-Saturday. Most centers have at least 2 shifts; many will have 3. Time on the machine is 3 to 4 hours (depending on individual factors). Add to that the time to weigh-in, get hooked up, get taken off, and sit for a few minutes to recover. When I was on dialysis, I found it helped to think of it as a part-time job -- just another routine.

Where Are You on the Dialysis Continuum?

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Where Will Your Access Port Be?

hemodialysisThe purpose of dialysis is to cleanse the toxins from your body. To achieve this,it's necessary to have a method of connecting the "cleaner" to the body. This access is known as a port (because it is the entry point to your body's systems). In hemodialysis, the access is usually in one of 3 areas: chest, arm, or groin.

Chest: If you started dialysis unexpectedly or on short notice, you've probably had a port put in your chest. This a temporary measure -- you're not supposed to keep it there for a long time but it can be there for months. The advantage of the chest access is that it's immediate. They insert the plastic tubing (it's capped off between treatments) into the chest, just below the collar bone. Until it's removed, you have a piece of plastic tubing coming out of your chest (it's taped down and protected). The main concern is that the point at which the tube enters the body is vulnerable to infection if not kept very clean and dry. So a special dressing is put on when you finish dialysis each day and it is changed when you go the next time. In between, you must not get it wet, so sponge baths and half-showers, only. No baths. No swimming.

Arm or Groin: I've had the arm access but not the groin, so I'm going to focus on the arm access here. The principles are similar. Longer-term dialysis access is put into the arm (or sometimes the wrist), with the location and method being determined by your vascular surgeon after s/he does a venogram to locate a good vein. There are two approaches:

  • Fistula: An arteriovenous fistula is the most natural option and the preferable one if the surgeon is able to identify an appropriate vein. To create an AV fistula, a vein and an artery are surgically connected. After a "curing" period of several weeks, this access is strong enough to accommodate the two needles (one for blood flowing out to the machine, the other for blood returning to the body) needed to perform dialysis. The fistula is completely internal and is a natural part of you, so there are no restrictions on showering, bathing, swimming, etc. Fistulas can last for many years and for some people can be virtually permanent. Surgery for a fistula, is usually an outpatient procedure. There is discomfort for several days, but that's it.
  • Graft. With this method, synthetic or bovine tubing is inserted into your arm, under the skin, as with the fistula. General access is similar. Furthermore, a graft can be used very shortly after insertion. No need to wait for curing. However, grafts can be more prone to clogging or other issues that can compromise their effectiveness.
  • Shunts and catheters are temporary forms of access for immediate and short-term use.

IMPORTANT TIPS to Preserve Your Fistula
>>> NEVER let anyone (except your dialysis technician) draw blood from your fistula.
>>> NEVER let anyone take your blood pressure on the arm with the fistula or graft.
>>> Avoid putting pressure on the arm with your access and don't sleep on it.
>>> Don't carry heavy objects with that arm (especially boxes that might rest on it).

Bring a Cosy Throw

It gets cold at dialysis, especially toward the end of the treatment cycle. The cold temperatures are necessary sanitary measures, but they can be difficult to take. That's why you want to bring a nice warm throw to cover yourself when you get chilly. I combed through several dozen options for these and selected what I think is the best choice. Here are my criteria:

  • warmth: this is its primary purpose, after all.
  • washable: easy care is essential. I looked for machine washable and dryable. You will want to wash your throw weekly -- and more often if it gets blood on it (yes, this does happen)
  • choice of colors: this is partly for preference, of course, but mostly because I recommend sticking to darker colors (stains)
  • feels good to the touch: I put this last because the other criteria are more important, in my opinion, but the nicer it feels the more comforted you'll feel. I figure that in situations like this, small luxuries can help. So if you're choosing between 2 otherwise equal throws, pick the one that feels the best to you. And if the feel is more important to you than having a dark color, go with that.
  • overall high ratings: 4 - 5 stars from at least 15 reviewers. I read carefully through the reviews and found some comments that made me eliminate a couple of choices that were in the running. Shedding and pilling, for example, gave me pause.

