HOW to attract a soulmate.

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When it comes to the all-important but little understood matter of attracting love, romance and (especially) how to attract a soulmare meeting, a number of seemingly unrelated issues are involved.

They all have one common denominator, that is they are what we might call intangibes - unseen forces which rely primarily on (1) the power of our thought, (2) alignment with Nature and Universal Laws and (3) whether or not we are living the life we were born to live. They are called, respectively, the Law of Attraction, Feng Shui, and finding our Life Purpose.

This is my controversial soulmate definition!

As I discovered myself, as soon as we know our life's purpose - and start living it - our life changes instantly and we begin to attract those players whose souls agreed to share our performance (read: our lives) and assist us in our true purpose in life. I call them soul agreements - author Caroline Myss (who has appeared on Oprah) refers to them as 'sacred contracts.' They are our true soulmates or twin souls.

What about Feng Shui?

This lens is my attempt to deal with a beginners introduction to that fascinating Chinese concept with Feng Shui tips for love (even Feng Shui bedrtoom tips). But also, to take a look at what I've learned about all three areas of life, issues we in the modern Western world tend to overlook which, it seems to me, exert a huge influence over all aspects of our lives, especially those areas of love, romance and soulmates.
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"From a symbolic point of view as well as from the traditional position of much of Eastern religious thought, no one is in your life by accident." Caroline Myss (who has appeared on Oprah) in 'Sacred Contracts'

How a down-and-out Aussie found a soulmate on the other side of the planet.

I'm living in a leaky old caravan parked by the roadside in a small town in the Aussie bush, with nothing, licking my wounds after experiencing the total failure of my life. Then I'm experiencing an intense and meaningful relationship with a soulmate ... from opposite sides of the planet. She lives in New Jersey, me in Australia. For 6 months I live in a luxury apartment on the banks of the Hudson River across the GWB from NYC. I might just as well have been playing Tom Hanks in the movie 'Sleepless in Seattle', meeting a woman I'd never met for the first time at Newark airport.
Small miracles occurred. In spite of my unlikely situation I was having more adventures and more life experiences than in the days when I thought I had everything. So after searching for answers here's my conclusion ... learned the hard way (again).

My soulmate secret & new soulmate definition

As I learned for myself, in the most dramatic way (bankruptcy), making a few tweeks to your life can also tweek your luck, self confidence, career, success, prosperity, happiness, finding a soulmate, the dreaded Mid-Life Crisis, also in a dramatic way! This is the broader picture where finding the real purpose of your life - just any old purpose won't do - is the very foundation of the mix of life we need to get right if we are to succeed at anything!

"There is nothing wrong with change," said Sir Winston Churchill, the British wartime Prime Minister, "if it is in the right direction."

And that's the crucial question, isn't it. Without a crystal ball how can we ever be reasonably sure which direction is the best one for us to choose? There's a good answer!

You already know what you're meant to do with your life.

It's the single secret to happiness, success, luck, career, self confidence, self esteem, prosperity, good health, even to finding a soul mate. It's the big message I got from having my life crash and burn, ending up homeless, unemployed, penniless and friendless.

What I wish I knew then - what absolutely everyone on the planet should know - is that we all have a unique life purpose, a destiny, a hidden talent if you like, and it is within us waiting to be found (unless we're one of the few lucky ones who've found it already).

We tend to think of destiny as a script for our lives imposed upon us by some external force, God perhaps, over which we have no control.

I have a different view. "Destiny" is a gift we chose for ourselves before we were born - that's right - by our own soul. It's our whole purpose in life - or should be - and failure to find it leads to trouble and, to say the least, bad luck.

"Finding" our life purpose, or destiny, is really a misleading concept because it's not something we have to go out and "get," but rather it's something we need to go within and claim.

You've already got it, because you chose it - even if you haven't consciously realized it. Then you need a plan to bring it into reality - because we create our own reality with our thoughts, an idea recently made popular in The Secret which had everyone talking a few years ago.

Two of the key contributors to 'The Secret' went further. Jerry and Esther Hicks published a series of eye-opening channeled books based on a spiritual take on The Law of Attraction. And Bob Proctor went one better (11 better, actually!) and released his bestselling '11 Forgotten Laws'.

