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tips on how to get the girl of your dreams
Well hello everybody. This for those guys that want a relationship. This is not for the guy looking for a one-night stand or a quick fling. These are just my opinions and hoe would go about do it. Especially if you want a girl like in the pic. I am not a guru I'm just your average everyday guy.
#1 what are you looking for
Well guys this an important one. You need to decide what you want. Are you looking for a fling or a relationship. What do you want in a girl. A little advice guys, don't set your standards to high. Nobody is perfect and if that is what your looking foe then you will look for a long time. The average woman does not look like a supermodel in a magazine. Even the supermodel in real life doesn't look like she does in a magazine. They airbrush out all the imperfections before they are published. You want to find somebody who has the same interests as you. Looks might be important but don't be overly shallow. You don't want to find somebody so dumb you want to blow your brains out when she talks. Find someone you can have fun with and laugh that is what life is about. Make a list of character traits i don't mean what you want in a body but is she a good cook is she literate whatever you want in a woman. more resources
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#2 Location Location Location
In business they say location is a major factor of success. Meeting someone is the same concept. For starters I suggest you stay away from bars. You don't want anything from one of these kinda girls. In this day and age we have the perfect tools at our fingertips. I met my girlfriend on the internet. Don't try the dating sites why pay for something that could end in disaster. You can try chatrooms like Yahoo or Msn. Its a good way to meet someone locally. It gives you a chance to know the person before you meet face to face. You can discover your likes and dislikes before the first date. To afraid to try the internet thats ok. You have many optionsto try. Go to the mall or a grocery store. Maybe you can find somebody at the park or a beach. Anywhere a woman might go your options are limitless.
#3 Be Yourself
Remember you are trying to sell yourself. Don't lie what will you do ten months down the road when she figures you out. Woman are not stupid you will get caught. Be honest and upfront about everything women like honesty. Let your sense of humor out show you know how to be fun. Let her know what interests you and take some interest in what she likes. You might want to show you can carry on a conversation. People don't like talking to a brick wall. So open up and this might sound gay but talk about your feelings. You might also want to show some confidence even when your not because women love confidence, more resources
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#4 The First Date
Well its the first date whats a guy to do. First let me say don't overdo it. You will find it hard to top each date if you do. Keep it simple but not overly simple don't take her out to fast food and think that will be good. Maybe dinner in a nice restaurant and follow it up with a romantic movie. It don't even have to be in the theater. Try making her dinner and afterward get video and cuddle on the couch. Whatever you do don't forget the flowers roses are good but not entirely necessary. You also don't want to go through the night acting like your going to get lucky. Be a gentleman at all times no passing gas in front of her. No sexual comment or jokes. When you take her home walk her to the door and give her a kiss. Tell her goodnight and tell her you had a goodtime. One last thing for the night don't try to hard through the night if she likes you thats good if not try another girl.
do you have a tip let me know
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mulberry
Good tips I think, how about ask her about herself and listen. The other tip that's good at the beginning is what NOT to do...for instance don't talk about your ex or last relationship. Posted May 02, 2008 |