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Wet Weight vs. Dry Weight

dry-wet-weightThe first thing you will do when you enter the dialysis center is weigh yourself. This number -- your "wet weight" -- is the weight before treatment. After dialysist, you are weighed again. This second number -- "dry weight" -- will be lower than the first one. It's your weight with the excess fluid removed. The difference between the dry and wet weights is the amount of fluid your body accumulated in the interim between dialysis treatments. This is the amount that your kidneys were not able to get rid of. (Note: In a 3-day-a-week dialysis schedule, two of the treatment days are separated by a day; the third treatment day follows a 2-day hiatus, so the wet weight for that day would likely be higher.)

Chances are, you've been told to monitor and limit your fluids. The stringency of the limitation depends on how much fluid your body is able to eliminate on its own. Evidence that your body is retaining fluids can be seen in swollen hands, ankles, legs, and even face, but the true indicator is the scale..

While dialysis removes the fluid, the more there is to remove the harder it is on the body. The machine can be adjusted to "pull," or circulate, at different levels. The stronger the pull, the more wearing it is and the more tired you will feel. You may think you're just sitting in a chair, but your body is working plenty hard.

PERSONAL ANECDOTE: When I was on dialysis, I had the problem of retaining fluids and my ankles would swell pretty noticeably. I didn't worry about it much because swollen ankles in hot weather run in my family. My doctor would give me "the look" and I'd tell her it wasn't really swelling because all I had to do to get rid of it was elevate my legs for 20 minutes and the swelling would go down.

She always listened patiently and I could barely hear her mental eye-rolling. One day, though, she stopped my excuses. She said, "And when you elevate your feet to get rid of all that swelling, it doesn't just evaporate. Do you know where the swelling goes?" She paused. "It goes to your rear end."

After that, I was more careful with my fluid intake.

Diet (Don't Run Away, You Can Master This

dialysis-food-pyramidI'm not a dietician. I'm definitely not a cook. But I can give you some basics. The thing about a dialysis diet is that you need to compensate for the work your kidneys aren't doing. In some instances, this may mean increasing your protein. In most instances it will mean decreasing potassium and phosphorus.

Both potassium and phosphorus are necessary nutrients that are present in a great many foods. When the kidneys are working effectively, they filter any unneeded quantities of these nutrients, however, this is one area in which dialysis cannot match kidney function. This means that you need to be careful to limit the amount you take in to begin with, in order to avoid excessive build-up between treatments. So a very basic rule of thumb is to avoid foods that are high in potassium or phosphorus.

So, which foods are they? Well, the bad news is that a lot of foods have significant amounts of one or the other of these nutrients.

Potassium
Potassium is found in fruits and vegetables. Some contain so much potassium that they really do have to be avoided (note: I don't say eliminated; nothing is unconditionally forbidden).. Some specifics come to mind: bananas, oranges, nectarines (but peaches are ok), potatoes (all kinds), spinach, broccoli, tomatoes, brussels sprouts,. This isn't an exhaustive list, of course. Better for you are plums, pineapple, cherries, most berries, apples (but NOT pears), grapes, green beans, carrots, cucumber, lettuce, eggplant. Bad news. Chocolate is high in potassium. And dried peas and beans are high not only in potassium, but in phosphorus, as well.

TIP: You can eat potatoes if you cook them a special way (i.e., cook away all the nutrients): cut into small pieces, boil in a large pot of water, pour out water and refill, boil some more.

Odd and Annoying Fact: This runs completely counter to anything you were taught about nutrition, but on a kidney diet, canned fruits are better for you (lower in potassium) than fresh fruits.



Phosphorus
Foods that are associated with phosphorus are mostly proteins: meat (including chicken and fish), dairy products, and legumes (nuts and beans). Of course, this covers a lot of territory, so controlling phosphorus intake can be challenging. In the resource section, you'll find more detailed guidance than I offer here. Your doctor may prescribe phosphorus binders -- tablets that you take with your meals to help keep the phosphorus out of the blood stream. In conjunction with a low phosphorus diet, this can keep things on track.

