Turning your Friend into Your Lover

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Changing from Friends to Lovers

At a certain point in our lives, we might think about the possibilities if we acted on certain urges. One of the biggest urges we feel and wonder about, is what would happen if our best friend became our girlfriend, or lover.

So let's explore the options and discover how the Friend to Lover transformation takes place!

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Making the choice

So you are reading this because you have reached a point in your life where things are a-changing.

That friend of yours who you have either known for a few years, or have spent a lot of time with over the recent past, is starting to look a little bit different to you.

But firstly you have to decide just what it is you feel. Is it lust or love? Is it physical attraction, or is it so much more than that?

What ever you decide, what you must know is that there is always a way to be able to make those feelings become reality.

There are so many places to look for ideas and advice on the internet that you could find yourself bogged down with things to read and watch, and never have enough time to act on your desires - and in the worst cases you could miss out all together. Imagine if your friend ended up in someone elses arms and you had not even given it a shot. That would be a real sickener. Don't get lost in research.

If you really have few, or maybe no ideas about how to attempt to make your friend your girlfriend or lover, what you really need is a guide. A helping hand to point you in the right direction. A really good place to start (and you will probably find you don't have to look much further) is here - Friend to Lover - click the link and make it happen.

Remember to think about what you want, make sure you have a solid guide,but most of all make sure you follow through with attempting to make your friend your girlfriend, and who knows what the future might hold?

When dating, when do you start to expect sex?

The Dating Waiting Game

In my opinion, it depends on what the relationship was before the dating started. If you meet someone in a club, and then have a couple of dates, things can move pretty quickly. There is an excitement to the new relationship based on physical attraction. And in a way, our barriers to sex are lower when we are attracted to someone from the outset.

If sex doesn't occur on the occasion of meeting (which if we are honest, happens a great deal) then at least the subject will be tackled on the 2nd or 3rd meeting.

If, however, you start dating a friend you have known for a period of time, the situation is slightly different. You like each other because you are friends already, but there is a hesitation because of this friendship - a fear of going too far and not being able to go back to the safe regularity of that. Sex between friends that date, in my opinion, will occur quite a while after it would between virtual strangers. But I believe this is just a consequence of the society we live in.

Becoming friends is very important to the ongoing state of a relationship, you can seek the opinions of others here - Dating Advice - click and join in the discussions and in the same place you can give others your experience and advice too.

If you only remember one thing, make it this! Until I find something else!

Cheekiness

For whatever reason, women seem to love a cheeky guy. They seem to like someone who has a sense of fun, but is not geeky about it. We are not talking practical jokes here, no buckets of water balanced on an open door, no whoopee cushions. These are little cheeky things that will make you smile, and draw you closer together.

Imagine a walk along the beach, barefoot and arm in arm. Now imagine that you playfully flick some water over her with your foot (this is where a bit of judgement comes in - you have to have some idea of her limits!). Let's assume for now that she likes this 'fun little game'. Well this moment of cheekiness can lead almost anywhere! From a full scale splashing match, to a chase-me-chase-me run along the beach, anything could happen. I'll let you decide where that one could end up.

Or what about when you are having a coffee together? If she has a frothy coffee - being cheeky would mean scooping a bit of the froth up for you self. If you have one, then putting that froth on her nose would be equally as cheeky. But again - cheeky can turn to chumpy really quickly if you go too far, so just know where to hold back.

Cheeky is a really good way to put a woman at ease. We all love to laugh, and a man who can make a woman laugh is more than half way to being what she wants.

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Is There a Chance of Finding a Girlfriend?

Everyone needs a bit of encouragement, and yes, I do believe anyone can find a girlfriend!

Well, this got me thinking about when I was at school. I left 13 years ago at the age of 18, and in all that time at school I only kissed one girl. And that was at our leaving party and it was pretty bad.

Looking back now, I know that I was a very shy teenager. I had no self confidence and didn't know how to act around girls. It wasn't until I was 20 that I had my first girlfriend. Now I'm not suggesting that you guys have years and years to wait, that's just how it was for me.

I would suggest making friends with a few girls first. Go to clubs and societies that are of interest to you and get involved with the activities they put on. You will find that you make friends with both sexes, but you will also develop the social aspect to your life. In my experience, the time when you least look for someone special, is the time that they turn up!

There is always a chance of you finding a girlfriend, but honestly, the best thing to do is to not worry about it. One day you will find that she will be there, and when that day comes you just have to be confident enough to try not to let her get away.

I hope this helps you, and I hope that the special lady you are destined to meet comes along sooner rather than later. Have fun Finding a Girlfriend!

How to find a good girlfriend?

Finding a girlfriend... how easy it can be...

How do you find one? What makes you think you have not found her already?!

Good girlfriends are hard to find, that much is true. But who do you have in your life at the moment? I guess you have a social group of friends that you hang out with,or go to clubs with, or something. And I guess within that group, there are females?

Well these girls are already your friend. You have done the hard part by doing that! But look at them more closely. Is there one that stands out as more than just a friend? Do you have more fun with her than you do with all the other crowd?

I have found that the best girlfriend I, and my friends have had, have been friends for a while. Before finding a girlfriend, why not look at what the girls who are already your friends could be to you?

The transition from friend to girlfriend can be tricky, but if it works, believe me it can be the best feeling ever.

Good girlfriends can sometimes be right under your nose!

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