Diabolik Dating and Seduction Tips, Tricks, and Strategy

Do YOU Make These Common Mistakes

After spending hundreds of hours in clubs, and collecting thousands of phone numbers, we came to recognize some of the patterns of failure that we would see repeated over and over and over again. These patterns were so strong that we were forced to revise our entire model of attraction as a result. Among them, were three recurring themes, all of which could easily be fixed with the proper understanding:

The Nice Guy

Have you ever approached a beautiful woman, saying, "Hi, I'm _____, how are you?", only to have her turn and walk away? I bet you thought she was a b**ch. I did too, once. But the truth is, she probably isn't. In fact, she's probably even a decent person. So why did she so rudely blow you off then? Well, think about it from her perspective- all night guys have been coming up to her, with that exact same line, when she knows that all they want is to sleep with her. She doesn't want to sleep with these guys, and even if she did, she couldn't sleep with all of them, so she's had to develop a way to blow off the barrage of boring guys (which make up the vast majority) in the first 30 seconds. So from the beginning, you're putting yourself at a serious disadvantage- that is, by making yourself look like all the other loveable losers who have come up to her, asking for sex. And even if you do succeed in holding conversation with her, 99% of the time, she won't sleep with you. Know why? Because she knows *exactly* why you're talking with her, and she's just not that attracted to you. So what's the solution? Simple.

Make her attracted to you first, before you show your attraction to her.

Now you're probably thinking, "easier said than done", but hold on, we'll get to that, I promise... in fact, I'll show you how to make pretty much any girl so attracted to you, that she'll offer to buy YOU drinks, and take YOU out... but first you need to understand the other two traps:

learn how to attract!

The Friend

I remember meeting this girl once who I just totally hit it off with. We had great chemistry, and we knew we were attracted to each other. So being an AFC (average frustrated chump), I thought that if I spent enough time with her as a friend, it would be easier to eventually start a sexual relationship with her. So I waited, and finally, when I made my move, you know what she said? "Let's just be friends". I was taken aback. Only much later did I realize why I had fallen into textbook trap #2- the Friend Zone. Boy, does this one suck. Even though we had mutual attraction at the beginning, I waited too long and didn't use any kino escalation, so her attraction for me fizzled out. Then when I tried to kiss her all of a sudden, she felt weird about it. In fact, I bet you've had a similar experience. I haven't met a single guy who's never had this happen... and yet it could all be prevented so easily with just a basic understanding of the game! Well, before I teach you all about kino escalation, cat-string theory, and how to keep her attraction for you raging and irrestistible, even while you're away, I want to tell you about the third and final textbook mistake:

The Player

Of all the classic mistakes, this one is the easiest to avoid. And yet, so many guys who should know better continue to make it. That's because it works, kind of. The Player's game is different from a Venusian Artist's, in that it lacks Comfort. A "player" knows how to build a woman's attraction, he knows how to qualify his attraction to her, and he knows how to arouse her. What he forgets, is that the most important part of the game is played during Comfort. Think about it like this- a LONG attraction phase lasts thirty minutes, and a LONG time spent in Seduction lasts maybe ninety minutes. Even in those extreme circumstances, that only makes two hours. Yet a successful pickup takes between 4 and 10 hours, from meeting to sex, or 7 hours on average. This rule has been field tested thousands of times. So, even in extreme cases, AT LEAST two hours will be spent in comfort. Guys who skimp here will find they pay for it later, with Last Minute Resistance.

So while "players" can attract a woman, bounce her, and maybe even begin a sexual relationship with her, you'll find that their results are actually very poor, due to insurmountable Last Minute Resistance, and are, at best, inconsistent.

Of course this is not an exhaustive list of all the things that can go wrong. Far from it, these are just the most common errors that I see even experienced pickup artists and naturals make time and time again, even when they know better. However, there are plenty of other situations to consider, like Buyer's Remorse for instance, or how to deal with AMOGs, obstacles, etc., etc.,.

So rather than dwell on everything that can go wrong, let's focus on what you can do right! On the next page, I will show you how to erase from your mind all the bad habits you've acquired, and replace them with good game. In fact, if you're going to learn, you might as well do it right, and learn from the best, from the ground up. So here's what I want to do with you- I want to endow you with all the skills and material you need to pick up a woman, any time, any place.

I want you to learn good game, from the ground up, and remove any doubts in your mind as to what you should say, how you should say it, when, and why.

That's just it- I don't want to tell you what to do, I want you to understand, so that you can internalize all these good principles I'm going to show you, and apply them.

In fact, my greatest hope for you is not only for you to succeed with women, but to master the principles underlying your success to the extent that you can teach ME.

I don't promise this process will be easy, but I do promise that I can make it *a lot* easier, shorter, and more productive.

So stop cheating yourself. You've got nothing to lose, and you might as well learn as much as you can, as it's free.