Double Jeopardy
Certain foods are designated "double jeopardy" -- high in phosphorus and potassium. Unfortunately, some very popular foods fall into this category, but its important to learn what these foods are because they really should be avoided. (This doesn't mean they're totally forbidden. No food is totally forbidden. It does mean to eat them rarely and sparingly.)

Get to Know These Lists

High Potassium
Avocados
Bananas
Cantaloupe/Honeydew
Dried fruits
Tomatoes/Sauce
Spinach (cooked)
Oranges
Potatoes/Sweet Potatoes
Kiwi
Papaya/Mangoes
Artichoke
Juices: Prune/Veggie/OJ

Lower Potassium
Apples
Berries
Lemon
Carrots
Green Beans
Grapes
Plums/Nectarines
Summer Squash
Lettuce/Cabbage
Cauliflower
Sweet Pepper
Eggplant


High Phosphorus
Meat and poultry
Fish/seafood/wild game
Dairy: milk/yogurt/ice cream/cheese
Eggs
Dried beans and peas
Sardines
Pancakes/waffles/biscuits/muffins
Whole grain breads/cereals
Corn tortillas
Nut butters
Processed meats
Organ meats
Beer/cola/milk-based coffee drinks
Pizza

Better Phosphorus
White rice
White pasta
Couscous
Fresh or fresh-frozen meats
Lemon-lime soda
Butter/margarine
Gelatin/popsicles
Pretzels/unsalted popcorn
French bread/Italian bread/white bread
Jelly beans
Angel food, white or yellow cake
Sugar cookies/shortbread
Corn or rice cereal
Cream cheese/sour cream


Hidden Phosphorus
Phosphoric acid
Dicalcium phosphate
Monocalcium phosphate
Pyrophosphates
Hexametaphosphate
Polyphosphates
Sodium phosphate


Double Jeopardy Foods
Milk
Dairy products
Nuts
Seeds
Chocolate
Whole grain products

Snacks

Generally it's better not to eat during dialysis. Among the reasons is that when the stomach is engaged in digestion it tends to lower the blood pressure. Blood pressure drops at the end of the treatment cycle are definitely to be avoided. When I was on dialysis, I suffered these quite a bit until we finally figured out that I needed to stop taking my blood pressure medicine because the combination was creating a problem. This is different for everyone. My father is still on his blood pressure medicine and he has only twice experienced the drops.

When you come off the machine, though, you will be feeling a bit drained. A snack immediately (while still in the chair, even) after you come off the machine can really help.

Pretzels are a very good choice for this, although you're probably salt-restricted in your diet. The immediate post-dialysis timeframe is an isolated instance and these suggestions for salty foods are only in that context. Individual packets are also helpful, in that they are portion controlled and are easy to grab on the run. Alternatively, you can purchase a couple of small, reusable containers and buy large bags and pack your own. Ecologically more sound but the ones left in the opened bag may go stale faster. Normally, I'd go for the self-pack, but on dialysis I might well choose the convenience. Saltine crackers are another good choice.

I also HIGHLY recommend bringing packets of bouillon (liquid or granulated; cubes take too long to dissolve). Your dialysis technician can microwave a cup of water for you (you might need your own cup). so you can sip it right before you come off the machine. If you are feeling a bit chilled, it will warm you up, and the saltiness will support your blood pressure. (If you are adhering to a strict low-salt regimen, check this with your doctor or nutritionist, but usually this is the one time that a little salt isn't a bad idea.) I went through lots of these packets. Worth buying in bulk.

Note: I'm not diabetic so my recommendations are based on not having that set of dietary restrictions. You should adhere to your doctor's dietary guidelines and bring the snack that would be appropriate if pretzels are not.
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What Method of Dialysis Are You Using?

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Kindle Fire

When we discovered that my father was likely to need dialysis within several months, the first thing I did was buy him a Kindle, load it up with some essentials, and teach him how to use it. I knew he would enjoy it in any event, but I also knew that it would be an essential tool if and when he did go on dialysis.


