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Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) Tapping Tips And Common Questions

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Helpful Tips For Having Greater Success When Using The Emotional Freedom Techniques

 

I'm definitely an Emotional Freedom Techniques enthusiast! I love learning everything I can about EFT tapping and I have proved to myself that it works over and over again.

I'll never stop doing EFT! It's the easiest, most effective tool I have ever used to help clear out emotional blocks, raise my energy and internalize gratitude.

I am constantly surfing the net. I download radio programs & podcasts, tap along with YouTube videos, read articles & blogs, buy products like books and DVDs. I do it because I like connecting with the EFT community and mostly to gain new benefits EVERY single time I tap.

I've found a lot of information and I've taken a lot of notes so if you stick around this page, I'm sure you'll discover something that will help to improve your EFT tapping results.

Just so you know, this lens aimed at the people who are already aware of EFT but you can visit my other EFT web pages for an intro to the basics:

Introduction to EFT | Learning The EFT Tapping Technique | EFT Articles, Products & Links

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Essential EFT Tapping Tips 

  1. Drink a full glass of water before
    tapping to stimulate and prepare
    your body's electrical system
  2. You can tap down either side of
    your body with the first 2 fingers of either
    or both hands, or try crossing over
  3. Don't tap too hard. Use the same amount
    of pressure you would as if you were
    drumming your fingers on a table.
  4. Take a slow deep breath after you
    complete a round of tapping to help
    move the energy through your body
  5. Yawning during tapping is a sign that
    you are releasing energy, so let
    out the yawns and keep going
  6. When you tap along with a group of others
    (either live or via recording), you will
    experience "borrowing benefits" whether or
    not you are the "primary tapper".
    So always tap along.
  7. The key to tapping is to "tune in" and always
    ask yourself "How does saying this or thinking this
    make me feel?" and that will be your guide.

"The best question to ask yourself to find out why you're blocked is...
What's the downside?"

Identifying The Downside 

The key to unlocking your blocks

I give credit for this question to Master EFT Practitioner, Dr. Carol Look. She has been practicing EFT with clients for over 10 years and has found this to be THE most useful question to ask when trying to reach core issues with your EFT tapping.

Let's take an example of someone who wants to quit smoking. Intellectually of course they want to stop - but something is keeping them from successfully quitting.

The same is also true for:
losing weight,
procrastinating on a task,
achieving success in your business,
healing yourself from illness,
improving your athletic performance...


So when you ask yourself, "What's the downside?", in other words, "What would you be risking?" if you were to accomplish this task or goal (ie: quit smoking)?" it may not be obvious...but then dig a little deeper and see what comes up when you answer these questions:

Who wouldn't like it if?
What things would you not be able to do anymore if?
What other kinds of changes might occur if?
What would you be afraid would happen if?
What happened the last time you did this?
Who else might be affected if?
What good thing might happen if you didn't do this? (upside)
What new thing would you have to do that you may not like if?


You might start to think of real examples like:
My friends who still smoke may not treat me the same
I might gain weight after I quit
I might fail again and I couldn't handle that
I might disappoint myself and my family
I remember last time I quit, that was around the same time that I lost my job
I wouldn't have to work hard and feel pressure to succeed
I'd get to keep use smoking to relieve my stress
I don't feel safe doing it because I don't like change
I won't be able to go to my favorite places because it's too tempting.
It's too hard and I don't want to try.


Do you see how underneath the superficial idea of quitting smoking there are other limiting beliefs that could be in the way of your success? Each of these aspects holds a new opportunity for EFT tapping to peel away the layers getting closer and closer to reaching your goal.

There is always some benefit that we are receiving by hanging onto a perceived block or problem. You can actually flip the question and ask, "What's the upside?" What benefits do you get if you don't succeed?

Often, just with EFT tapping on the underlying issues that you uncover, it melts away your resistance and your feelings and results will change.

Tell The Truth With Your EFT Tapping 

The main focus with EFT tapping is to identify your true feelings and give yourself a voice.

It's not "good" or "bad" to feel how you feel, it just is the way it is. Honestly, it's still a part of your energy system whether you talk about it or not so why not tell the truth about it?

You might be confused thinking that it's not good to bring up your "negative" thoughts because you're often being told to "think positively."

Thinking only positive thoughts isn't realistic or even possible.

We can't deny that we will always have both sides of our emotions, that's what makes us human. So by identifying and saying your true feelings out loud, you allow yourself to acknowledge your fears, doubts, pain, hurt, disappointment, etc. that are often a subconscious part of you anyway.

Then what you're doing is matching your conscious thoughts with the vibration you already have in your body. EFT tapping gives you the tool to be able to release your negative thoughts and limiting beliefs and replace them with ones that serve you better.

