Picture Books About Gay and Lesbian Families

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A List of the Best Gay and Lesbian Themed Children's Picture Books

Once there was a book. And he married another book. And they lived happily ever after.

A collection of the best picture books available for children that include or focus on gay or lesbian characters and topics. Whether it's the beloved uncle, the child raised by two mommies, the confused guinea pig or just the child asking questions, these books are both good storybooks, and helpful for children to read to understand themselves, their families and what being gay might mean.Besides, how can another picture book hurt?

Why should you buy a book about gay people for your child? Well, if you or a family member is gay, then it will help them understand (assuming they find it confusing). It will show them they aren't alone - reading endless books, however good, in which the characters never look or act like you gets wearing.

If your child isn't even aware that gay people exist, these books are a nice and non-threatening way to introduce them to some of the less visible parts of society. Having picture books on a wide diversity of subjects helps to educate kids and normalise those topics for them. Strangeness breeds fear, and familiarity and understanding lead to tolerance. And of course, if they discover they're not quite hetero one day, they are much better adjusted to deal with that fact. One day they might need to decide if they are 'normal' - and if they can talk to you

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And Tango Makes Three

A charming real life story about two penguins and the daughter they adopted

And Tango Makes Three is an adorable and enchanting story from real life. Two male chinstrap penguins pair up in Central Park Zoo, and try and hatch their own egg. Sadly, it's a stone. But the keeper took pity on them and replaced it with a real egg - which hatched out Tango, creating a delightful little family.

According to the American Library Association this title also appears in second place out of The 10 Most Challenged Books of 2009 and fourth out of 100 Most Challenged Books of the Decade (2000-2009) due to it containing *gasp* homosexuality.

And Tango Makes Three

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The Boy Who Cried Fabulous

An incredibly fun book about a fabulous boy

A fabulous, lively and beautifully illustrated book that isn't explicitly about gay people, but about a boy who finds everything quite fabulous and ends up sweeping everyone else along with him.

The Boy Who Cried Fabulous

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Heather Has Two Mommies

20th Anniversary Edition

Probably the best known gay picture book, Heather Has Two Mommies was the first lesbian-themed picture book ever published, in 1989. It had to be sel-published, through donations, as no publisher would go near it. It's certainly well up in the most challenged books - number ninth out of the 100 most frequently challenged books between 1990-1999 but it fell off the Top 100 list in 2009.

The 20th Anniversary Edition is edited and rewritten slightly to make it more child-orientated, removing the excessively-textbook content about artificial insemination among other things (when reading reviews on Amazon, bear in mind that the older reviews from early 2009 and before, refer to the older edition).

Heather Has Two Mommies: 20th Anniversary Edition

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Kinderen voor Kinderen song - Two Fathers

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King and King

Sometimes Happily Ever After doesn't need a princess.

An alternative fairytale, this book tells the story of a Prince who has to wed. After rejecting princess after princess, one arrives with her brother in tow and it's happily ever after.

King and King

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Jenny Lives With Eric and Martin

Mette bor hos Morten og Erik

Published in Danish in 1981 as Mette bor hos Morten og Erik, this book was one of the first picture books published about gay families and is still considered one of the best.

Jenny Lives With Eric and Martin (English and Danish Edition)

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A List of the Best Children's Gay Picture Books

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Oh The Things Mommies Do!: What Could Be Better Than Having Two? by Crystal Tompkins

Oh The Things Mommies Do!: What Could Be Better Than Having Two? by Crystal Tompkins