If you're a reader, it's nice to have a compact way to carry your reading material. The Kindle (whichever one you choose) lets you bring multiple books so you can easily select material that matches your mood and attention span.

The reason the Kindle (either one) is preferable to a book in this situation is because you'll have limited arm mobility. Even if your access port is not in the arm, you'll be hooked to a cuff that takes your blood pressure every 15 minutes. It's tiring to turn pages one-handed, especially while trying to balance a book in the same hand. With the Kindle, just tap the screen (or button, depending on the model) to turn the page. Choose a case with a build-in stand and you can read hands-free.

The choice between the basic Kindle and the Kindle Fire depends, ultimately, on your intended use. If you want it just for reading, the basic Kindle will be perfect for you. It's also lighter and more compact, which could be a pivotal factor.

If you're looking for more versatility and your budget allows it, I recommend the Fire. In addition to reading, the Kindle Fire lets you::

  • listen to music: Plug in your earphones, select your album or playlist, and relax.
  • watch movies: You'll have a personal television attached to your chair, but you might like what's airing during your shift. With the Fire, you can download movies and TV shows to watch when you like.
  • surf the web/check email: This requires access to a WiFi connection and will only be possible if your dialysis facility has one, so inquire about it. Note: You will be able to read your emails but likely will find it more challenging to respond, since this would involve extensive use of the keyboard
  • play games: lots of free (or very inexpensive) games are available for your Kindle Fire. Don't pick a game that gets you too worked up. (i I happen to enjoy playing Angry Bird, but it aggravates me, so I would never play it during dialysis.) You'll end up stabbing at the screen and getting agitated, which will raise your blood pressure and set off buzzers. Go for quiet enjoyment. Crossword puzzles, for example.

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Scenes from the Dialysis Floor

PERSONAL ANECDOTE: I encountered lots of people at dialysis -- with different life circumstances, varying levels of health, and miscellaneous conditions. At first, everything was strange and unexpected, but after awhile, it all got to be routine. So the day I heard the clink of something hitting the floor and rolling, I didn't need to look up from my book to know that Miz G's glass eye had popped out once again.

There was some scurrying, and some crawling, followed by a few muffled exclamations. Eventually, though, the activity halted.

They couldn't find it.

They never did. But for days after that, I compulsively checked the floor before venturing into the treatment room, expecting to see that eye peering at me from a shadowed corner.

Neck Pillow

Okay. You're going to be sitting in a chair (albeit a recliner) for 3-1/2 to 4 hours. That's a chunk of time to be in one place and even the most comfortable chair is going to feel less so after awhile. Plus, chances are good that you'll be napping for at least part of that time. A neck pillow to support your head and neck will make that more comfortable and will reduce the chances of going home with a stiff neck.

I considered a variety of pillows, looking at size, shape, and materials. The traditional U-shaped pillows were available in a lot of models (including inflatable, which I rejected immediately because they aren't comfortable). Eventually I settled on the Dogbone because its shape seems to offer the most flexibility in terms of head position (and if your back gets tired you can use it for lumbar support). Its design is slightly cupped, to keep the head from flopping around. The cover is removable for washing. There were a lot of reviews for these pillows and the vast majority were positive. (a number of negative comments said the pillow was "too soft" or "too hard," so clearly this is a preference issue, not one of quality.

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What About Traveling?

dialysis-travelA big question/concern for people starting dialysis is mobility. Because life now revolves around a pretty much unbreakable schedule, a certain amount of flexibility does go away. Can you travel? Yes, absolutely. It just requires a bit more coordination and forethought and some restrictions are inevitable.

These days, though, many types of tours offer accommodation to people who need dialysis. Many cruises offer dialysis on board ship so that travelers can adhere to their routine and still participate in the wide range of activities offered.