TOP 10 EFT TAPPING TECHNIQUES

by Dr. Carol Look

Read the article
Listen to audio recording #63

EFT often works when nothing else will. 

I dare anyone to watch this video and not get excited about the possibilities of EFT.

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Top EFT Learning Resources, Products & Links 

*BEST EFT PRODUCTS* Carol Look's Online Store
It's no secret that I think Carol Look is THE most talented EFT practitioner in the field. She has spent over 10yrs developing her technique with real clients. She has released multiple life-changing EFT products that are available here in her online store. There are none better.
**TOP PICK** "Try It On Everything" DVD EFT Documentary
A compelling documentary which films 12 people over a 4-day period as they use EFT tapping for the first time and get amazing results. THE best tool to introduce the power of EFT to friends, family and various groups. The bonuses offered will truly blow your mind!
The World Center For EFT
The #1 online resource for learning EFT tapping with thousands of articles with case studies, global practitioner lists, training resources, Gary Craig's EFT certification program. If you haven't been here, you haven't even begun this journey.
EFT Training Workshops on DVD
EFT founder Gary Craig's library of training DVDs are the quintessential EFT learning tool. I'd say 99% of all the practitioners I've come across refer to these DVDs in some way or another. Both EFT enthusiasts and practitioners find this workshop series critical in learning the most effective tapping techniques.
Downloadable EFT Podcasts
Hosted by experts Carol Look & Rick Wilkes, each 20 minute podcast answers one of the most common EFT tapping questions. A practical take on how to use EFT in every day life - each podcast includes tap-along sessions.
EFT Audio Tips & Live Sessions
If you want to experience "borrowing benefits", you can listen to Rick Wilkes give free online EFT audio tips as well as tap-along with his recorded sessions.
Pain Relief With EFT
More great products from Carol Look and Rick Wilkes, this online coaching program is for those who want personal EFT training on how to relieve pain with EFT tapping.
Audio Interviews With Top EFT Experts
In depth interviews and EFT tapping sequences from experts at EFT-Revealed.com. Downloadable online audio clips on dozens of common issues and topics. Some of my favorite recordings all courtesy of the "Try It On Everything" filmmakers.
Great EFT Products and Free Teleseminars
AnaMaria Herrera's site www.GotEFTSystem.com has a great blog and newsletter. She often includes free audio tapping sessions & holds free teleseminars. One of the most accessible EFT practitioners out there who also offers affordable and valuable online products.

Trouble Getting Started w/ Your EFT Tapping? 

TRY THESE SET-UP PHRASES:

If you can't identify your issue specifically start with:
Even though I:

have this conflict,
am not clear on my issue,
don't know what to tap on,
am not sure why I feel this way


You might need to tap on your anxiety about EFT tapping:
Even though I:

am afraid I'm not doing it right,
am convinced that it'll never work for me,
don't want to make a mistake,
don't believe this is going to work,
don't know what words to use


HERE ARE VERY POWERFUL "EVEN THOUGH" PHRASES:
Even though a part of me wants to/doesn't want to:
hang onto this problem,
sabotage myself,
continue to feel this way,
stay here because it's safe...


Even though I'm convinced...
that it can't possibly be this easy,
that this is all I deserve,
that I won't be safe if things change

List Of Negative Emotions 

EFT tapping helps release your bottled up feelings

Here is a helpful list of negative emotions that can be used to uncover hidden issues and traumas.

Just let yourself recall moments when you might have felt any of these emotions and see if they trigger an emotional response that you can then tap on.

Fill in the blanks:

"I felt ______________ when ____________ happened to me."
"I felt ______________ when ____________ did/said that to me."


Dignity/Respect/Self-Worth Issues
Ashamed
Beaten down
Cut down
Criticized
Dehumanized
Disrespected
Embarrassed
Humiliated
Inferior
Insulted
Invalidated
Labeled
Lectured to
Mocked
Offended
Put down
Resentful
Ridiculed
Stereotyped
Teased
Underestimated

Freedom & Control Issues
Bossed around
Controlled
Imprisoned
Inhibited
Forced
Manipulated
Obligated
Over-controlled
Over-ruled
Powerless
Pressured
Restricted
Suffocated
Trapped

Love/Connection/Importance Issues
Abandoned
Alone
Brushed off
Confused
Disapproved of
Discouraged
Ignored
Insignificant
Invisible
Left out
Lonely
Misunderstood
Neglected
Rejected
Uncared about
Unheard
Unknown
Unimportant
Uninformed
Unloved
Unsupported
Unwanted

Justice/Truth Issues
Accused
Cheated
Falsely accused
Guilt-tripped
Interrogated
Judged
Lied about
Lied to
Misled
Punished
Robbed

