We often identify with our art so when a customer criticizes it, it can be very hurtful. Work to separate your art from your feelings of worth.
Take client criticisms of our art as an opportunity to improve your skills and grow as an artist.
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"Problem" Clients
Complaining Customers are Blessings
Be non-confrontational, remember, it's not a personal insult. The customer has been brave enough to be open with you about a problem. It does take courage to complain.
I would rather have a client who is up front with me that they are not pleased with the portrait, than to have them accept the portrait and then complain about it to friends and family. You need them to be completely pleased with both their interactions with you and the portrait, in order to receive future commissions.
I used to do a background shading on my portraits that was in an oval shape. One of my clients told me that that oval shape gave her trouble getting it matted and framed, because her frame shop had trouble matching the curve of the oval. I would never have known that, if she hadn't told me that there was a problem. I stopped doing an oval shaped shading and now usually shade the entire background of a piece.
The "problem" complaining customer is a blessing in disguise!
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Art & Fear: Observations On the Perils (and Rewards) of Artmaking
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"Firing" a Customer
A last resort when you just cannot make it work
I think that in severe cases, when you just cannot please the client and you feel the situation is going downhill, then it may be best to tell the client that you are sorry you could not serve them properly and bow out. I think that once you start having negative feelings toward your client, you cannot give them the best customer service and it makes it much more difficult to perform well as an artist. It's important that they get the best artwork and service, so releasing them from any commitment to you is one of the kindest things you can do.
The Client That Almost Caused Me to Quit
It turned out she was a chronic pain sufferer from an auto accident. I have some medical work in my background, so I realize how chronic pain and narcotic pain medications can cause people to act erratically, so I don't have any bad feelings toward the client.
What I learned from the situation is that you need to step away sometimes. If a situation gets hurtful, you do not have to tolerate it.Just refund the client's money, tell them you're sorry you could not help them, and move on. Don't keep struggling if it's not working out.
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