Travel outside of a specialized tour requires more upfront preparation but it's very manageable. The key is to allow sufficient time to make the arrangements. I attended a number of out-of-town family gatherings while I was on dialysis. I found that longer lead times helped: 4 to 6 weeks was optimal. The basic procedure was to identify a dialysis facility in the city I was heading to. Then my dialysis center contacted the out-of-town facility to make arrangements for me to be a "transient" patient. Faxing of treatment and medical information was handled by the centers -- I just needed to stay on top of to ensure that something didn't get overlooked.

The one thing I missed, though, was the freedom to pick up and go somewhere for a long weekend on the spur of the moment. You can't just get up one morning, pack a bag, and head out. You have to plan. I didn't much like that, but some things you just accept. If you have a vacation place, though -- some place you go on summer weekend, for example -- you should be able to set up a regular transient appointment at a nearby center and make that part of your routine.

Are There Any Up Sides to Dialysis?

(Just Call Me Pollyanna...)

dialysis-upsidesAre there any benefits to dialysis (other than the obvious one of continued life)? Actually, yes, I did discover a few small conveniences.

Doctor appointments. for example. When you're on dialysis, your vital signs are checked (multiple times) 3 days a week. Short of having your own personal medical team, this is is the most consistent health monitoring you're likely to have. The dialysis doctor (usually your own nephrologist) makes regular rounds at the center, so fairly frequently you'll be examined by him/her and have an opportunity to review your numbers and discuss treatment modifications -- all without leaving your chair.

When it's time for your annual flu shot you won't need to schedule it, go anywhere, or even remember it. It will be administered automatically at the appropriate time. The same holds true for pneumonia vaccines.

Drawing blood. Before dialysis starts, blood testing is usually frequent and you have to go to a lab. This is inconvenient, at best. If you have bad veins, it can also be painful. Once you start dialysis, blood draws are a simple matter of pulling some at the end of dialysis.

Protein Injections. Pre-dialysis, some people become anemic and need to boost their red blood cells by giving themselves injections. If that becomes necessary when you're on dialysis, it will be administered directly into your dialysis access during treatment. No separate injections or needle sticks.

Peeing: This might come under the heading of TMI, but it's a concern many people have. One of the things that often happens when you're on dialysis is that your need (and ability) to urinate decreases and may disappear entirely. When this first happened, I was pretty freaked out about it because it underscored, again, that things had changed. That I was "sick." I strive for individuality, but in this instance I would have preferred to be one of the masses. After a time, I came to terms to this new reality and after awhile I discovered its benefits. On countless occasions, I would be with my family on some jaunt or other and we'd have to make pit stops. I got a little smug knowing that I was never the catalyst for these stops. While they stood in bathroom lines and dealt with less-than-savory facilities, I could relax, enjoy the breeze, read.

A Deal Worth Considering

One of the things I discovered when I was on dialysis was that my stamina was somewhat decreased and there were days I didn't feel up to long shopping excursions. Because of this, I started shopping online more; a lot of my shopping ended up being through Amazon.

Amazon has a program, Amazon Prime, that turned out to be very useful for me. Perhaps it will be for you. Up front, you pay $79 to join Amazon Prime. Thereafter, on any Prime-eligible product (many, many things) you get free two-day shipping. I did a whole lens about this, if you'd like to read it. The gist is that no matter how much you order during the year you won't pay shipping and it ships very fast -- even if its just a $5 item. I just ordered a case of bouillon and one of pretzels for my father, shipped free. He'll have them in 2 days and he won't have to shlep to the store. I may not be in the same state, but I can still shop for him.

>>>Try Amazon Prime

By the way: Anything I'm recommending on this page is eligible for Amazon Prime, so if you join the program or do the free trial you'll save the shipping cost.

Share Your Dialysis Experiences

Are you on dialysis? Do you know someone who is? Please share your experiences.

  • Wbisbill Mar 26, 2012 @ 11:26 am | delete
    Excellent material here!
  • ---Chazz Feb 23, 2012 @ 2:10 pm | delete
    Family experience with major kidney problems but not dialysis. This was an extremely informative and personal lens. My best wishes to you and your dad. Blessed and featured on "Wing-ing it on Squidoo," my tribute page to the best lenses I've found since donning my wings.

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