Dog Training Dos and Don'ts

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What to Do and Not to Do in Dog Training

One of the most important decisions you will make for your dog is how you will train him. Your choice of dog training techniques will affect the happiness and well-being of your dog, as well as shape your relationship with him. Therefore, it is extremely important to gather as much information as you can. Doing the right thing now, will save you a lot of work and heartache later.

1. Do Research All Dog Training Techniques

Training Siberian Husky Shania and Shiba Inu SephyDog obedience training is an area where emotions run hot, and everyone is ready to offer strong opinions or judgments about how to treat your dog. Be careful not to be overly influenced by any one source. It is best to do your own research, stay objective, and decide for yourself, which dog training methods best suit you and your dog.

Dogs learn through a process called conditioning. They repeat behaviors that get them good results, and stop behaviors that get them bad results. There are two classes of dog training methods: reward dog training (give/remove something good) and aversive dog training (give/remove something bad).

2. Do Start with Reward Dog Training

Dog training Siberian Husky Shania with food rewardsStart out with reward dog training. With reward dog training you achieve leadership by controlling your dog's resources. Unlike aversive dog training, there is no danger of losing your dog's trust and/or injuring your dog physically or mentally if you make dog training mistakes.

Also make sure that you are following the Nothing In Life Is Free (NILIF) program. This means that you do not give anything to your dog (including food, toys, freedom, and affection) until he does something for you first.

Dog Training Tip #1
Remember always that there is a danger of things going really wrong with aversive techniques. Your dog may misbehave more, get destructive or aggressive, lose respect and trust for you, get stressed and break down completely, run away, or get injured. Always get direction from a good trainer before trying out pain or dominance based aversive techniques.

Dog Training Tip #2
There is nothing wrong with using food to motivate your dog during training. In fact, it is good practice to make your dog work for all of his food rather than giving it all to him in a silver dog bowl.

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3. Do Communicate with Your Dog

Sharing a moment with Shiba Inu SephyIt is important that you teach your dog what are appropriate behaviors and what are inappropriate behaviors. When your dog does something desirable, mark that behavior (Yes), treat and praise him. When your dog does something undesirable, non-mark that behavior (No), and stop him.

Always be calm, consistent, and fair. If you interact with a dog with nervous, submissive, fearful, or otherwise weak (non-firm) energy, the dog will sense that and start acting out even more. Anger, impatience, frustration, and all other non-calm energies will also amp up your dog and cause him to exhibit even more extreme behaviors.

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4. Do Address and Fix Problems Sooner Rather Than Later

Shiba Inu Sephy playing with best friend KaiAn ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. Manage, train, and socialize your dog carefully, especially when he is young, to prevent bad dog behaviors. If dog behavior problems arise, address and fix it as soon as possible so that it doesn't become a learned behavior.

Dog Training Tip #3
Hire a professional trainer if you are unable to stop the problem on your own.

Dog Training Tip #4
Do not simply follow methods that you see on dog training television shows. In particular, the aversive methods used by Cesar Millan, The Dog Whisperer, can have adverse side effects when not properly executed.

1. Don't Hit, Pinch, or Slap your Dog

Fierce looking Shiba Inu SephyHitting, spanking, or slapping your dog is too personal. The punishment clearly originates from you, and there is no way to redirect it. As a consequence, your dog may end up learning the wrong lesson, including:

1. Rough-housing is a fun game that my owner plays with me. Let me try playing it with him and with others.
2. My owner or a person's hand/face coming towards my face or body is a bad thing. I should run away from people or bite the hand/face that is a threat to me.
3. My owner or a person coming towards me means pain. I should stay away from people and keep them away by growling and biting.

Dog Training Tip #5
If you do not deliver the hits consistently, and with good timing, your dog may get confused as to why he is getting hit. He may become fearful and stressed because he is unsure how he can stop the punishment. This may lead to fear aggression issues as well as submissive urination.

2. Don't Punish Your Dog After the Fact

Cute Siberian Husky puppy ShaniaAs desribed earlier, dogs learn through conditioning. They stop behaviors that get them bad results. However, if you punish them after the fact, they will not know which behavior to associate with the bad result. This only gets them confused, and stressed; and may cause them to lose trust in you.

Dog Training Tip #6
When you punish your dog after the fact (e.g. push his muzzle into his poop); he may try to appease you (e.g. lower his head, offer you his belly, lick you). Some people mistake this to mean that their dog understands he has made a mistake. However, the appeasement gestures are only in response to your anger and punishment. Your dog only understands that you are feeling angry; he does not understand why you are angry and he does not associate it with his earlier behavior.

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    Sep 6, 2010 @ 2:42 pm | delete
    Excellent tips on training your dog, persistence, patience is the key to success.
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    rgcustom Aug 6, 2009 @ 12:10 pm | delete
    Great Lens. You have a lot of good tips and advice. I just posted some lenses on dog training, would you mind letting me know if there is anything I should add or delete? thank you so much and again great lens.
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    ShibaShake May 31, 2009 @ 11:42 am | delete
    Hello Jess,
    In addition to affection, dogs also need two other things - exercise and discipline. The good news is it is always possible to retrain a dog, especially one that is young like yours. Here are some things to do -
    1. Exercise your dog everyday - 2 walks(mornings/evenings), play time, and make him work for all of his food.
    2. Several short obedience training sessions every day.
    3. Institute some house rules and be consistent and firm about those rules.
    Here are 10 puppy training tips and advice that may help.

