Find Filipina Wife - Success Secrets + Action Plan

Although there are many dating websites, I personally know of Filipina women who met their husbands through Cherry Blossoms. But I really am just one Filipina and I'm sure there are Filipinas who met their husbands through other dating sites.


If you're serious about marriage or dating, the last thing you want to do is to show off your big large penis on webcam. Although we're not prudish about sex with our boyfriends and husbands, we tend to think of men who show off as a little bit crazy and desperate. (I think you'd also think the same way of women who show off their tits on webcam on your first few meetings.)

1. Sign up with a Filipino dating site

In order to make it easy to get a visa for her (whoever she is), sign up with a dating website to meet Filipino women. I would suggest that you sign up with Cherry Blossoms because it offers strong visa support services to its members.

Make sure you dress up your profile so that you look attractive.

2. Communicate with many women on the website

At the beginning of your search, make it a point to contact as many women as humanly possible. Contacting ten women per day would be ideal. In order to make it easier, write a letter template to introduce yourself.
Just make sure you that whenever you email, you customize the template to include the woman's name.

3. Narrow the women by formulating a questionnaire

If you contact ten women within a week, you would have 70 women knocking at your door, assuming that they all reply to you. The only way that you're going to narrow the women in the shortest amount of time is by formulating a questionnaire and ticking them off as you chat with each woman.

Your questionnaire should be based on what you want. I got this idea for a questionnaire from a Canadian friend who also included in his questionnaire "Will you give me a blowjob twice a week?"

You may not want a blowjob twice a week, but you have needs that need to be met, so make sure to put it out there.

4. Decide on three or four women

Take the results of your questionnaire and add a few other factors to decide on three or four women you're going to be regularly communicating with for at least one month. One important thing to take note: please do not commit to any of the women until you've met them in person.

Also, do not tell any of them that you're seeing other women. Although they are aware that they're not the only ones you're seeing, most Filipino women will find it rude if you talk about the other women to their faces. They might even call you crazy in your face without you knowing it.

5. Meet the women in person

When you're ready, make plans to travel to the Philippines to meet the women. There are two things I suggest you do NOT do:
(a) have any of the women meet you at the airport, and
(b) meet the women at a beach resort

Meet ups at the airport and at a beach resort are typically only done when you're already in a relationship or you're planning to commit to the woman you asked to meet you there.

The safest places for first time, in-person meet ups would be at a hotel lobby or some coffee shop. (Yes, you can find a Starbucks in the major cities.)

Make the most of your time in the Philippines to ask a lot of questions. If there's someone you'd really like to get to know, visit her at home and check out her family (and her house).

6. Choose one

You will know from your visit which woman you'd think would be good for you. You have to make your "couple-dom" official though, like the way we do it in the Philippines. The only way I know to do this is to ask her what your "status" is as a couple. Unless if you make it official, so to speak, she will think you're just "chatting" and nothing more.

In case you didn't know it yet, there are around 7,107 islands in the Philippines. This set-up has led to the development of many languages and sub-cultures. But I can draw up some valid generalizations about us:

* As a way to express our love to them, we are expected to start giving money to our parents - or pay for the household bills - when we start to earn money

* Our culture encourages to help our relatives when they need it (this is something that I have also discovered in Korean culture)

* Depending on your Filipina's situation, you could be talking to someone who is the breadwinner of the family, or someone who gives to her parents on a whim (like me)

Apart from compatibility, understanding and, more importantly, respecting and accepting the cultural points stated above is actually the single most important key to successfully marrying a Filipina.

If you're serious about marrying a Filipina, at some point this is something you have to talk about. Take note, however, you don't have to give money to your future in-laws, but you have to allow your wife to earn her own money, especially if you decide to settle in your home country and not the Philippines.

We Filipinas are relatively easy to talk to and are generally respectful of our husbands' opinions/decisions, so having this kind of money conversation with your Filipina wife shouldn't be a problem, unless if you yourself have problems with our culture. :o)