Women And Family Harmony

Bertrand Russell has expressed: "The men prefer timid women, because by protecting them, they arrive to own them."

Do the women need to be protected and by whom? Too many times the 'danger' comes from the inside. I say this because there are times when "the wives are upset, but they offer contentment and confidence; they receive humiliation and they inspire dignity and respect;" (Pope Pio XII)

And all of these are because "a woman has enough strength of soul to support any pain, without need to be consoled."

I have heard men saying that women are silly. Yes, women are silly and that is because they give their all for their family. In opposition to this, men are 'clever', because they are cautious and many, many times this cautiousness is fatal for their family happiness.

Women are always able to inspire love to their husbands, a thing that is not too often found in men. And through their incapacity many times "they deprive their wives of the biggest pleasure that life can give." And as a result "this privation will produce introversion." (Bertrand Russell)

I would very much like to think that each woman is completely aware of her 'power' and influence and to be aware of the fact that they can easily manage their husbands by their choice.

"Men will not admit that they are easily influenced by the women they love, because it is in the nature of the male to want to be recognized as the stronger of the species."

And they are, "they may be 'giants' with indomitable will-power, but that is when they are dealing with other men"

Because, facing the woman they love, men's desire is to please them. From the "prehistoric days, before the dawn of civilisation," until now, "men's nature has not changed. Man's greatest motivating force is his desire to please a woman!" (Napoleon Hill)

So, as it is a real fact, why not take all the advantage that is possible?

Did you hear that "a man's wife may either make him or break him"?

The 'making' and 'breaking' are the results of the wife's decision. Why not 'make' our men by our wishes? Why not 'help' them to please us?

Each wife knows her man; she knows and understands his nature and tactfully she can 'implement' her ideas in his 'reasoning', allowing him to believe that it was he that thought of it first.

And to follow the old expression, "say as he says and do as you want", is good advice, in this way you will maintain the harmony in your family.

And now, let me express something personal. I do not understand what feminist movements are, or why they have the necessity to be 'asking' for equality.

I do not want to be equal with my husband, for any moment. I am already net-superior to him; I gave life to our son, we are both responsible for his education, but to me belongs strongly the task, because "the mother is the source of education and in her the children, surrounded by love, discover easier the straight order of things." (Gaudium et Spes)

Depending on what circumstances the life is putting me under, I am strong, weak, praised, loved, disenchanted, or protected.