Dirty Talk Examples - Not for the Faint of Heart, or Ears

So you're looking for some talking dirty examples? I bet the thought has been on your mind - either as a personal thought you had or something you'd like to be able to do for your partner.

Or the subject of talking dirty was bought up by your partner and you're trying to discover what's involved and how you should go about it.

Talking dirty isn't as hard as you think it is - That's the good news!

There are lots of things you can do to help you learn to talk dirty - and what better than some talking dirty examples (lower in this article).

If you're ready to enjoy the art of talking dirty in any setting, then by the use of some taking dirty examples I will show and teach you the best techniques, phrases and help you build your own fantasy scenarios.

15 Dirty Talking Secrets

You might not believe me - but you have the ability to not only talk dirty as a part of your lovemaking - but you can be successful at it! It just takes a few suggestions and the help of some talking dirty examples, plus a few other ideas on how to get started.

When I look for books on talking dirty, especially ones that contain talking dirty examples - I want to find one that is aimed at readers of all levels. This means that words you may feel uncomfortable with will be used from time to time - but it's important to build your confidence about talking dirty. In your mind you need to deal with this now, before you read more books or pursue further into the realm of talking dirty, if you think it will be an issue.

Start Talking Dirty Tonight

Don't get me wrong - you can still talk dirty without having to use the really dirty words and I'm going to give some talking dirty examples you can use. A 'talking dirty guide' isn't all potty talk, but there is a primary basis of sexual content, and naughty words used when using your talking dirty phrases - like these talking dirty examples below.

It's important to figure out what your personal comfort level is with talking dirty words, and the comfort level of a guy. Once you know these two thresholds you'll know how far to go, and when to stop.

Let's back up a moment and discuss what talking dirty does. Why does they exist? And why is it such a big turn on for you and/or your partner?

Talking dirty during sex registers on a variety different levels for each person, and this is why it's so popular and enjoyed by so many people. It's unfortunate that few partners know how to do it well or with feeling. Feeling, and 'believe-ability' are essential. If you're in the mood - your partner won't be far behind!

When talking dirty is done properly it appeals to you & your partner's imagination. Also to your senses and the basic instincts that we all have - no matter how buried or denied they might be, these feelings & instincts exist, but are dormant until stimulated properly.

As you hear or give dirty talk, your imagination draws a picture of what you are hearing or describing in your mind, and stimulates you. For the recipient it opens a vivid, colorful world in their imagination that helps your partner explore mental fantasies and subconsciously brings them closer to you.

When you are using your talking dirty examples, it allows you a free reign to use words and thoughts you wouldn't normally use. Being the talker is very liberating and exciting because it allows for a higher sense of involvement and intimacy with your partner by sharing something so private and unique.

I hope you've learned some new insights to talking dirty. It can be romantic, erotic and an amazing way to role play with your partner.

Don't make THIS mistake when Talking Dirty

Now I'd like to remind you that a request to 'talk dirty to me' can mean many things to many people. Remember that we've identified how our partner likes to be spoken to. We have to remember these ground rules otherwise the conversation will go crashing off the tracks!

Here's some of my favorite examples (these are my own personal variations, which I learned from the Ultimate Talking Dirty Guide)

I'll put gender specific words in parentheses, so you want swap the words out depending on who you're in a relationship with.

Starting Slow

You look beautiful/handsome tonight.
I love how your hair smells.
I love how your skin smells.
Your eyes look amazing tonight, they sparkle in the light.
I like your warm breath on my neck.
I like your warm breath on my ear.
Your hand on my knee feels nice.
Your hand on my shoulder feels nice.
More 'Getting Started' examples

So these slow examples are a way to say "talk dirty to me" and not blow the roof off. It's like a train going up a steep hill - the train has to build up steam, it can't just come out of the gates and fly up the hill - it will be met with a lot of resistance. We don't want resistance, we want success! We want to be able to say "talk dirty to me" with confidence, and growing talking dirty into our relationship with our mate.

Foreplay

I want to get naked with you right now.
I love you so much. Can you feel it?
Do you like the way that feels?
I love the things you do with your tongue.
What's that thing you do with your hand? I adore that!
I love the way you kiss me - especially when you kiss me there!
You're so damn gorgeous.
Want to see what I really want? Come closer -
Strip for me, honey. Slow. I want to savor every inch of you.
Do you like the way that looks?
I'm going to control you tonight.
This is going to be the dirtiest night of your life.
More 'Foreplay' examples

Now as you can see here, we've upped the ante and are speaking a little hotter. In my "talk dirty to me" examples I'm staying 'softcore' - so not to say anything too rash and shocking. It's important to start slow, and learn how your mate likes to be spoken to. Do they like it mild, regular or hot?

Hot Stuff!

Say my name when you do that!
I love feeling your strong arms when you're on top of me. I love your muscles!
Use your mouth on me.
Use me as your toy.
Tell me what you want.
I'll do anything for a sexy lover like you - anything at all.
You're the best lover I have ever had.
Show me what you can do. I know you're (man) enough!
More 'Hot!' examples

So these examples can be personalized with name, pet names, naughty words etc to spice them up. I'd consider these talking dirty examples to be 'softcore', there's nothing too seering hot to say to my wife.

What you say to your mate all depends on their level of comfort, and if they like to softcore or hardcore. Once you know this, and the Ultimate Guide to Talking Dirty shows you in explicit detail, you'll be able to master talking dirty, with your own talking dirty examples.

Go ahead - try making some of your own talking dirty examples - you'll be surprised at how easy it can be.

Have fun, feel free and liberated when using your talking dirty examples!

Adam says: Remember to make talking dirty fun, and explore what sorts of talking dirty examples you can dream up with your mate!

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