A playful celebration of Lesbian Mothers and their more...2 points

Heather Has Two Mommies: 20th Anniversary Edition by Lesléa Newman, Diana Souza

Heather Has Two Mommies: 20th Anniversary Edition by Lesléa Newman, Diana Souza

The first lesbian-themed children's book ever published-now more...1 point

Daddy, Papa, and Me by Lesléa Newman

Daddy, Papa, and Me by Lesléa Newman

Daddy helps me paint the sky. Papa helps me bake a more...1 point

Uncle Bobby's Wedding by Sarah S. Brannen

Uncle Bobby's Wedding by Sarah S. Brannen

Bobby and Jamie are getting married, but Bobby's niece more...1 point

And Tango Makes Three by Justin Richardson, Peter Parnell

And Tango Makes Three by Justin Richardson, Peter Parnell

In the zoo there are all kinds of animal families. more...1 point

Mommy, Mama, and Me by Lesléa Newman

Mommy, Mama, and Me by Lesléa Newman

Mommy picks me up, up, up. Mama pours juice in my cup. more...1 point

King and King by Linda de Haan, Stern Nijland

King and King by Linda de Haan, Stern Nijland

Once there lived a lovelorn prince whose mother decreed more...1 point

One Dad, Two Dads, Brown Dad, Blue Dads by Johnny Valentine

One Dad, Two Dads, Brown Dad, Blue Dads by Johnny Valentine

Two children-one with blue dads, one from a more traditional more...1 point

The Family Book by Todd Parr

The Family Book by Todd Parr

The Family Book celebrates the love we feel for our more...1 point

The White Swan Express: A Story About Adoption by Jean Davies Okimoto, Elaine M. Aoki

The White Swan Express: A Story About Adoption by Jean Davies Okimoto, Elaine M. Aoki

In China, the moon shines on four baby girls, fast more...1 point

Emma and Meesha My Boy: A Two Mom Story by Kaitlyn Taylor Considine

Emma and Meesha My Boy: A Two Mom Story by Kaitlyn Taylor Considine

This is a delightful story of little girl with two more...1 point

The Different Dragon by Jennifer Bryan

The Different Dragon by Jennifer Bryan

This bedtime story about bedtime stories shows how more...1 point

The Sissy Duckling by Harvey Fierstein

The Sissy Duckling by Harvey Fierstein

Elmer is not like the other boy ducklings. While they more...1 point

Flying Free by Jennifer C. Gregg

Flying Free by Jennifer C. Gregg

A picture book for children of LGBT and diverse fa more...1 point

In Our Mothers' House by Patricia Polacco

In Our Mothers' House by Patricia Polacco

Marmee, Meema, and the kids are just like any other more...1 point

Mom and Mum are Getting Married by Ken Setterington

Mom and Mum are Getting Married by Ken Setterington

A joyous celebration of love. (20041112)1 point

The Boy Who Cried Fabulous by Lesléa Newman

The Boy Who Cried Fabulous by Lesléa Newman

The only thing Roger likes better than exploring t more...1 point

Daddy's Roommate (Alyson Wonderland) by Michael Willhoite

Daddy's Roommate (Alyson Wonderland) by Michael Willhoite

This story's narrator begins with his parent's div more...1 point

Lucy Goes to the Country (Alyson Wonderland) by Joseph Kennedy

Lucy Goes to the Country (Alyson Wonderland) by Joseph Kennedy

Madcap adventures ensue when a gay couple and thei more...0 points

My Two Aunts by Deb Bixler

My Two Aunts by Deb Bixler

My Two Aunts is written and illustrated from the p more...0 points

My Two Uncles by Judith Vigna

My Two Uncles by Judith Vigna

Plans for Elly's grandparents' fiftieth wedding anniversary more...0 points

Pearl's Christmas Present by Thomas Wurst

Pearl's Christmas Present by Thomas Wurst

A NEW HOLIDAY TRADITION! "Pearl s Christmas P more...0 points

Saturday Is Pattyday by Leslea Newman

Saturday Is Pattyday by Leslea Newman

Although Frankie is hurt and confused when his two more...0 points

Losing Uncle Tim (An Albert Whitman Prairie Book) by Mary Kate Jordan

Losing Uncle Tim (An Albert Whitman Prairie Book) by Mary Kate Jordan

Daniel tells about his friendship with his uncle a more...0 points

Do You Think Letting Children Read Books About Gay People Is A Good Thing?

Education or censorship? Which side are you on?

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Education

bloomingrose says:

I think that all people can be loving and kind - great parents no matter how they express themselves sexually. And gay parenthood is more popular now, children will see their class mates with gay parents and they will want to know what is going on.

says:

Of course it is a good thing. People need proper education about all types of relationships not just the ones which have been forced on people over the years.

Sarita says:

It is absolutely a good thing. I has to wonderful to read "gay" themed story books growing up. I know I would have loved it. In fact, I strongly desire homo-centered animated movies (Disney type films.)

Emily says:

Yes, of course!