Safety Issues
Abused
Afraid
Attacked
Frightened
Intimidated
Over-protected
Scared
Terrified
Threatened
Under-protected
Unsafe
Violated

Trust Issues
Cynical
Guarded
Skeptical
Suspicious
Untrusted
Untrusting

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Powerful Affirmation Phrases That Bring Great Results 

AFFIRMATION PHRASES:
Here are some of the most powerful affirmation
phrases to use with your EFT tapping:


I'm willing to...
I'm considering...
I'm ready to...
I'm open to...
I choose to...
I prefer to...
I intend to...
I decided to...
I choose to believe...
I love feeling...
I give myself permission to...
I allow myself to...
I feel excited about...
I am grateful for...
I wonder if I could...
Wouldn't it be fun if...

And you can mix and match these positive affirmations
with one of these many helpful phrases:


...love and accept myself anyway
...love and accept myself no matter what
...love and accept all parts of me
...love and accept my feelings
...forgive myself for feeling...
...know I did the best that I could
...accept things just as they are
...be okay with where I am NOW
...feel safe
...be at peace
...feel powerful
...be inspired
...feel calm and confident
...trust my inner guidance
...trust that everything will work out
...release the need to...
...let it be surprisingly easy
...let go of the guilt, the shame, the resentment, the judgment, the fear...

List of Positive Emotions 

Choose the ones that best fit your mood when you're tapping in your affirmations. Sometimes when you hit on just the right word you'll really feel the relief that your level of discomfort has decreased.

Able.. Absolved.. Abundant.. Accelerated.. Acceptable.. Accepted.. Accepting..Accomplished..Accountable.. Achieving.. Active.. Adaptable..Adequate.. Admirable.. Admired.. Adored.. Affluent.. Agreeable.. Alert.. Ambitious.. Amenable.. Amused Appreciated.. Approving.. Assertive....Assured.. At ease.. Attached.. Attentive.. Attractive.. Authentic.. Awake.. Aware.. Awesome

Balanced.. Beautiful.. Believing.. Blessed.. Blissful.. Bonded.. Brave.. Bright.. Brilliant

Calm.. Capable.. Captivated.. Cared For.. Careful.. Caring.. Centered.. Certain.. Cheerful.. Cherished.. Clean.. Clear.. Collected.. Comfortable.. Comforted.. Committed.. Compassionate.. Complete.. Composed.. Comprehending.. Confident.. Congruent.. Connected.. Conscious.. Constant.. Content.. Cooperative.. Courageous.. Credible..

Daring.. Decisive.. Defended.. Delighted.. Dependable.. Desirable.. Dignified.. Discerning.. Disciplined.. Distinguished.. Dutiful.. Dynamic..

Eager.. Easy-going.. Ecstatic.. Edified.. Efficient.. Elated.. Elegant.. Elevated.. Emancipated.. Empowered.. Encouraged.. Energetic.. Energized.. Enthusiastic.. Euphoric.. Exceptional.. Excited.. Exhilarated.. Experienced.. Expressive.. Exuberant..

Faith.. Fantastic.. Favored.. Firm.. Flexible.. Flowing.. Focused.. Forceful.. Forgiven.. Fortified.. Fortunate.. Free..Friendly.. Fulfilled..

Gentle.. Genuine.. Gifted.. Glowing.. Good-natured..
Graceful.. Gracious.. Gratified.. Grounded.. Growing..

Happy.. Harmonious.. Healed.. Helpful.. Heroic..
High.. Honest.. Honorable.. Honored.. Hopeful..
Humble.. Humorous..

Important.. In control.. Included.. Independent..
Infatuated.. Influential.. Innocent.. Inspired..
Intelligent.. Interested.. Invigorated.. Invincible.. Invited..

Jovial.. Joyful..Jubilant.. Judicious..

Kind..

Learning.. Liberated.. Light.. Lighthearted.. Loose.. Loved.. Loyal.. Lucky..

Magnetic.. Marvelous.. Masterful.. Mature.. Meek..
Merciful.. Methodical.. Mindful.. Modest.. Motivated..

Neat.. Noble.. Non-judgmental..

Observant.. Open.. Open-Hearted.. Organized.. Outgoing..

Pacified.. Pampered.. Pardoned.. Passionate.. Patient.. Peaceful.. Perfect.. Persevering.. Pleasant.. Pleased.. Popular.. Positive.. Powerful..
Praised.. Precious.. Prepared.. Present..
Productive.. Proficient.. Progressive..
Prosperous.. Protected.. Prudent.. Punctual.. Purified.. Purposeful..

Qualified.. Quick..

