The reason why you analyze what went wrong with your relationship is to find out if the reason for your break up is fixable or not. It will also determine your chances of winning her back. If she's with another guy or if the break up was really a messy one then your chances are quite slim in winning her back. However, if you think that there is a big chance that you two can get back together again, you might want to move on to the next step which is by changing yourself.

One of the most common reasons why girls break up with guys is because of lack of attraction. So, try making some changes like not acting like a jerk all the time. The change you make with yourself should be demonstrating attractive qualities that you know she likes.

You also need to remember that women date other guys for a reason which is not entirely to hurt you or make you jealous. They seek certain qualities in a guy that you don't have. Maybe you lack confidence, or an interesting personality. Or, maybe you are not exciting enough to be with. It all depends on your ex girlfriend on what she likes to see in a guy. Get these qualities and the next time she sees you, she will be way more interested in you than the guy she is dating.

The next step is dating other women. Although this may seem old, you have to understand that women have a weird and crazy logic when it comes to selecting guys. If she sees the changes in you and you start dating other women, this will definitely make her jealous even if she is also dating another guy. She may not show it but this is exactly how she will feel.

Now that she saw the changes in your life and you are now dating other women, the next step is to contact her and invite her on a friendly date. It shouldn't be a romantic dinner but try asking her out for some coffee and hang out and talk as friends.

It is very important for you to remember that once you and your ex are out on a friendly date, never ask her or convince her to get back with you. Try acting casual around her and just be friendly. If she asks if you are going out on a date with another woman, casually say yes and never be overt about it and talk about something else. This will naturally make her jealous even more and she will find you more attractive.

The next and final step in winning her back is by proceeding with the attraction techniques. You have to remember that you shouldn't directly ask her to get back with you and rekindle things with her but try showing her the things she is missing if you were her boyfriend. What this means is show the positive qualities you have, like being funny, confident and exciting. In short, show her how much fun you can give her.

Finally, if you do it right, she will start realizing that she's missing out the best things about you and when this happens, she will be the one who will pursue you. Once she does this and tries seducing you, try rejecting her advances a bit. This will drive her crazy and she will want you more.

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