Facts About Bullying

Writing about The Facts About Bullying has definitely brought back some memories about bullies I thought I had forgot many years ago. I too was the target of bullying in school growing up until I learned how to deal with the bullies. Telling my parents of teachers did not stop the attacks, that only made them worse.

Creating anti-bullying laws and bullying prevention programs to deal with the bullying at schools, in our communities, and workplace bullying only goes so far but does not put an stop to the bullying. I remember when I would tell the teacher what they were doing, she would scold them and then when they got me alone again it was only worse for me because I tattled.

It was only as I got older that I began to be able to stick up for myself and stand up to them that the bullying stopped. And I understand why. It was because I learned how to defend myself.

The funny thing was I was targeted mostly because of my weight as I was growing up. I got called all the names like "fatty", and so on, and I believed it. Now as I have been able to look back at some old pictures I came across while going through some old picture albums, that I realized I was just big for my age. I don't look fat at all in the photos, so it was just the smaller, but older kids that picked on me, knew they could get away with it because I was afraid of them.

Looking at the pictures I laugh now as I see that I was bigger than all of them and I could have put any of them down and sat on them. So why didn't I do that then?

It was because I was afraid to stand up to them and I let them push me around. When I learned how to defend myself, they became afraid of me. I was never in a fight in my life, but I never backed down and it was this confidence that kept my bullies away from me after that.

It is this confidence that is needed to learn how to deal with the bullies on their own level. It is knowing that when we are able to defend ourselves we don't need to be afraid of bullies and can stand before them in self confidence and determination knowing who we are and what we are capable of.

That is what Total Bully Solution is all about. It is teaching our kids how to defend themselves in a manner that gives them confidence in knowing that they are able to defend themselves if they need to, but also to have control of there actions so as not to fight if at all avoidable.

It is not really sure what the causes of bullying are. Therefore it is hard to know how to prevent bullying in the first place. We find stories about bullying everywhere, including bullying in schools, bullying in the playgrounds, and bullying in the workplace. Often times we don't know if bullying is a problem unless we learn how to recognize the signs of bullying form child bullying to teenage bullying to cyber bullying.

Adam Blum has developed the Peaceful Secret for how to prevent bullying. Find out how your child can stop bullies with confidence and grace, gain the admiration of their peers, and become more self-confidence than they ever dreamed possible.

Click the link below to go to Adam Blum's Total Bully Solution, The Ultimate Guide To Stopping Bullies Quickly and Permanently.
The Facts About Bullying and Adam Blum's Total Bully Solution

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Robert Dorsey