How to Get a Guy to Notice You

Have you ever noticed that often when you spy a guy that you fancy he doesn't even seem to be aware that you exist? But, in one of life's cruel jokes, all the guys you wouldn't dream of dating are constantly hitting on you. How can you get Mr Perfect to notice you? These helpful strategies should put you on his radar.

* Pheromones. Research has shown that wearing pheromones really works for women. If you are going to be getting close to Mr Right (perhaps he is in the office, or a mutual friend) then this is worth trying. Basically you add the pheromones to your normal scent, and then apply to various specific points on your body. Recent university studies have shown that single women who wear pheromones consistently attract more men and have more sex than single girls who don't. This is an extremely subtle way of getting his attention (and possibly every other male's in the office or gym).

* Is he really available? Are you sure there isn't a wife, girlfriend, or significant other hovering in the background? Are you sure he plays with girls? Some guys lose total interest in girls when they are still recovering from a broken heart or their esteem is at an all time low from too many rejections, or a long time in the single wilderness. Start playing detective and find out what the story is. You don't want to be propositioning a married or gay guy do you? Similarly, if he is still licking his wounds you may not want to end up being the rebound fling.

* Body language. Sending Mr Right the correct body language signs that you are interested is a subtle way of showing your availability. These signals will be interpreted by him on a subconscious level so you don't run the risk of the blatant rejection. Standing up straight with your tummy tucked in and your chest nicely on display is one way to get his attention. Playing around with your earrings, necklaces, collars, and hair are also strong flirting signals. The aim of the game is for these to be subtle signals, otherwise you may come over as some sort of too obvious pole dancer.

* The subtle approach. The subtle approach can be a smart way to start if the guy you are after is someone you see on a regular basis. If you are going to be eternally embarrassed with a blatant knock back then this is a good way to begin. Start showing yourself off in a good light. A great sense of humor and a big smile will help your cause. Make sure that you can be in the same group on outings, drinks, or dinners.

Make it clear that you are single and available. He may think you are still with someone else, or fancy his mate. Guys can easily get mixed signals. He may well assume that you are hanging around because of one of his mates. Maintain a positive image, and do not appear bitter and twisted or bag out any exes.

Are there places that he drinks, plays, or exercises that you can turn up at? Care should be taken with this strategy that you do not come over as some creepy stalker. There is one thing to change your gym time, or go along with the group from work for drinks, and totally another to start sleeping on his doorstep.

If the subtle approach does not seem to be working after a few weeks to a month, you will need to change your tactics.

* Not so subtle. Where do you know this guy from? Work? Gym? Mutual friends? Being less subtle involves you suggesting to him that maybe you could get together for a drink or lunch. Ask him along to a group event like a party or concert.

If you are very brave you can just ask him out. The word drink should start his brain cells ticking. Do you need a partner for any kind of fancy event? This can be a great way to dress yourself up and show yourself off.

Don't forget that guys will always look first. If he hasn't seen you he will not know that you exist. You are your own gift wrap. Make sure that you are presenting yourself in the very best of lights. You do need to attract his attention. Some guys just need a little hint or signal that you are interested or available.

If none of these campaigns work, then maybe he just isn't interested. Maybe he isn't really your Mr Right. Apply the pheromones and you will no doubt be inundated with many other potential Mr Rights. Where's the love potion? Happy hunting. Coco.
Note: Coco has provided more information on her site about how to get a guy to like you.