Now there's the new Cosmic Ordering craze: is it really possible to place an order with the Universe for whatever you want? I've found this truly life-changing stuff - literally!

What does science have to say on the matter?

In a 24,000 best seller published by Bob Proctor's organisation, Success Engeering, followed by Luck Engineering, - read about both here! - presented the cutting edge science and quantum physics behind how to literally engineer luck and good fortune into your life or business.

But how do we know what our true life purpose or destiny is when we see it?

In a survey conducted among creative people of all kinds, from science to art, to learn the cause of 'genius' (Uncommon Genius by Denise Shekerjian), most claimed that they followed their intuition, trusted their feelings, or as one respondent replied, "I just trust my beeps."

When I get an irritating feeling up my spine I now know it's not the right thing to do. For too long I ignored that irritating feeling, that unease. But a feeling of exhilaration means, go for it! Project your thoughts into the future and see how you feel.

"Your broader Non-Physical part of you communicates with you," wrote Jerry and Esther Hicks in 'The Law of Attraction', "and has done so from the day you emerged into this physical body. That communication comes in many varieties - but all of you are receiving the basic communication that comes forth, in the form of your emotion. Every emotion that you feel is, without exception, communication from your Inner Being letting you know, in the moment, the appropriateness of whatever you are thinking, speaking, or acting."

To pull all this together in a meaningful whole I recommend this comprehensive up-to-date resource as your definitive guide to undersanding, and implementing, what should really be called the Law of Thought, in your own life.

Your life purpose will ALWAYS utilize your greatest passions, talents and interests.

"Your brain is similar to an iceberg," says psychologist Valerie Dawson. "The 90% of the iceberg deep below the surface is where all the information is that you have been searching for - all the wisdom and the 'knowing' about what you were put on this Earth to do is right there! Inside this part deep within are all the keys to your success, happiness, and abundant life!"

Your life's purpose is already within you!

The Greek philosopher Plato knew this when he wrote in his best-known work the Republic. "Your destiny shall not be alloted to you, but you shall choose it for yourselves." He called it your career on Earth while author Caroline Myss (a guest on Oprah) calls it your mission. Napoleon Hill, in his famous bestseller Think & Grow Rich called the secret to all of life's riches our Definite Major Purpose. Of this he wrote:

"The secret to which I refer ... cannot be purchased for money, for the reason that it comes in two parts. One part is already in possession of those who are ready for it."

"Follow your bliss," said scholar, author and mythology expert Joseph Campbell, "and doors will open where you never knew they existed."

Or, trust your beeps!

I didn't. I had to lose everything before the doors started flying open for me. I don't want this to happen to you (if it does I've just told you what to do about it)!

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PS. You can read the full account of my fate after bankruptcy, of my adventures with nothing, my search for the meaning of it all, and the true mystery that fell into my lap soon afterwards (was it chance or destiny?) in my 211-page non-fiction book 'The Ghost of Granny Fitz: A True Romantic Mystical Mystery Adventure'.
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Find your soul purpose with the help of this beautiful card deck and guidebook

This beautiful 63-card deck (with accompanying guidebook) is to some extent based on the traditional Major Arcana of the Tarot. These oracle cards will assist you in answering life's most profound and pressing questions: What is my purpose in life? and What am I here to learn? They'll also show you how you can quickly and successfully attain your new life goals.

Each card will help you better understand your soul lessons and guide you toward the highest expression of your soul in every aspect of your life. By working with the deck and guidebook daily, you'll enter the most direct path to worldly success, happiness and also experience a profound sense of inner peace and fulfilment.

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Sonia Choquette is a world-renowned intuitive and spiritual teacher who specializes in helping us recognize that we are all endowed with a sixth sense that we can count on. A masterful teacher committed to strengthening intuition in our daily lives, she is the bestselling author of seven books and numerous audio editions. Her books are used in 17 universities. She was educated at the University of Denver and at the Sorbonne in Paris, and holds a Ph.D. in metaphysics.

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"Follow your bliss and doors will open where you never knew they existed." Joseph Campbell.

