How to Make My Ex Return My Call

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How To Make My Ex Return My Call

I don't know what it is but when ever we break up with someone, we feel that the first thing we must do is pick up the phone and give our ex a call.

Don't even think about it until you have read further, you don't want to make the same mistakes that others do, then they will never call you back.

I am going to let you in on a little secret, there are MAGIC words to use to get your ex to return your call.

What are those MAGIC words to use to get my ex to return my call?

I can hear you thinking "there can't be magic words to get my ex to return my calls?"

Well believe it or not there ARE! They are so good that your ex will feel compelled to return your calls immediately.

How good would that be?

There are many people just like you who are trying to get their relationship back to the way it was. If only they had a copy of Magic of Making Up to help them along this dreadful path.

So lets see if we can answer your question.. "How do I get my ex to return my phone calls?"

Do not do anything before you have an 'overall' plan in place

The Magic of Making up system has the complete HOW TO laid out for you.

You shouldn't use this technique alone, you need to have an 'overall' plan in place.. you don't want to damage the relationship altogether do you?

When getting my ex to return my call - What should I NOT say?

There is always a what NOT to say!

There are usually 2 kinds of messages that you shouldn't leave

1. Where the message sounds like you are PLEADING "I HAVE to talk to you, please please call me back"
2. Sounding like it is an EMERGENCY "Call me as soon as you get this, it is an emergency"

I know that it is really hard not to sound desperate, as you usually are when you have just broken up with someone. But if you look at these examples again , I think that you can already see what is wrong with both of these approaches.

So I don't think we really need to go any further.

So What Should I Say!

The best thing to do is to use curiosity & self interest to your advantage, these are two of the most powerful forces in the human mind. Using the two together will have them calling you back in no time.

The best approach would to be to use a friendly tone when calling and say something like " I just wanted to let you know that I really appreciate what you did for me. Could you call me as I wanted to thank you in person."

They will be calling you because the curiosity would be to great, they would want to find out what they did that you appreciated. It will get them thinking straight away. Making them feel good that they have done something (self interest), it is positive. No emergencies or I have to talk to you, just a nice friendly approach.

Perfect!

Before you make the call you have to have something in mind that he/she did that you appreciated. It only needs to be a small thing but it needs to be reasonable. Because when they do call you back you don't want to ruin it.

Don't panic... In the Magic of Making up this is all explained as we want to make sure you don't mess it up, you will learn how to do this the easy way.

Having the plan to get my ex to return my call

Please make sure that you have an underlying strategy and plan like the one laid out in the Magic of Making up system BEFORE you call.

If you do make this call without the strategy, and they call you back, you could do more DAMAGE than good if you don't handle it correctly.

It is very important to have laid out what you do before, during and after you get them to return you call. This can be more important than getting them to return your call.

Please use the Magic of Making up system to get your strategy and get your ex to return those calls. We know that it is hard, but we also know that you can do it.

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