Secret to Get Your Ex to Return Your Phone Calls

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Are there 'special' or 'magic' words that you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?

I'm sure this may be difficult to believe but there ARE words
that work for you and make your ex
feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?...

I get this question all the time from people just
like you that are trying to put their relationship
back together.

So I am going to answer..."How do I get
my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"

Get Your Ex to Return Your Calls

BUT...

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WARNING!
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The Magic Of Making Up includes a complete strategy.

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If you use this technique alone, without
an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may
damage your relationship more than if
your ex never returned your call.

What NOT to Say!

Before we cover the actual words, lets talk about what you should NEVER say because it almost never works!

Not only do these messages NOT work, they make you sound desparate and but you in a bad "psychological" framework.

These usually fall into 2 categories.

BEGGING- Where the message sounds like

"Jack, please, please call me. This is the 3rd
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

And the EMERGENCY-

"Kerry, this is an emergency. Please call me
as soon as you get this."

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with
both of those approaches?

And yet, these are the techniques that most of
you use when trying to get your ex to return your calls.

Get My Ex to Return My Calls

How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest to Your Advantage

Two of the most powerful forces in
the human mind are

*Curiosity &
*Self Interest

And here's the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, you
have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'

So...

Let's look at what you can say
that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi Jack. It's Kerry. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you
in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity
and self interest?

Jack will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?"
"What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And
he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now...

Before you call you need to do the
"Set Up"...which is figuring out what
he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...but needs to
be plausible.

But more importantly...

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2nd WARNING!
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Please have an underlying strategy
like in the Magic Of Making
Up System BEFORE you call.

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If you apply this technique with
no underlying strategy and they
call you back you can do more
DAMAGE than good if you do not
handle it correctly.

Okay?

What I am saying is...

What you do before, during and
after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.

Make sense?

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by

Tempe93

Tempe is a relationship counselor and writer who helps people have and maintain the healthy relationships they deserve.

Visit her site at http://www.wehavetotalk.info
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