Divorce Tips

When you have come to a point in your marriage that you are certain you no longer want to stay in it most of us have no idea where to start. Often times we will immediately turn to family and friends for divorce tips. More so than not the advice you will receive is inconsistent and only leaves you feeling more confused. It's important above all that you know why you are unhappy and need to pursue divorce. Sometimes the reasons are easy.. Infidelity, abuse, addictions, neglect, and list goes on.
Other times the reason for seeking divorce is not so cut and dry. Maybe your just in a loveless relationship and no matter what you've tried nothing seems to change. Here are some divorce tips to help you get your thought process on the right path:

Divorce Tip 1: Be sure you are ready to move forward. Nobody else can make this decision for you
Divorce Tip 2: Know what you are going to say before approaching your spouse. Rehearse if you need to. Yes I'm serious.
Divorce Tip 3: Schedule a time to break the news. Don't do it over dinner or with family around.
Divorce Tip 4: No matter what STAY CALM! This is a very emotional subject and tempers can flair. You will have to set the tone.

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Not too long ago a friend of mine called me hysterical. I had a feeling of what she was about to say. Her day started so typical. She woke up and got the kids ready for school, told her husband by as he left for work, then she drove the children to school and headed out to run some errands. She got home and put up the groceries, did some housework, then headed back out to pick up the kids. Got them home, did homework, got dinner ready and set the table in time for her husband to get home. After dinner she sent the kids off to get ready for bed and that's when he said it, "I've been thinking long and hard about this and I just have to say it... I want a divorce."

Unfortunately her story is way more common than we would like to believe. She was totally devastated and blew up only making the situation worse. In the end she now admits that she should have seen it coming but didn't want to believe it. So what would you do in that situation? Here are some divorce tips that will hopefully help you if this were to happen:

Divorce Tip 1: Keep your cool! If you blow up it will only make this delicate situation worse. I know it's easier said than done but DO IT. Plus it will probably not be the reaction your spouse was looking for.
Divorce Tip 2: Tell your spouse that you have just received some very difficult information. Suggest a specified time (when kids, friends, or family is not around) to discuss it further.
Divorce Tip 3: If possible leave or have your spouse leave. Tell the kids that you/he has to go help a friend or something that evening but get away from each other.
Divorce Tip 4: Get a plan. Your spouse has thought long and hard about this and most likely they have a plan. You need to have your own. Do not let them dictate the entire process. You must look out for you.

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