Duties of Executor - Documents, Wills & Estates

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What Is An Executor?

Previously I spoke about some of the considerations that would be helpful for families to think about and put in place before the loss of a loved one, particularly an elderly parent.
I have just recently finished tying up loose ends for my late mother's estate, because she had appointed me as Executer for her will.
The Executor of a will is a person, usually related to the deceased, that is appointed by the owner of the will who agrees to be responsible for making sure all the wishes are carried out. This includes hiring of legal aid, signing of any legal documents and the liquidation and disbursement of the estate to the beneficiaries. Other terms for an Executor can be Trustee or Will Trustee.

An Executor Duties 'HeadsUp'

This is not an official or legal reference only my personal experience and check list that was given to me by the funeral home. I am sharing this with anyone who may like a heads up of what you might be in for as an executor, rather than getting it all thrown at you at once, while your in the grieving process. This is the purpose of me making this lens, I hope you find it helpful.
Please be sure to read the Disclaimer.
As an executor, you may run into some of the 'Money Monsters' that sometimes rear their ugly heads. Even in the most unlikeliest of family members these monsters can take over when there is inheritance involved. So, if you are dealing with overwhelming grief on top of these new responsibilities and unexpected greed within the family, I strongly suggest getting professional and emotional support to help you get through your executor duties.

Executor Checklist #1

Documents

This checklist is my own rendition of a list that I received from the funeral home that was compiled by the Scotia Private Client Group which consists of private client services from The Bank of Nova Scotia, Canada.

  • Locate the will and review to see if there are any funeral or burial directions.
  • Initiate or assist in making funeral arrangements, if necessary or meet with pastor if there is to be a memorial.
  • Obtain funeral directors statement of death and apply for provincial or state certificate, most funeral homes will prepare this for you and print off multiple copies. All financial institutions will need a copy as well as the lawyer and any other places that will require proof of death.
  • Locate the beneficiaries.

  • Start making phone calls to financial institutions, insurance companies, brokers, employers, investment trustees to notify and determine assets and liabilities.
  • Locate and obtain title documents for property, mortgages, share certificates, bonds, debentures and guaranteed investment certificates, etc.
  • Arrange for the care of any vacant property or review the insurance coverage for adequacy if it will be unoccupied for any length of time.
  • Check and list contents of safety deposit box, if applicable.

  • Gather prior years income tax returns to prepare and file within 6 months of death.

  • Find out if the deceased is entitled to any Pension Plan Death Benefits and apply if so.

  • Make a list of assets and liabilities and all particulars - personally I would hire this out, as the details of interest rates, maturity dates, payment dates, etc. would be tedious to anyone who is not an accountant (again, my personal opinion).

Disclaimer

Just to be clear, I am not a lawyer or financial advisor, I'm just my late mom's loving daughter, caregiver and executor. I hope in sharing my experiences and helpful resources that someone, maybe you, may find this really helpful in undertaking an inevitable and daunting task. I encourage you to seek advice and resources from the professionals you have in place too and have open communication with the rest of the family so they can help and support you if possible.

To your health & happiness,
Liz

More In The Executor Series

This lens is the second in a series. I felt that this information would be best absorbed in small amounts to ease the overwhelm and make it more interesting to the eyes. You can find the rest of the lenses below and all of them will be featured on every lens :o)
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    pamary6014 Nov 13, 2009 @ 9:19 pm | delete
    Great information on what to expect when a loved one passes. My father died but I wasn't the "executor". No one was. He didn't set it up. The responsibility fell on the sister who had the most "legal" knowledge. However, now that my mom is elderly, I probably should be doing some research since she is the one who inherited my father's estate. I have 3 sisters and 2 brothers. I guess I would like to be aware of the "greedy monster" if I'm not careful. I need to speak with my mom about "outlining" her wishes and then respect them and "execute" them. Thanks for the eye opener.
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    bbcoach Sep 10, 2009 @ 6:48 pm | delete
    When you are named the Executor in a Will, does this officially have the person immediately involved as the Executor? I aave a situation whereby the named Executor is saying that he cannot be the Executor until the signed witnesses on the Will have been confirmed. I believe this to be incorrect. Can someone provide comments. Thanks.
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    missbat Sep 8, 2009 @ 6:21 pm | delete
    Another important lens in your series. Great job!
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    Viky Sep 5, 2009 @ 1:01 am | delete
    Hi,
    All. Executor responsibilities topic was well covered in this lens. I appreciate this lens. Good one.. Great learning thing.
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    OhMe Sep 2, 2009 @ 12:57 pm | delete
    This lens will be so helpful for the Executor. Great information to make a horrible task more bearable.
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    LoKackl Aug 31, 2009 @ 7:16 am | delete
    Great lens on a very important topic. I'm sure anyone who has these responsibilities will love you for the assistance provided here! Amazing research. Thanks, Bliss.
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    stargazer00 Aug 23, 2009 @ 2:01 pm | delete
    A lot of good information here. So much to know!
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    puzzlemaker Aug 22, 2009 @ 9:51 pm | delete
    Liz, these lenses are excellent. I haven't gone through this, but it's very good to know I could come here and learn.
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    Pukeko Aug 20, 2009 @ 5:04 pm | delete
    Very useful information.
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    lwhitelaw Aug 20, 2009 @ 8:34 am | delete
    Great job - there is some very valuable information here. It's so nice to have a checklist to follow during the grieving process because concentration and focus is difficult when you're grieving.
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