Eulogy For A Son

Sample Eulogy For A Son

It is hard for me to put into words the grief I am feeling.  It is any parent's worst nightmare to bury their child, and today, I am faced with that nightmare.

I remember the day Nicholas was born as if it were yesterday.  He was a premature baby, which gave Ron and I quite a scare.  He had to stay in the hospital for a couple of weeks, and I remember those 14 days being the longest of my life.  When he got out, and I could finally hold him, I felt so complete.  I fell in love with him immediately.  He was the most precious thing I had ever laid eyes on.

I never wanted Nick to get hurt.  I think because he was a premature baby, I was overly protective of him.  Nevertheless, he always seemed to be engaging in very adventurous activities.  He loved his dirt bike, and motorcycle.  Nick was happiest outdoors.  He always said all he needed was his bikes and a sleeping bag, and everything else would take care of itself.  I used to role my eyes when he said that.  Deep down I knew he was just a little boy inside.

Nicholas taught me so much about life and myself.  He taught me to always discover and try new things.  Before he was around, I wasn't too keen on the outdoors.  I learned to appreciate the beauty of the world from him.  He taught me the importance of expression.  Nick used to give hugs to just about everyone he knew.  He allowed me to experience motherhood, and for that I am forever grateful. 

But most importantly, he taught me the importance of humor.  Nicholas was always laughing and horsing around.  He made everybody feel so good inside.  He used to say that humor is the cure for sadness, and I began to truly believe that.  He had the most beautiful outlook on life, which fascinated me. 

My sister Erin reminded me of the time when Nick broke his leg from a biking accident.  He had to be in a cast for 8 weeks, which would prevent him from participating in his first racing tournament.  I went to see him in the hospital, crying, which I always did when he got hurt.  But he just looked at me with a huge grin on his face and said, momma, it wasn't meant to be.  Now I can sit around the house and bother you all day.  And then he just started laughing and laughing.  I couldn't help but laugh with him.  His positive mind frame was contagious.  And I know that all of you are firsthand witnesses to that contagiousness.

Charlie Chaplin once said, in the end, everything is a gag.  I know my Nicholas would have believed that.  I know he would want us all to remain humorous and positive here today, and forever.  Son, your humor, dedication, and bravery made you great.  Now with your transition to a greater place, allow it to make us great.  I love you little Nicky.               

More Sample Eulogy Speeches