Hairdresser007 says:

of course children should know about all the different types of people in the world.

jenms says:

Count me as another MS in Library Science who thinks banning books is always a bad thing. When people have access to information and can learn to think for themselves, everyone benefits. I have a feeling no one is going to openly admit they are "for" censorship. Those who are for censorship tend to not see it as censorship, but as "protecting children."

callinsky says:

Censorship has never solved much of anything. Education is key.

sallemange says:

Why not. It's a fact of social life regardless of your moral position.

JenOfChicago says:

Yes, its just like any challenging issue, books can help explain things to children.

resabi says:

Of course it is. The best chance our children have to grow up free of prejudice is to expose them to many cultures and lifestyles (obviously excepting criminal ones!) It's always possible to educate oneself or to unlearn bad lessons, but the ideal is to be untainted by the negatives to begin with. My daughter went to a middle school that had 25 different nationalities in the student body, when several of her closest friends went to more homogenous schools. Now she is comfortable pretty much everywhere; that isn't the case with some of the students who didn't have the same exposure to variety.

Censorship ("protect the children")

 

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Some of the Most Banned Books of All Time

Including three picture books...

Heather Has Two Mommies, And Tango Makes Three and Daddy's Roommate all turn up on this list of terrifying and vile titles, such as The Catcher In The Rye and Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone
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Everyone Should Learn How To Think

Although GLaDOS makes me fear thinking robots

Here's a charming little video from the ALA about freedom from censorship, in which Z-Bot becomes a wonderful and fulfilled robot. The only problem is, after GLaDOs, the concept of a smarter robot is ...worrying.
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How many of these books have you read?

  • bloomingrose May 13, 2012 @ 7:36 pm | delete
    I haven't read any of these books, because I am not in the demographic anymore, but you came up with a great selection. This lens is tasteful, with products obviously hand picked, and with wonderful choice of videos. Angel Blessed!
  • hotbrain Nov 26, 2011 @ 12:23 pm | delete
    This is a great list of children's books about gay and lesbian couples! I hope that these picture books will help kids feel comfortable with the topic.
  • Hairdresser007 Sep 26, 2010 @ 7:16 pm | delete
    Thank you for the lens. The more this information is shared the sooner people we just see being gay as just another way to live.
  • callinsky Sep 23, 2010 @ 6:35 am | delete
    Living out in the country and see many gay prejudice; although, it has gotten much better than what it was when I first moved here 12 years ago. I am delightfully surprised to see by the comments that it's come even further in places that aren't in the middle of nowhere.
  • sallemange Sep 23, 2010 @ 2:19 am | delete
    An informative lens. Anything that helps people make sense of the world as it is has to be a good idea. Censorship is bad because it is the imposition of one persons world view on another. Therefore it is an abuse of power driven from a place of fear.
  • resabi Sep 22, 2010 @ 11:16 pm | delete
    This is a wonderful -- and needed -- lens. I haven't seen any of these books, since my daughter is long past the picture book stage. But now I need to go read them. I haven't visited the world of children's picture books in awhile, so it will be nice to see some new things. Blessed.
  • JenOfChicago Sep 22, 2010 @ 11:15 pm | delete
    This is a very useful list for folks with kids. I'm so glad these books exist.
  • Bus_Stop_Toy_Shop Sep 22, 2010 @ 5:22 am | delete
    This lens made me think - despite the fact we have a number of gay friends, our children don't have a single picture book featuring a gay character (unless you count PC Plum from Balamory obviously). I must make a point of getting hold of one of the ones you've recommended.
  • daoine Sep 21, 2010 @ 6:58 pm | delete
    I think I will probably avoid making an issue of it unless my toddler asks specifically. We've already met one lesbian couple with two children, and I'm sure we'll meet other gay families, so I'm sure it will just be something perfectly normal for him growing up.
  • jenms Sep 21, 2010 @ 6:14 pm | delete
    Great lens - I'm glad you are talking about the concept of censorship, which goes beyond books into any form of media or source of information, including the internet. I've been intentionally keeping myself out of a specific thread in the forum... I could go on a good long rant about the topics in question but I won't - I'm trying to remain neutral... :)
  • NanLT Sep 21, 2010 @ 5:48 pm | delete
    We have come a long way in the past 20 years. I think it is wonderful that children with parents who happen to be gay or lesbian can now see books which reflect the family they live in.

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