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What is a "Bear" in gay terms?

Bear is LGBT slang term for those in the bear communities, a subculture in the gay/bisexual male communities and an emerging subset of LGBT communities with events, codes and culture specific identity. It also describes a physical type.

Bears tend to have hairy bodies and facial hair; some are heavy-set; some are muscular; some project an image of working-class masculinity in their grooming and appearance, though none of these are requirements or unique indicators. Some bears place importance on presenting a hyper-masculine image; some may shun interaction with men who display effeminate style and mannerisms, although some actually exhibit these traits themselves. The bear concept can function as an identity, an affiliation, and an ideal to live up to, and there is ongoing debate in bear communities about what constitutes a bear. There is also, anecdotally, more acceptance of tattoos and body piercing in the bear community, although this acceptance varies from member to member.

Some state that self-identifying as a bear is the only requirement, while others argue that bears must have certain physical characteristics--such as a hairy chest and face or having a large body--and a certain mode of dress and behavior. However, the concept clearly has certain boundaries of plausible self-identification, and an individual identifying as a bear with none of the usual bear attributes would not be accepted as such by others in the gay community or re-labeled as a bear-chaser or another subset like cub or otter (see terminology section below).

Bear Terminology

Okay we covered what is a Bear, now we are going to to some of the terminology relating to the Bear community

"ADMIRER" is a term that refers to someone who is sexually or romantically attracted to Bears (this term is often used in various communities to describe an outsider who has sexual attraction to people within that community). Also often referred to as a Chaser. Admirers/Chasers can be of any weight, hairy or hairless and any age.

A "BEAR" is hairy man with a stocky or heavyset build and facial hair. Can be clean shaven and of any age.

A "CUB" is a younger (or younger looking) version of a Bear, typically but not always with a smaller frame. The term is sometimes used to imply the passive partner in a relationship. Can be hairy or hairless.

A "DADDY BEAR" is an older guy sometimes looking for a daddy/son relationship with either a younger Bear, Cub, Otter, Wolf or Chaser.

A "LEATHER BEAR" is a bear with a leather fetish.
A "MUSCLE BEAR" is a muscular version of a Bear. A "muscle cub" is a younger or smaller, yet muscular, version. Can be hairy or hairless and of any age.

A "POLAR BEAR" is a silver- or white-haired Bear.

An "OTTER" is a man who is hairy, but is not large or stocky - typically thinner, or with lean muscle. Slimmer version of a Bear with little pockets of fat like love handles or a tiny gut, but not as lean as a Wolf.

A "SPIRIT BEAR" is a Bear that approaches his sexuality and 'inner bear' from a spiritual stand point. Usually rooted in various international and cultural references and traditions. Notably present in pagan communities where being gay is predominantly accepted.

A "WOLF" is a lean, masculine gay man who is attracted to bears and involved in the bear scene.

"Woof" is a greeting often used when a Bear spots another Bear in public and wants to express physical attraction. He might make a growling noise ("Grrr!") or say "Woof!"

A "BEAR RUN" is a gathering or circuit party for Bear/Cub types and their Admirers.

A "BEAR SOUP" is a swimming pool or hot tub full of bears which usually includes lots of group cuddling and frolicking. These are common place at Bear runs.

A "BEARWICH" is a menage a trois consisting of two bears and an admirer. Also common at Bear runs.

Does the bears celebrate?

dancingYes indeed. They sure do. They participate in gay pride parade as part of the GLBT community. Also every year throughout the world the bears have a special event which is called bear pride where the bears throughout the world get together as a celebration and participate with games, contests, competitions meeting new bear friends. There is also Mr Bear & Mr Cub who are chosen for the year. The bears enjoy getting together that they have picnics and dances, etc.

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  • ShellysLGBT Feb 10, 2012 @ 12:07 pm | delete
    Love the lens! An ex-girlfriend and I stumbled into a bear bar once, by accident. We watched mens Olympic diving with the guys. I love the Olympics but I have to say, that was the best time I ever had watching a mens diving competition! The guys in the bar were welcoming to us and full of fun that night.
  • BrianBarou Feb 10, 2012 @ 1:26 pm | delete
    Thanks ShellysLG the bears are very friendly, and don't be surprise to see there shirts off and in their underwear, lol
  • grizbear1225 Oct 9, 2010 @ 7:39 am | delete
    Bears, bears, and bears oh my! I definitely identify with the bear community, love to go on the occasional bear run and connect with other bears. Am still looking for that special bear to be all mine, my beautiful "husbear"

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