Women, Rescue Your Relationship

It's hard to know what to do to rescue your relationship . If you are going through a break up the number one most important thing you need to do is give yourself some breathing room. Force yourself to spend some time with your girlfriends or family. If you aren't up for being around people, cultivate your independence and spend some time alone but be active to avoid any obsessive thinking.

After the initial emotional turmoil is quieted a little by distraction, it is time to think about whether or not your relationship is worth pursuing. Rescue your relationship by avoiding trying to fix the relationship to soon. This is the time to ask the tough questions:

What kind of person does your partner inspire you to be?

Are you more happy or is the relationship consumed by negativity?

Can this relationship really be salvaged?

Do you have the same goals and values?

You must have a guide- This is the best guide I have found, it can do wonders for your love life. This guide is written by an expert in rescuing relationship. Put yourself in the frame of mind to be able to deal with your relationship as rationally as possible.

Don't answer these questions quickly, you need to really think about these things and be honest. If you can't do this your relationship may not be able to be fix. I understand this is hard but it is necessary. If you aren't sure about the answers then you need more space and it may be time to let go.

Take this time to make a commitment to yourself and your needs. Find your direction and revisit these questions with the intention of deciding the path you will take.
Rescue your relationship by changing your actions that are obsessive and overly emotional. Cease all contact during this time with your ex. When the times comes when you are able to address your ex, you will be emotionally ready. If your ex can see you in this better place you may be able to reconnect with why you were in love in the first place.

Save yourself with a lot of grief 1000 Questions for Couples by Michael Webb. This is the best way to really know your partner and know your compatibility. You don't really know your partner till you've read this book.