Finesse Helps You Earn More and Love Life

That is so ground into those of us seminar junkies. "Come to the free seminar - but you need to know more - buy the book course - but there's more training - go to boot camp", and so on. Making you feel that if you don't go through the entire thing for thousands of dollars you will never make it. Uhhhg! I have a feeling that even in boot camp they have something to keep you feeling like that's not all.

I tell you what I did. After I left the seminar I found the exact course for cheap on eBay, from people that never even looked at it. Now there they are, I read a few of them, and I lend them out. So much of the stuff is quickly out dated

I know you hear it all the time, but activity is the best learning tool. Read or listen through things and just do, it's all in your head.

Does a house rehabber figure out how to clean up a house and making it look nice from reading? Not really! You can't go from reading to making a house look awesome instantly. It's a whole different thing. The good rehabber have been at it for years. When a situation comes up, they know how to deal with it, only from years of situations. Most gurus you see have one aspect of real estate they teach.

Don't be in such a hurry!

Your own business still makes you more money that a job ever will, but you need to give yourself time to gain finesse. You get paid well when you master something and add value.

Recently Jim went to buy some models from a guy that works for Boeing. The guy built concept models and mockups. He could take a basic model from the hobby shop and make it look so real an smooth, that it would look better than the real thing.

Here's a photo of a cockpit he made for a concept fighter. He made the man and the entire thing from his hands, there were no kits already made for him. Even the pilot is made out of clay or something.

And look the dash lights up. Simply amazing!

I said to Jim while looking at it, "I sure hope he gets paid well." Jim said he had asked, and they guy said "I get paid more than I ever dreamed"

Here's a guy doing what he loves, it's all he does, and he is excellent at it.

Sure lots of people build models, but do they ever stick with it enough to be recognized by a major company for the quality of their work? Time and practice make a much bigger difference than people realize.

Books and notes can't teach your hands to build a nice model, we don't see or feel things in words. You have to learn the finesse that comes with time and practice.

The Pilot!

I've been to flight school myself, there's 2 books and some slide rule things to learn, but hours and hours of time flying is required.

This pilot here didn't get to fly this special jet over night and you know that! He's the best of the best because he lives and breaths flying. He has finesse!

The feeling of finesse

Is there something you do well and people ask you how you do that thing you do, but you have not answer?

You just do it because you have done it for so long, it's second nature to your mind and muscle. Like instinct.

You get finesse in something by getting to that point.