Radiant.. Rational.. Reasonable.. Reassured..
Receptive.. Recognized.. Redeemed.. Regenerated..
Relaxed.. Release.. Reliable.. Relief.. Relieved..
Remembered.. Replenished.. Resolute.. Respected..
Respectful.. Responsive.. Restored.. Revitalized..
Rewarded.. Rooted..

Satisfied.. Secure.. Selfless.. Self-Reliant..
Sensational.. Sensible.. Sensitive.. Serene..
Settled.. Sharing.. Simple.. Skillful.. Smooth..
Soothed.. Spirited.. Splendid.. Stable.. Steadfast.. Strengthened.. Strong.. Successful.. Supported.. Sustained..

Tactful.. Teachable.. Temperate.. Tenacious..
Tender.. Thankful.. Thoughtful.. Thrilled..
Tolerant.. Tranquil.. Triumphant.. Trust.. Trusting..

Unbiased.. Understanding.. Understood.. Undisturbed.. Unhurried.. Unique.. United.. Unselfish.. Upheld..

Valiant.. Valuable.. Valued.. Virile.. Vital..

Warm.. Wealthy.. Willing.. Wise.. Wonderful..
Worthwhile.. Worthy..

Yielding..

Zealous..

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Will You Feel Differently After You Tap? 

Of course there's not just one answer to this question but here are a few things you might experience if you simply tune into your body.

  • Sometimes you'll feel an overall calm and peacefulness
  • Sometimes you might just smile and it feels easier to breathe
  • Sometimes you'll notice that you have better clarity in your thoughts
  • Sometimes you might feel powerful, giddy or really optimistic
  • Sometimes you'll get a tingly or warming sensation throughout your body
  • Sometimes you'll feel a release of emotions & lighter and less tense
  • Sometimes you won't feel any real shift

How Will You Know EFT Tapping Is Working? 

Admittedly, the effects can be outwardly subtle but inwardly very profound. The best part is knowing that EFT is always working on some level, every time you use it.

  • A fear you have had all your life..... is gone!
  • A worry about your health, your work, a relationship, or another ongoing issue has decreased so radically that you see the situation entirely differently.
  • You feel easier and more optimistic about things and this makes a huge difference in how well you handle similar issues.
  • The traumatic after effects of a disaster, accident or shock have been diffused. Although you can remember the incident, it no longer upsets you.
  • A tendency to tighten-up ("freeze") at a crucial moment when participating in a sport or other public performance is...... no longer there. You can relax and let your natural abilities take over.

Care To Give A Squid-ucated Guess? 

How long will it take before EFT is accepted and used by the mainstream?

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Janelle Sagen says:

It's our job as practitioners to show as many people as possibly the wonderful miracles that EFT has to offer. With all of us working hand in hand to help Gary realize his dream as well as our own I think we will surprize ourselves. As believers in the great Laws of Attraction why not already "see" the results we want and watch the magic...all the best, Janelle EFT-ADV Los Alamitos, Ca

Margo_Arrowsmith says:

Well, Gary says we are in the basement of a healing high rise. Its frustrating, but that is a base.

I have found that more and more people have heard of it and accept it.

seeker117 says:

The longer it takes is the world's loss unfortunately - but it's coming! Especially with the accelerated personal development movement that we've seen recently. I can see a show about EFT tapping being featured on Oprah, PBS or HBO in the next year or two. So those of us who know the power of EFT just need to keep spreading the word.

 
 
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Janelle wrote

Thanks for the follow! Look forward to running into you on Twitter and of course on Squidoo! Best of the best to you, and STAY INSPIRED!

Reply Posted November 16, 2008

oneskms wrote...

I found this lens via another lens, really looking into EFT to quit smoking - 5* and favourite

ReplyPosted October 13, 2008

WhiteOak50 wrote...

Great Lens. I would like to invite you to join Herb Garden of Alternative Healing I think this would make a great addition to the group. Hope to see you there.

ReplyPosted September 27, 2008

InspireU wrote...

awesome awesome awesome!! I love your lens. How magnificent is EFT??!! Excellent work! Thanks for visiting my lens. I will keep in touch

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seeker117 wrote

I have turned on my 'contact me' and would love to hear from anybody, thanks for the tip Margo.

Reply Posted August 13, 2008

Margo_Arrowsmith wrote...

Hey, great lens!

Please turn on your contact me! Lots of people will want to talk to you!

I am now a fan.

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carterboylston wrote...

Sandy,

I wonder if you are on the Boundless Living Challenge and how I could find you? I love what you've put together here and will be using these statements to help create my own tapping sessions based off the things that I've learned so far.

Excellent work!

ReplyPosted July 24, 2008

thetappingman wrote...

Sandy, you've done a really great job on covering EFT Tapping Tips. The info and layout are both fantastic. Be sure to add your lens to the EFT Lenses Group

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