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Use this Law of Attraction card deck from Esther Hicks

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"Although you've always been surrounded by the evidence of the Law of Attraction, a conscious awareness of this powerful Law will be activated within you as you experience these beautiful cards; and your deliberate control of your experience will be dramatically enhanced. We know that you are meant to live a joyful life; and we also know that conscious, deliberate self-empowerment is essential to be able to live a joyful life. It pleases us to know that theses cards will remind you that you do have personal control of your own life experience." -- Esther and Jerry Hicks

"An awareness of the Law of Attraction and an understanding of how it works is essential to living a life on purpose." ESTHER & JERRY HICKS ('The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham')

50 relationship secrets

Let's face it, how many of us know much about relationships. Yet it's such a critical issue that we should be taught the subject at school. Instead most of us learn by trial and error ... in my case, mostly error. I wish I'd known about Michael Webb.

There are thousands of marriage counselors and millions of relationship self-help books. So what makes his 50 Secrets of Blissful Relationships any different?

First of all, it's great to see that, unlike many other authors, Michael Webb (who has appeared on Oprah as well as many other TV shows) let's you inside his world. You get real-life examples of ways to solve relationship challenges, all based on his own personal life.

Second, unlike many other "experts" and marriage counselors, Michael Webb walks the walk. Inside this book, you learn exactly what he's done to make this a reality. Everything you read, he does or has done to improve his relationship, and that's what I really wanted to see - experience and real-life practice.

The book itself is simply set out with about one tip per day and just continues like this until the end of the book. Just about every tip had me shaking my head in agreement, as it gave me real-life solutions and several of those "a-ha" moments of profound understanding, everything I wish I'd known in the past.

The only real down side of the book is that every tip is set out with the same formula: story or unrelated example, followed by how that example ties into relationships and that exact topic.

If you're impatient or in a hurry, you can always start about halfway down and find out exactly what point he's trying to make.

Also, instead of the tip titles providing a clear "how to solve X problem" or a clear topic description, it simply has a phrase that ties together with the information. Now while this is no big deal, it would have been nice to be able to skim the book to exactly the advice I wanted. Although if you read the information on the sales page, you can work out what information belongs where in the book. So it's not too bad.

All in all, this is one of the best relationship books I've ever seen and these relationship secrets could have saved me a lot of heartache, if not any one of my failed relationships.

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Imagine living your life to your fullest potential. Imagine your creativity and abilities flourishing. Wouldn't it be great if you could achieve a clear mind and purpose? Wouldn't it be awesome if you could reach your goals more easily?

The Feng Shui Action Plan for Total Life Success...

One reason why some people have become frustrated with Feng Shui is because they don't have a clear plan of action to follow, and their biggest life challenges don't get addressed as a result!

They've read books that over complicate and don't provide simple concise steps that lead them to the positive changes they seek.

Would you look for hidden treasure without a map?

Probably not! But if you had a map to guide your every step, then it becomes easy and the treasure is discovered quickly...without frustration or time consuming detours.

It is the same with Feng Shui!

In the ebook Feng Shui Pearls of Wisdom - Living Your Best Life in a Beautiful Environment of Your Own Creation...you'll be working with a simple map known as the Bagua. Each life region of the Bagua map is explored in depth one-by-one.

You'll be given simple steps and suggestions that you can take action on right away designed to shift your luck and fortunes for the better! Each life region on the map correlates to a vital aspect of your life. The Bagua map is the foundation of your Feng Shui Action Plan!

For example, the very middle section corresponds to your Health and how well balanced your life is. Have health challenges? This is where you'll want to spend some time.

The front center helps build Career success. Is your career everything you'd like it to be? Are things moving or stalled out right now? Feng Shui teaches simple actions if you happen to be experiencing career blocks.

The back left corner? This is where we'll be working on Wealth and Prosperity...opening up energy channels so wealth can come to you more easily...

Back right corner? This is where we'll be charging up the romance in your life...whether you're looking to attract a soul mate or need some zest for your existing relationship...

Ling Meng is a Feng Shui expert and author. For more on how Feng Shui can improve every aspect of your life including wealth, success, home and romance visit 'Feng Shui Pearls of Wisdom - for Richer Life, Great Romance, Unlimited Wealth' (which includes some valuable free bonuses) and start to Feng Shui your life within minutes.

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