In memory of an average horse: Fiery Spirit (1983-1989)

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The story of my second horse, a foal to raise as an inexperienced horse-crazy girl, our close bond, mistakes we made, and a tragic end.

A horse named Fiery Spirit. 

Never give a horse a name you are not prepared for him to live up to.

"Fiery Spirit" came into the world in the pouring rain, early in the morning on June 3, 1983. Despite my pleas with his dam, Sugar (Sweet Surprize), for her to foal while I was around, I was on an end-of-school-year 6th grade field trip to Chicago that day, and didn't find out about him or see him until the next day.

one day old

His dam (mother): 

Spirit's sire is unknown, as I received his dam as a Christmas present just that past December. She was reported to be half Quarter Horse and half Tennessee Walking Horse, and since Spirit was gaited, it is highly likely that his sire was also gaited.

My Beer. 

I was EXCITED, you might say! My second horse, a newborn colt (male foal) to raise and train, at the experienced age of 11. It was a short-lived disappointment over the fact that it wasn't my dream of Sugar having a black filly (female foal).

"Beer" (absolutely innocent shortened version of Spirit) and I shared a close bond very few, fortunate horse owners know. I could write for a very long, long time about Beer and some of the times we shared, but then I would just end up crying and I'm not in the mood right now.

a couple of months old, with my dad

Big red. 

Spirit was a red chestnut (reddish-brown) son of a black Tennessee Walking Horse and Quarter Horse crossbred mare, and his sire was unknown as Sugar was pregnant when I got her that previous Christmas.

His mane was the color of his body, but his tail varied from a light blonde at the top to a deep burgundy-black in the center.

To look at Spirit was to behold him. It was if he was gracing you with his presence. He was tall and stocky, burly and big-boned.

(Okay, I was a pretty impressionable kid -- your own horse is always the most stunning horse on the planet, right? I imagined he was Flame, from the Island Stallion book series.)

only a "cute" trick when they are small

Trick pony. 

One of the biggest mistakes a beginner can make with a young horse is to encourage bad behavior such as rearing -- which is exactly one of the mistakes I made as an 11 year old girl with a "cute" playful colt.

Not so cute when they are much, much bigger later in life.

Spirit never had professional training, and was more or less broke by a number of well-meaning kids and young adults unafraid to get thrown.

He was never afraid to remind you that you were only a passenger, never in complete command, on his wide back. To 'control' Spirit would be like controlling the winds and the rains. More precisely, the tornados and the hurricanes.

Once, at a full gallop, he spun in a complete circle and stopped in his tracks, and I'll never know how I managed to stay in the saddle. It happened too fast to think.

Another time, in the middle of a big Independence Day parade in Lansing, Michigan, he decided to stop dead in his tracks. I tried to get him to go forward, and he reared right up on his hind legs. Trying at once to control my fear and calm the onlooking crowd, I tried to play it off like he did it on command.

I must have been as pale as my shirt.

Independence Day parade

Racking horse. 

Beer was approximately 16 hands (a 'hand' is four inches) of sheer power, very stocky and muscular.

He could gallop at a speed that literally whipped the tears from your eyes, with his head held high and not much you could do but hold on and hope for a gradual stop rather than a sudden one.

He also racked (a smooth lateral gait performed instead of a trot but at roughly the same speed) with a sense of pride that was hard to miss.

The only attempt made to get that on video, didn't turn out too well, and most of it was accidentally taped over, but the graphic below was created from a video still from that day.

racking down the road

Racking horses. 

Huggable oaf. 

I've probably drawn the wrong picture of his personality.

Given all of the above, he was also a horse that, upon hearing of my many teenage woes, would lick the tears from my cheeks, and give me a huge horse "hug", holding me tightly against his wide chest with his massive head and cresty neck, and keep me there until the sobbing ceased.

At the only horse show I ever took him to, a high school equestrian meet in St. Johns, Michigan in October 1988 (see portrait below) he did his best to try and do what I asked of him, although we'd never practiced any of the patterns or classes or even transitioning between gaits in the arena. He'd never seen an arena, much less been asked to jog in single file in a big group, or enter alone and run cloverleaf barrels, but he did everything I asked like a champ.

That is the horse I will always remember ... the one who would attempt a cartwheel for me if I only knew how to ask him to.

high school equestrian meet

Gone too soon. 

It was evening, after dinner, on January 3, 1989.

The phone rang. The exact words I don't remember, I knew from the tremble in the caller's voice what they were trying to say, although I didn't want to believe it.

And for years, I tried to convince myself that Spirit was NOT gone, this was some horrible nightmare, and one day, he would come galloping again at my whistle.

It wasn't until I searched the farthest reaches of the woods in the back forty in 1992 and found his weather-whitened bones that it finally became "real" to me that he was gone forever.

An accident that no one could have foreseen took my best friend's life at the age of 5-1/2 (in terms of horse age, just reaching the prime of his life), and a tremendous part of my heart and soul as well.

In my memories and heart he will be forever young. A few of his bones, specifically his skull and a hoof bone (my attempt at a proper Thoroughbred racehorse burial), now rest in a circle of pines, under a bog ore marker (if you don't know what bog ore is, it is a big, bulky, ugly, heavy, basically worthless rock ... it's an inside joke!) with trilliums planted all around.

I'll never forget the fire, and the friend, I found in a horse named Fiery Spirit.

Avoid your own tragedy. 

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Little reminders 

Someone I have "known" for many years online recently was involved in the Extreme Mustang Makeover challenge, and when I saw the horse that they received for the project, I got a little lump in my throat.

Check out Amigo's story at the Rockin' N Ranch blog for last season's challenge.

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Now, the advice ... 

I hope you enjoyed this trip through memory lane with me. If you have any questions about Tennessee Walking Horses as pleasure riding and trail horses, feel free to contact me! I highly recommend the breed, but it is more important to carefully select an individual of ANY breed that has the attitude and abilities you need!

Young inexperienced horses and young inexperienced people usually do not make a good mix. It is often recommended that a person's first horse is an older, well-trained animal. It is dangerous for both human and horse to assume that you can 'learn together'. However, few experiences can equal that of bonding with a young equine and being the first to sit on its strong back and knowing when you become 'one' that no other person could share that feeling. Please be sure to consult a large animal veterinarian before you make any horse purchase. If you will be taking riding lessons, find your instructor first -- he/she can be very helpful in finding the best horse for you!

TWH Pros: Wonderful smooth gait, good temperament, fun to ride!

TWH Cons: Individuals within a breed can be very different, be careful choosing!

The Bottom Line: Horse ownership is a responsibility that must be taken seriously. The horses' temperament and ability must be compatible with that of the rider, or both will suffer.

 

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