    [in reply to Jess]
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    Jess May 30, 2009 @ 11:30 am | delete
    I don't know what to i am deeply depressed by this situation - so depressed that i am thinking of either moving out or telling my parents to take the pup back to his breeder.

    Ok so i have a toy poodle pup, six months old now. The problem lies in him apparently sitting in my lap all the time. I will admit he does sit on my lap, but i only allow him on there when he's invited up. He does have moments where he is not on my lap, for example at dinner and there are times when i don't have him on my lap at all.

    I will admit i have spoilt him a bit, i'm big enough and old enough to admit my fault. Please please tell me its possible to retrain him and get the spoilt behaviour out of him. I don't want him to act like an agressive dog when he's older and i don't want the spoilt behavour to cause him to bite anyone or act up in some way.

    Any advice you can give me will be most appreciated.
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    ShibaShake May 8, 2009 @ 1:59 am | delete
    Hello Enca,
    I am glad to see that things have improved. I think you have definitely made some positive changes. Giving him more light is also a very good idea.

    With respect to getting your family members more comfortable with your dog, you can have them toss him some good food every time they pass by. In this way your dog will start to associate your family members with something positive, i.e. food.

    And you are definitely right, it is usually much harder to train people than it is to train the dog :) Please always supervise your dog when he is with your little sister and make sure that she is safe at all times.
    [in reply to Enca]
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    Enca May 4, 2009 @ 4:07 am | delete
    Hi! Shibashake!

    thank you very much for the advise. I was really hopeless that time. I've moved my pup on our living room area. He is on his crate most of the time, since everyone is scared to pet him because they are afraid of dogs.

    I think it helped him to be relocated. It made him expose to different people who walk pass our door. He gets his own space and the tense energy seems to be lessen after that.

    I found an alternative workout for him. Since the streets are dirty, I make him climb up and down every stairs on each floor on our building.

    Now my next strategy is how to give him more sunlight time since we live inside the building and the living room doesnt get much sunlight. I dont want him to develop any negative feelings being left in the dark or dim light.
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    Enca May 1, 2009 @ 4:39 am | delete
    Hi! ShibaShake! Thank you very much for your advice.

    I have moved my puppy in the living area. I think it might help him see other people passing by our door. Since we have a family owned building. I found a new way to take him to a "walk". I know our streets are not that clean to have him walk, so I found out that he can stair climb his way up and down on our building. At least he gets some exercise as well. Relocating from our bedroom to our living room somehow improve my relationship with my family and I think it would be best also for my pup that he is in the living room. At least he wont feel any tense energy whenever he is inside our bedroom all the time where I share it with my family.

    I'm currently "training" my lil sis and my family to be consistent on my pup and not to send mix messages to him. Its quite hard training your family and your pup at the same time! lol! :)
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    ShibaShake Apr 25, 2009 @ 10:34 am | delete
    Hi Enca, It is difficult for a dog to achieve balance if everybody in the family is not on the same page. Dogs really need routine and consistency so that they know what behaviors are desirable and what behaviors are undesirable. You puppy is still very young, and it is always possible to retrain her, *but* everybody in the family has to get involved in the training.

    Some things that a puppy needs:
    1. Two short daily walks.
    2. Play time with you every day.
    3. Short obedience training sessions several times a day (5-10 minutes)
    4. A set of consistent rules around the house. Everybody has to be on the same page with those rules and everybody has to communicate with him consistently about what is allowed and what is not.
    5. Calm energy from the people around him.

    Getting a positive reinforcement professional trainer now would be very helpful. A dog can be a great companion, but a dog is also a big responsibility.
    [in reply to Enca]
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    Enca Apr 24, 2009 @ 1:47 am | delete
    my pup is a 4 months old male mixbreed of maltese-terrier-shih tsu-poodle. Though every pup has its own personality. I think he found a way to establish himself as the leader and my family as the follower. He often barks in the morning and for no reason at all. He barks when I leave the room. He growls at his food bowl after he finished eating. I sometimes get bitten from his aggression over his bowl. I'm getting frustrated and feeling that I have made a mistake on having him. Adding up to my frustration is that my family doesnt want him around the house. My dog senses this energy and thus all of us are having the cycle of frustration. I dont know what else to do. I'm giving up. HELP!
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    ShibaShake Feb 5, 2009 @ 9:43 pm | delete
    Hi Charlie. In terms of pulling while walking, the technique that worked best for me is the red-light/green light technique. Just stop when the leash is taut and start walking again when there is a loose leash. In the beginning you may not get very far in your walks but if you do this consistently, your dog will quickly learn that pulling gets her nowhere. Sometimes doing a 180 turn around helps as well.
    http://hubpages.com/_brec/hub/Dog-Walking-Leash-Training-Your-Dog

    I also highly recommend following the NILIF (Nothing in Life is Free Program). This simply means that your dog has to do something for you first (it could be as simple as a sit) before she gets anything (including food, toys, going on walks, going outside). By doing this, your dog will quickly learn that the quickest way to getting what she wants is to do what you want first.
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    charlie Feb 2, 2009 @ 1:41 pm | delete
    my dog keeps on chewing on the frame and she jumps up at people and now people don't come round because she pulls when we take her out side and she eats to fast.
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    JamesNash Sep 29, 2008 @ 5:31 pm | delete
    I totally agree with punishing a dog after the fact. A lot of people will do this, not knowing that the dog doesn't know why their being punished. I truly don't at all advise sticking your dogs nose in the messes they make.
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    ShibaShake Sep 4, 2008 @ 12:23 pm | delete
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    Great lens ***** thanks for joining the Dog Park Group, you are now featured :)
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